Ngaba ukhathazeke malunga nexesha lakho umntwana achitha emsebenzini wesikolo ngokuhlwa? Mhlawumbi unomuzwa wokuthi umntwana wakho uchitha ixesha elide emsebenzini wabo wesikolo, kwaye abafumani nantoni na ngaphandle kwayo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uxinzelelwe ngumsebenzi wesikolo, unokubanceda ngokuhlola iimpawu zabo ukuze bafumane umthombo weengxaki zomsebenzi wesikolo. Emva kokuba ufumene ingcambu yengxaki , unokukhokela umntwana wakho kwisisombululo.
1) Fumana ixesha elingakanani Umntwana wakho kufuneka asebenzise imali yasekhaya
Nangona kungekho mithetho emiselweyo malunga nomsebenzi wesikolo omntwana omele ukuba nawo, kukho izikhokelo zokukunceda ukuba unqume ukuba inani lemisebenzi yasekhaya likhulu okanye lilungile. Isikhokelo esiqhelekileyo sisigqeba seminithi eyi-10, esithetha ukuba umntwana kufuneka abe nemizuzu engama-10 yomsebenzi wesikolo ngamnye ebusuku ngebanga ngalinye. unemizuzu engama-20 ubusuku bonke, njalo njalo.
Umgaqo-umzuzu we-10 uphakanyiswa yi-PTA kaZwelonke kunye noMbutho weSizwe woTitshala. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba sisikhokelo-ezinye iiklasi eziphakamileyo zezifundo kunye neeklasi zokusebenza eziphambili zingaba nomsebenzi wesikolo ophezulu ngaphezu kwesikhokelo esiqhelekileyo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ootitshala baya kuthumela ekhaya ileta ichaza umgaqo-nkqubo wasekhaya kwiiveki zokuqala zesikolo. Lo mgaqo-nkqubo uza kufaka izikhokelo ezingaphezulu zomntu, kubandakanya ukuba ixesha elide lekhaya kufuneka lithatha njani ngokuhlwa.
2) Hlola indlela Umntwana Wakho Esebenzisa Ngayo Umsebenzi Wasekhaya
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana uchitha ixesha elingaphezulu emsebenzini wabo wesikolo kunokuba ulindelwe, kuya kufuneka usebenzise ezinye iingxaki zokulungisa ingxaki.
Okokuqala: Ngaba umntwana wakho wenza okona msebenzi wabo wesikolo? Ukuba nemikhwa emihle unokuqinisekisa ukuba ixesha lokusebenzela ekhaya livelisa.
3) Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho Unomsebenzi waseKhaya kwikhaya ukugqiba umsebenzi wabo
Umntwana wakho okanye umntwana wakho uya kuzuza ngokufumana indawo ethile apho asebenza khona ekhaya. Ummandla kufuneka ube kwindawo ethile ekhululekile ukusebenza, evumela inani elifanelekileyo lokulawulwa kwabazali, kunye nokufikelela kuyo nayiphi na impahla efunekayo okanye izibonelelo.
Ukugqiba umsebenzi wesikolo kwindawo ethile kuza kunceda ukuqinisa imikhwa. Umntwana wakho uya kusetshenziselwa ukwenza umsebenzi wabo kuloo ndawo.
4) Yiba nomsebenzi wokuSebenza rhoqo waseKhaya ukuVimba ukuHlanywa koMsebenzi
Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni bayakuyeka ukwenza imisebenzi emikhulu yasekhaya, kunokuzama ukuzigqiba iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba bafanele. Esikhundleni sokuchitha imizuzu engama-10 ukuya kweyimizuzu engama-10 kwixesha elithile kwisabelo esikhulu, kuya kufuneka ukuba bachithe iiyure ukuze benze umsebenzi.
Ukuba nomsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya ubeke ixesha kwishedyuli yabo yemihla ngemihla kuya kubanika ithuba lokusebenza kwizabelo zabo kwiintsuku ezininzi. I-Tweens kunye nentsha iya kufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba ilandelelanisa imihla eyafunekayo kwizifundo ezahlukileyo.
