Iholide ayizange ifumaneke njengeNgqesho
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba uMhla woLugogo noNtsapho kubangelwa ukunyanzelwa ngabafowuni, iinkampani zamakhadi kunye nabamashishini afanayo. Le ngcamango ayinakukude kwi nyaniso. Usuku lootatomkhulu ngumhla wokubhiyozela ubudlelwane phakathi kwezizukulwana, kwaye imvelaphi yayo yayingenakucaluleka. Iholide ihlale isinyanisekile kwiingcambu zayo.
Imvelaphi yoSuku Lomkhulu
Iingcambu zoSuku lootatomkhulu babuyela ngo-1956 kunye nomama waseWest Virginia ogama linguMarian McQuade. Nangona encedisa ukuququzelela umbhiyozo woluntu kubantu abangaphezu kwama-80, waqaphela abahlali abaninzi basekhaya abahlengikazi ababekhohliweyo zabo iintsapho. Wayefuna iholide ukuba ingqalelo abantu ababalibeleyo kwaye bahloniphe bonke ootata-nkulu. Ngowe-1973 iWest Virginia yaya kuba ngumbuso wokuqala ukuba ube nomhla onjalo.
UMcQuade kunye nabanye batshintshe iinzame zabo kumgangatho wesizwe, bafezekisa ngo-1978. Usuku lwabazali nootatomkhulu luyiholide yesizwe okanye ukugcinwa, kubhiyozelwa unyaka ngamnye ngeCawa yokuqala emva koSuku loMsebenzi, nangona kungabalwa njengeholide.
Injongo yoSuku loNtsapho
Injongo yeholide, njengoko kuchazwe kwinqaku lomthetho, "ukuhlonipha ootatomkhulu, ukunika ootatomkhulu ithuba lokubonisa uthando kubantwana babo abantwana, nokubanceda abantwana baqaphele amandla, ulwazi kunye nokukhokelwa ngabantu abadala no kunika. "
Ngokomxholo weendaba ezivela eWashington Post, abaqholi beeflorist kunye neenkampani zamakhadi okubulisa bavuya kakhulu ngokudalwa kweholide. UMbutho we-American Florists ucebe ukuchitha i-$ 200,000 ukukhuthaza iholide. IHolmarkmark yabikezela ukuba ngo-1983 Usuku lootatomkhulu yayiza kuba yintandathu yeholide enkulu yokuthengisa amakhadi okubulisa.
Abaflorisi kunye neenkampani zekhadi lokubulisa akufanele baxakeke. Usuku lwabazali nootatomkhulu alubhalwanga kwisithuba sezona zihlandlo ezidume kakhulu zokuthengisa amakhadi okubulisa. Iphetshwe yiKrisimesi, Usuku lukaValentine, Usuku lukaMama, Usuku lukaBawo, ukugqweswa, iPasika, iHalloween, iWorldgiving kunye neSuku lukaSt. Patrick. Kwimveliso yeentyatyambo, uSuku loMama, Usuku lukaValentine kunye neKrisimesi bayaqhubeka bezo zixhobo ezinkulu zokuthengisa. Ndicinga ukuba kwakuya kwenza uMarian McQuade ajabule kakhulu. Ngokuya kwiwebhusayithi yeBhunga leSuku lweNtsapho kaZwelonke, uMcQuade wenqabileyo yonke imirhumo kunye neminikelo ehambelana nemizamo yakhe kwaye yachitheka iminyango esuka eHolomark edibene neeholide.
Indlela Yokubhiyozela Usuku Lomkhulu
Namhlanje iintsapho ezininzi zibhiyozela Usuku lwabazali kunye nohlobo lweentsapho. Ezi mfuneko zingabi zicace. Ukutya okulula kunye nexesha lokutyelela kuya kukukholisa ininzi noomkhulu. Usuku lootatomkhulu lixesha elihle lokuxelela amabali entsapho okanye ukujonga kwimifanekiso yamandulo. Imidlalo yeBhodi, imidlalo yekhadi kunye neepuzzle zizonwaba zokuzonwabisa eziphambili. Ukuba intsapho ingathanda ukuphuma, iindawo ezimbalwa, ngokuyininzi kwimyuziyam, ukugubha umkhosi woNyaka woBugogo noNyaka.
Kuyinyaniso ukuba ezinye iintsapho zigubha ngokunikela izipho kubazali nogogo.
Kuyafana ngokuhambisana nomoya weeholide ootata nomkhulu ukuba banike izipho kubazukulwana babo, ngokukodwa izipho ezigubha izithethe zentsapho.
Mhlawumbi isizathu esiyinhloko sokuba Usuku lwabazali nogogo lubalekele ukuxhaphazwa kwezorhwebo. Mhlawumbi abazali abahluphekileyo abanomdla nje abanalo indawo kwiikhalenda zabo nakubungqina babo kwezinye iholide. Ukuba kunjalo, oogogo nomkhulu akufanele bavumele ukuba isihlandlo sihambe singaboni. Ininzi yesizukulwana esincinane iya kuyonwaba ukuthatha inxaxheba ukuba ayifuni ukucwangcisa. Khumbula ukuba enye yeenjongo zeeholide ukunika ootatomkhulu ithuba lokubonisa uthando lwabo ngabazukulwana babo.
Ukuba ayikusebenzelanga ukuba ubone abazukulwana bakho, Usuku Lomkhulu-ntloko lunesizathu esikhulu sokubafowunela, ukubhala phantsi, i-FaceTime okanye i-Skype kunye nabo, okanye nokuba ubhale ileta endala.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ungabathumela ikhadi.