Yonke Into Ofuna Ukuyazi Kodwa Wayesaba Ukubuza
Isondo sokukhulelwa sinokuba ngumxholo ochaphazelekayo phakathi kwezibini. Umgaqo ukulandela iminqweno yakho kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uvula imigca yonxibelelwano. Ngaphezulu kwexesha leminyaka, ndiceliwe imibuzo emininzi malunga nocansi ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kunye ne-orgasm ekhulelwe, nantsi eminye yemibuzo ngeempendulo.
Q. Ngoku ukuba ndikhulelwe ndingakwazi ukulala ngesondo, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ukuba ndikhulelwe ixesha elingakanani?
A. Ukwabelana ngesondo ekukhuleleni kuyamangalisa! Unako ukuqhubeka ulala ngesantya ukuya ekukhulelweni, kude kube sekuzalweni, njengoko wena kunye neqabane lakho niluncedo. Oku kubandakanya i-orgasms. Kukho izizathu ezimbalwa zokuba kutheni ungafanele ulale ngesondo ngexesha lexesha lokukhulelwa. Ezi ziquka:
- Ukuhlamba
- Umsebenzi wokuqala
- Izifo ezithathelwana ngesondo (i-STI) (wena okanye iqabane lakho)
Qinisekisa ukuthetha nodokotela wakho malunga neenkcukacha zakho. Xa ugqirha wakho uthi, "Akukho busondo." Fumana ukuba zithetha ntoni, zenze ukuba zithethi na? Ngaba bathetha ukulala? Ukuba kunjalo, ixesha elingakanani? Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ibhinqa linomlinganiselo omncinci wokuphaphaza kwi-trimester yokuqala, kuyaqhelekile ukuba kuxelwe ukuphepha isondo kunye ne-orgasm kwithuba leveki enye ukusuka kwinqanaba lokugqibela lokuphuma kwamanzi.
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Q. Ngoku ukuba isisu sami sikhula sinexesha elinzima ukulala ngesondo. Nawaphi na amacebiso?
A. Yiba nobuchule! Ngelixa abantu abaninzi bathetha ukukhetha isithunywa sevangeli ngesini ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kuba nzima ukuqhuba njengoko isisu sisanda.
Zama ezinye zezikhundla zesini ezikhulelwe :
- Umfazi phezulu. Oku kukuvumela ukuba ulawule ubunzulu bokungena kunye neninzi yentshukumo. Unokuhamba ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokukhawuleza njengoko ungathanda xa ulawula ubunzulu bepenisi. Esi sikhundla sisebenza kakuhle phakathi kokukhulelwa kwaye ekupheleni kokukhulelwa.
- Spooning. Esi sikhundla sithola igama layo kwiindlela zokupheka iifuni zihlangene ndawonye kwi-drawer silverware. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kulunge ukuba indoda ingemva ivumela ipenisi yakhe ukuba ihambe phakathi kwamathanga akho kwaye ikufake emva. Oku akuyi kudala uxinzelelo kwisisu kwaye kuvumela ukungena okungezantsi. Abasetyhini abaninzi bayifumana le ndawo yokuphumla ngesondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kwaye inokusetyenziswa rhoqo.
- Izandla kunye neeKnees. Esi sikhundla esihle kakhulu kwabasetyhini abasetyhini kwakhona ngenxa yokungabi nxamnye noxinzelelo oluchanekileyo kwisisu, nangona xa ufumana isanda sakho isisu singakwazi ukulala esitheni. Abanye abasetyhini bafumana oku kunzima ekupheleni kokukhulelwa, kuxhomekeke ekuphakameni kwabo bakwazi ukumbamba isisu zabo ebhedini baze bavumele ukungena.
- Ubuxoki obungasecaleni. Oku kunokuba ngumusa onobuqili, kodwa kuya kwenziwa! Hlala kwicala lakho kunye neqabane lakho elijongene nawe, zama ukutsala umlenze owodwa ukuvumela indawo yeqabane lakho. Oku kunokukhawuleza emva kancinane, kwaye kungabi lula ukuba inxalenye yokugqibela yokukhulelwa.
Zonke izikhundla ezikhankanyiweyo ngasentla zivumelekile ukuvuselelwa ngokukodwa kwe-clitoris okanye wena okanye iqabane lakho. Oku kunokwandisa kakhulu amathuba okuba uninzi lwe-orgasmic, ungakhankanyi ukuba ngumnandi kakhulu.
Ziyakuthintela umama ukuba abuyele emva kwakhe, engacetyiswa emva kwenyanga yesine yokukhulelwa (iiveki ezingama-16 zesisu).
Xa uzama ukucinga ngesimo esihle, zama, ukuba awusebenzi ukusebenza. Ubunono buya kuba mnandi kakhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uza kuthwala ubomi bakho besondo emva kokubeleka kunye nokuba ubuchule buba luleke ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
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Q. Elinye igama, iidasgasms.