Usebenza ngokuthe ngqo okanye uthathe ikhefu? Ukhumbule ukuba umgaqo-mzuzu we-10 okhankanywe ngaphambili? Lo mgaqo wawuya kubakho abafundi bebakala lesibhozo benza ihora eli-1 kunye nemizuzu engama-20 yomsebenzi wesikolo ebusuku.
Abafundi besikolo esiphakamileyo banokulindela ixesha elongezelelweyo emsebenzini wesikolo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ikhefu kwaye uzama ukunyusa, bahlala befumana kunzima ukugcina ingqalelo. Bangase bahlale etafileni, kodwa umsebenzi wabo uya kuncipha okanye ukuyeka ngokupheleleyo.
Abanye abantwana kunye nentsha banako ukuhlala phantsi baze basebenze ngqo baze bafeze umsebenzi wabo wesikolo. Abanye banokufumana ukuba kufuneka bathathe ikhefu elifutshane emva kwemizuzu engama-40. Abanye abantwana okanye abatsha banokufumana imeko echaphazela ukukwazi ukugxila kwixesha elide. Imizekelo ibandakanya i-ADHD, ukuxinezeleka , kunye nexhala .
Abantwana kunye nentsha enomdla kunye nokugxininisa ixesha elide baya kufuna ukugcina amandla abo engqondweni xa beceba ukwenza umsebenzi wabo.
Bangenelwa kwiindawo ezingenakuphazamiseka, behlula ixesha lokusebenzela ekhaya phakathi kokuqala nangemva kwesikolo okanye elinye ilungiselelo lokudala elenza iimfuno zabo.
5) Hlola izizathu ozifunayo Ukulandela kunye noTitshala
Ngamanye amaxesha umsebenzi wesikolo onqumlayo awuyiyo into engasombulula kuphela ekhaya.
Umntwana wakho akwazi ukuyenza isabelo. Ukuba umntwana wakho okanye umfana wakho engazi indlela yokwenza umsebenzi, bangathatha ixesha elide ukuzama ukuwugqiba. Hlala phantsi nomntwana wakho kwaye ujonge bazama ukwenza umsebenzi wabo. Ngaba bayayiqonda imiyalelo yesabelo? Ngaba zilahlekile izakhono abazifuna ukugqiba umsebenzi?
Ukuba ngaba ngowokuqala umntwazana wakho unzima ukuqonda indlela yokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo, khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba axoxe ngeengxaki kunye nootitshala kwiseshoni elandelayo kwiklasi. Ukuba umntwana wakho wesikolo okanye oyisezantsi uqala ukuwela kumzekelo wokubambana nomsebenzi, uya kufuna ukufakwa kwingxoxo malunga nomzabalazo kunye nezinto eziphathekayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho usezikolo eziphakamileyo, se benzisa ulwazi lwakho kwintsholongwane ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngaba kufuneka bakuphathe ngokupheleleyo.
Ufuna ukuvumela utitshala ukuba azi ngokukhawuleza ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo ukwenzela ukuba utitshala angancedise ukujongana nayiphi na ikhefu ngolwazi ekuqaleni. Izikolo ezizweni lonke zifumana iikharityhulam ezizinzileyo ezakhayo ukusuka kwibakala ukuya kwibanga. Ukungaphumeleli kwikhono kwibakala elilodwa kunokukhokelela kwiibhloko zokwakha ezingekhoyo kwiminyaka elandelayo.
Ngethamsanqa, ootitshala banokufumana iindlela zokujongana nezikhefu ekufundeni. Ekuqaleni utitshala uyazi i-gap, ngokukhawuleza i-gap ingaqwalaselwa phambi kokuba ibe yithuba elikhulu ekufundeni.
