Amathoyizi kunye nezipho zokunceda ukukhuthaza ukukhula
Xa iintsana zidlula i-3-months mark they are no newborns. Kule minyaka, baya kuqala ukwenza okunye-njengokuqala ukufikelela kunye nokuthintela izinto, ukumomotheka, kunye nezinye ziyakwazi ukugqithisa. Ukukunceda ukugcina umntwana wakho ekhulayo ngengqondo kunye nophuhliso, kubalulekile ukuba neentlobo ezisezintwaneni ezonwabileyo kwaye zenze lula ubomi bakho. Amathoyizi adlala umculo, enze izandi ezinokwakheka, okanye uncedo ngexesha lomzimba nje bambalwa abasebenza kwiinyanga ezi-3 ubudala.
Ukuba ungumhlobo okanye isihlobo sentsapho yokuhlangana okokuqala, siye safaka izipho ezinkulu zeli qela leminyaka kunye neetyshi, umama kunye nosana baya kuxabisa. Apha, amathoyizi kunye nezipho ezingcono zokuthenga umntwana oneminyaka engama-3 ubudala.
Eyilwe ukukhuthaza ukuphuculwa kokuphicotha ngomsindo, le bhokisi ye-toy boombox yeentlobo idlala iinguqu ezisixhenxe zee-classic ezivela eMozart ukuya kwiChopin ngelixa likhanyisa ukuze zikhangele amehlo omntwana. Kulula ukuba izandla ezincinci zibambe, umntwana usenokukwazi ukuthabatha i-Take up ngokulula kunye ne-badpillar handle handle. Lesi sipho esipheleleyo kumzali kuba isebenza ekhaya kwaye abazali abaninzi bathi kuyimfuneko yokuhamba ngeemoto kuba kuya kuphazamisa umntwana.
Kwiintsuku ezi-3 ubudala, umntwana akahlali e-unassisted (ngokuqhelekileyo iyenzeka phakathi kweenyanga ezi-4 neye-7) kodwa bafuna ukukhangela kwihlabathi kwaye yilapho esi sihlalo siphezulu sisebenza khona. Umntwana wakho onomdla angakwazi ukuhlala ekhunjulwa kwisihlalo sokuhlala kwi-Fisher-Price Sit-Me-Up kwaye ujonge umama kunye nobaba bahlambuluke ngokukhawuleza kwindlu. Isihlalo sisebenza ukusuka kwiminyaka engama-3 kwaye siyakwazi ukulandelelana baze babe ngama-25 iipounds kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho akanako ukulawula intamo ungafuna ukulinda kancane ngaphambi kokusebenzisa le nto.
Njengokuba kunamacebo amaninzi ahleliweyo, i-AAP icebisa ukuba ungashiyi umntwana wakho phakathi kwexesha elide, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuhlamba ngokukhawuleza kwezitya okanye nje ufuna iimviwo ezimbalwa ngaphandle kwesi sihlalo siya kuphathwa yakho.
Ixesha le-tummy lubalulekile ekuphuhlisweni kwengane kwaye le midlalo yokudlala yenza ukuba umsebenzi ube mnandi ngakumbi kubaxhasi kunye nosana. Umtya oqhekezayo ukhululekile ukuba umntwana ahlale phantsi ngelixa edlala aze ahlolisise kunye namathoyizi afakwe apha. Umntwana uya kufumana i-satin loops, izandi ze-crinkle, isibuko, isilathisi, kunye ne-rattle eya kunceda ukuphazamisa umsebenzi owenzileyo. Kukho umququzo xa umntwana efuna inkxaso eyongezelelweyo xa enza ixesha lomzimba.
Xa ixesha lesisu liphezu komncinci wakho unokunandipha le nto njengomdlalo wokudlala kwaye xa bekhulile bangathanda ukukhawuleza baze bahlawule kwindawo yabo ekhethiweyo. Ekubeni umlenze uncinci kule nto yenza isipho esipheleleyo kubazali abanendawo encinane.
Ngethuba umntwana engazange ahambe-akukho nto ihamba ngaphezu kweesibini zeentsana-ngakumbi njengesipho! Ezi zikhonkwane ezithambileyo ziya kugqiba nayiphi na ingubo kwaye zinike ukufudumala okungakumbi kwizwane zomntwana. Yenziwe ngekhanda lokwenene ezi zicathulo zifika kwiipateni ezingama-29 kunye nobukhulu beminyaka emi-2-3 ukuze ufumane iibini (okanye zimbalwa) kubantwana ebomini bakho.
