Kubizwa ngokuba ngumbane xa abantwana bakho behla
Isithuba sakho sokutshintshisa umntwana esiteshini kwisibeleko ngaphambi kokuba usebenze ngokubhekiselele ukuba umntwana "uhla." Abanye abomama bokuqala bangabona oku nje ngeveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi komhla wabo wokugqibela, ngelixa abanye oomama bengayi kuqaphela oku kude kube nzima ukusebenza.
Xa ukwenza kwi-trimester yesithathu, ucinga ukuba umzimba wakho utshintshe konke okutshintshayo. Oko kwakungenakukwazi ukuqhubeka kwinyani.
Enyanisweni, njengoko umntwana wakho eqala ukulungiselela ukuzalwa, kwaye umzimba wakho uqala ukulungiselela abasebenzi, kukho utshintsho olwenzekayo. Enye yezinto ezenzekayo kukuba umntwana wakho uqhutyelwa njani kwi-pelvis. Ukulahlwa okanye umbane ngenye yezo utshintsho.
Ukuba uye wafumana iimvavanyo zesisu ekupheleni kokukhulelwa kwakho, unokuxelelwa ugqirha okanye umbelethisi ukuba umntwana wakho wehlile. Oku kwenziwa ngokuqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uncinci kwi-pelvis kunokuba wayedlulile. Imilinganiselo yakho yokusebenza isiteshini xa wenza uvavanyo lwesisu. Isikhululo sisilinganiselo sendawo ohlala kuyo umntwana ngokubhekiselele kwiindawo ezithile zeeplavis. Amanqaku angalunganga abonisa umntwana ophezulu kwi-pelvis, kwaye ukusuka kwi-zero phambili kukho iimpawu zokuthi umntwana uqhubeka kwi-pelvis. Ngoko mhlawumbi ugqirha wakho uthe umntwana wakho wasesithathu (3) ekuhambeni kokutyelela kwakho, kodwa ngoku ungenanto (-1), oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho uye wahla.