Umntwana wakho uthatha ixesha eligqithiseleyo ukugqiba umsebenzi wesikolo. Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho uhlala phantsi ngokuhlwaya kwindawo engaphazamisekiyo kwaye ugxile emsebenzini wabo wesikolo, kuphela isabelo esimele senze imizuzu eyi-10 ithatha imizuzu engama-40. Umntwana wakho unokusebenza kanzima kwaye azi ukuba benzani, kodwa aphule kakhulu, ngakumbi xa kuthelekiswa namanye abantwana eklasini.
Oku kungabangela ukukhubazeka kokufunda. Abantwana abane-dyslexia banobunzima ukufunda ukufunda nokufunda ngokukhawuleza. Abantwana abane- dyscalculia, ukukhubazeka kwimathematika , bangathatha ixesha elide lokugqiba umsebenzi obandakanya amanani, ukuqikelelwa kunye nezibalo. Ngethamsanqa, kukho iindlela zokufundisa nokufunda ezinokukunceda abantwana abanezi ngxaki xa sele befumene i-diagnostic.
Umntwana wakho unesabelo ezininzi ngenxa yexesha elifanayo. Le yimeko onokuyilindela kuphela esikolweni esiphakamileyo xa uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuba nezifundo ezahlukeneyo kunye nootitshala, ngamnye kunye nekhalenda yezabelo. Ootitshala bangabela iprojekthi enkulu ngosuku olufanelekileyo phambi okanye emva kwekhefu, bekholelwa ukuba kuya kuba lula ukuba wonke umntu abe nalo ngenxa. Ngamanye amaxesha iikhalenda zesikolo zinezinye iintsuku, njengendawo yekota kwikota, ebonakala ilungele ukwenza umsebenzi ngenxa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ukulungelelaniswa kwemihla ethile kwishedyuli enokubangela ukuba izabelo ezininzi zibekwe esikolweni esiphakathi. Abantwana esikolweni esiprayimari ababonayo ootitshala abahlukeneyo emini ngemizamo yokuzimela ngabanye kwinqanaba lekhono banokumangaliswa ukufumana ukuba babanjwe ngomsebenzi omkhulu ngenxa yexesha elifanayo.
Ngokufanelekileyo, ootitshala baya kucwangcisa izabelo ezinkulu phambi komhla wokubakho ukwenzela ukuba nangona izifundo ezininzi zifuna umsebenzi ukuba ziphendulwe ngosuku olufanayo, abantwana bangacwangcisa phambili baze basebenze ngokukhawuleza. Ngamanye amaxesha, oku akukwenzeka. Ngakoloko ootitshala bahlala besecaleni kwezinye izikolo, nganye isebenza kwiiklasi zabo, ngoko ke ootitshala abanako ukuba bayazi ukuba umsebenzi wabo uya kuhlawulwa ngexesha elifanayo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho unomsebenzi ongenangqiqo ngokukhawuleza, khuluma kunye nootitshala abachaphazelekayo. Ezinye izikolo zibeke imigaqo-nkqubo yokunciphisa inani leemvavanyo ezinkulu okanye iiprojekthi ezinokuthi zihlawulwe ngosuku olunye. Nangona isikolo somntwana wakho singenayo ipolisi ethile, ootitshala bangakwazi ukutshintsha imihla efanelekileyo okanye bafike ngesicwangciso esivumela umntwana wakho ukuba enze umsebenzi ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.
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Ukufunda ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo owenziwa rhoqo kunokunceda umntwana wakho akhulise ingqondo yokukhula, apho ayazi ukuba umsebenzi wabo onzima uya kubakhokelela ukuba bafunde kunye nethuba. Ukufumana iindlela zokunqoba iimeko ezinzima esikolweni kuya kunceda umntwana wakho okanye umfana ukuba afunde iindlela zokuhlangabezana nemingeni kwaye uphumelele esikolweni.
> Umthombo:
> Umbutho kaZwelonke woTitshala, "Uphando lwezeMisebenzi yasekhaya." I-NEA: Uphononongo oluphandle kwimisebenzi yasekhaya . 2017.