A. Izimpendulo ezininzi kuloo! I-Orgasms inokuhluke kakhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Elinye ibhinqa liya kuba li-orgasmic ngexesha lokukhulelwa ngenxa yokunyuka kwamanzi kummandla okwenza i-clitoris ne-vaginal zivelele ngakumbi.
Abanye abafazi baya kuba ngama-multi-orgasmic ngokokuqala ngqa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, i-orgasms ikulungele wena nomntwana! Xa unomntwana ongenayo into engaziyo into oyenzayo kodwa ufumana i-hormone ehambelana ne-hormone ezayo. Kuya kuba neenkcaso ezincinci zesisu, njengoko kuye kwahlala kukho, kodwa ngoku ukuba ubele lukhulu kakhulu ungaziva ngakumbi. Oku akusiyo umsebenzi wokuqala ngaphandle kokuba unoluvo lwentlupheko okanye ulwaphulo olungaphezulu kweyure.
Ingxaki enkulu ngeengqungquthela ngexesha lokukhulelwa kukuba, ngokugqithiseleyo ekupheleni, uninzi awufumananga noluvo lwentsilelo yokuba i-orgasm eqhelekileyo iya kunika. Ndiye ndabuya ekuhambeni ngesondo ndivakalelwa ngakumbi ngokwesini kunokuba ngandidla, nangona iindawo ezininzi zokuziphatha. Nangona kunjalo, kusasazo!
Umbuzo: Ngaba ndingakwazi ukugcoba? Ngaba kuya kuphazamisa umntwana?
A. Ukuhlaziya isisu kukukhululeka kwamandla esondo. Ndikhuthaza kakhulu oku kubafazi. Kukulungele nokuba neseshoni yokuhlambalaza xa ungenalo umdla wokungena. Ukuphinga-mzimba kuyinto enhle ukucinga ukuba umntu omnye kuphela olwalamano olunomdla unomdla kwizesondo ngaloo mzuzu.
Ivumela ukuba ube nesondo ngaphandle kokulala ngesini na isizathu, kodwa ke iqabane lakho (okanye wena) linokuzonwabisa nokukhululwa kweengxaki zesondo.
Q. Ndivile ukuba ukulala ngomlomo kuyingozi. Ngaba kunjalo?
A. Ukwabelana ngesondo akuyingozi kuwe ngelixa ukhulelwe, ngaphandle kweyodwa, musa ukuvuthela umoya kumfazi. Uza kufunda le ndawo ezininzi, kodwa mna ndingazi umntu ophefumula umoya ngethuba le-cunnilingus, mhlawumbi ndilahlekile!
Ukulala ngesondo kunomdla kakhulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ngokukodwa xa ukwesaba okanye nje ungathandi ukulala. Yindlela enhle yokuzama nokubonisa ubulili bakho ngaphandle kwesondo. Kukho ukukhutshwa okwandisiweyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa , oku akuyona into eyingozi kumntu wakho. Ukuba omnye wenu unenkathazo yile nto unokuzihlamba ngaphambi kokubandakanya kule mi sebenzi.
Q. Ngaba ndingakwazi ukulala ngesondo xa ndikhulelwe?
A. Lona lukhuni. Akuninzi abantu abaye bafunda oku, kwaye ngokubanzi, ndiza kuthi ukuba uye wenza oku ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe akufuneki kubekho ubunzima, kodwa phulaphulaphula umzimba wakho.
Ukuba ngaba buhlungu ukuyeka. Kungaba nzima nakakhulu ekupheleni kokukhulelwa njengoko intloko yesana ingena kwi-pelvis. Sivame ukulibala ukuba yodwa into ehlula ubulili kunye ne-rectum yincinci yesikhumba. Oku kungenza isondo esilumkileyo sibuhlungu kakhulu ekupheleni kokukhulelwa.
Q. Ndingayisebenzisa i-vibrator ngelixa ndikhulelwe?
A. Ngaba kukho na umntu ofuna ukuyenza ingqungquthela kulo? Ngokubalulekileyo, ndicelwa lo mbuzo ngamaxesha amaninzi, kwaye akukho mpendulo ecacileyo apha. Ngoko ndiya ku thembela kwisiphumo sokuphela: iidasgasms.
Iimpawu zikhuselekile ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kunye nemibandela embalwa encinci. Jonga iziphambano eziqhubekayo zesibindi, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba ufanele ulungile. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba unokubuza inzululwazi yakho malunga nesi sihloko ngokunjalo. Baya kuba nolwazi oluninzi lwembali yakho yonyango. Ukuba bathi akukho ufumane iindawo ezithile malunga nokuba kutheni, ukuqinisekisa ukuba akusiyo into ebalulekileyo.