Ngaphandle kokujonga okulungileyo, ezi zihlangu zikhuthaza ukunyuka kweenyawo kuba izicathulo ezisezantsi zibanceda iintsana zihamba ngeenyawo ezinyaweni. Kwaye ngokungafani nezinye izicathulo zentsana kunye neesokisi, ezi zinto zihlala ezinyaweni ukuze ungagqithanga ukufumana isihlangu esilahlekileyo.
Akukaze kube mncinci ukuba uqale ukufunda kumntwana. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni incwadi, konke ukufunda kunceda ukuphuhlisa ezininzi iingqondo. Kwiinyanga ezi-3, ukufunda kunokubonakala kungenangqiqo kodwa uya kukhwankqiswa indlela abayithandayo ngayo imifanekiso kunye nokuphulaphula izwi lakho. Khangela, khangela! ithatha umntwana ngesibindi esimnyama kunye nemhlophe emhlophe imifanekiso eyahlukileyo eya kwenza imitha encinane kunazo zonke.
Abaninzi ababuyekezi bomzali bathi abantwana babo abanomdla kwiincwadi baze bajonge lo. Abanye bathi bayamncoma umntwana wabo xa bekhala. Nantoni na eyenzayo, le ncwadi iya kuba yintandokazi kwangoko.
Fumana izakhono zobunzima bezithuthi zomntwana ezixoshwayo kunye nale maracas enemibala eya kubakhohlisa ukuba bathuthumele, bathuthumele. Izibambiso ezincinci kulula ukuziqonda kwaye xa ziqala ukuhambisa izandla zabo zijikeleze ziza kugxotha kwisandi esiza kuvelisa. Ngomnye umda we-maracas yipom-Pom epholileyo ukuba umntwana angakwazi ukuyiqonda okanye afake emlonyeni wabo ukuba ahlolisise ngelixa elinye icala liqulethe iintambo.
Abazali abaninzi bathetha ukuba abantwana babo banomdla okudlulileyo kwiminyaka engama-1, kwaye baphinde baqonda oku banceda bafundise abantwana babo indlela yokuphatha kakuhle.
Sithembele kuthi, awukwazi ukuba neebhiyo ezaneleyo. Ukususela kwibhotile kunye nokuncelisa, ukuphosa, ukukhahlela, kwaye kungekudala ukutya okuqinileyo umntwana wakho uya kwenza umonakalo omkhulu. Ibhanana yeBanana yindlela elula neyinkqubo yokukhusela ukuguqulwa kwengubo engalindelekanga. Ezi bhabhi ziza kwiisethi ezisibhozo kwaye zenziwa ngamaphesenti angama-100 ekotoni ebonakalayo ngaphambili kwaye i-back inayo intsimbi ye-polyester eyenza ukukhawuleza ukuma, oko kunciphisa ukutshintsha kwebha kunye nokuhlamba ngaphezulu.
Ekuboneni kokuqala, oku kuvele kubonakale kutyhafa iikompo ezindala. Kodwa ngenxa yebhokhwe, ezi ziza kunika iminyaka kunye neminyaka yokuzonwabisa. Xa beneminyaka engama-3 ubudala baya kubamba kwaye mhlawumbi bahlafuna kubo, njengoko befumana ixesha elide baya kufunda ukuyibeka nokuyihlela. Abanakekeli banokukuphonsa oku kuhlamba kwaye basebenzise ukuthulula amanzi phezu kwentloko yesana okanye babonise indlela amanzi anganciphisa ngayo enye indebe ukuya kwelinye elandelayo ngemingxuma ephantsi. Xa umntanakho eqala ukuzenza udlala bayakuthanda ukuseta itafile ngalezi zikhuni ezincinci. Iimbono kunye namathuba anokuphela. Kwaye ngeli xabiso eliphantsi, abayi-brainer kuyo yonke indlu.
Xa umntwana usuqala ukusebenza ngokuthe xaxa, unokuba yithuba lokukhetha indawo ekhethekileyo yendawo yakho encinane. Apha unako ukufumana amathoyizi omntwana kunye nomama nobawo banokuhlala kwindawo enokuzonwabisa ukuze bahlale phantsi. Le midlalo ye-Yay Mat isebenza ngokumangalisayo kuba ifikelele kwiipatheni ezityebileyo eziza kufanelana nayo nayiphi na indawo yokuhlala ngaphandle kokubangela amaninzi amaninzi. Khetha ukusuka kumbala ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka, i-swan eyinqaba, okanye umzekelo omnyama nomhlophe.
Abazali banokuqiniseka ukuba ezi tile zenziwe ngezinto ezingezizo zityhefu kwaye ziyi-BPA-, i-lead-, ne-phthalate. Baya kunye nekhwama yokugcina ephathekayo eyenza ukutshintshela umntakwabo ngumoya.