URachel S. Ukwabelana Ngeengcamango Zakhe Ngaphambi, Ngexesha, nangemva Kokunikela Nge-egg
Ukunquma Ukuba Yi-Egg Donor kunye Nokusayina kwiziko lekliniki yokuzala ngokuphathelele amaqanda.
Ndinikela ngokungachazwanga.
Ndabhalisa kuqala ngearhente ezimbalwa ezifanisa abaxhasi nabamkeli.
Iiprofayili ezijulile, kubandakanywa iimpawu zomzimba, imbali yenkcazo enzulu malunga nosapho olusondeleyo nolusondeleyo, iimpawu zobuntu, iimvakalelo kumnikelo kunye nokunye.
Kuthathe malunga neeveki ezimbini ukuzalisa iiprofayili ngearhente ezintathu ezahlukileyo
Ndabandakanye imifanekiso yam ebusaneni bam buntwaneni-kusebuntwaneni ngoku. Kwisinye igosa, ndifunwa ukuba ndiye kwiseshoni yolwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuba ndayiqonda ngokupheleleyo inkqubo.
Ngethuba lokuqala ndikhethiweyo, i-arhente yadibanisa ukuba ndibone ukuba ngaba ndikulungele ukunikela kwaye ndithumelele ulwazi oluthile lwabazali (IPs). Emva kokuthi ewe, ndathunyelwa kwiklinikhi yokuzala inomzali, okwakunefomu yembali yonyango ukuba ndizalise.
Emva kokuyizalisa nokuyibuyisela kumongikazi osebenza kunye nabazali abahlosiweyo, wandibiza ukuba ndiphendule iimpendulo zam. Kule meko, ekubeni udadewethu ene-ulcerative colitis, le klinikhi ethile ayiyi kuvumela ukuba ndinikele ngenxa yokuba bakholelwa ukuba isifo sofuzo (nangona kungabikho ubungqina bokuba kunjalo).
Ngoko inkqubo imile apho kwaye ndaphinda ndisebenzise iphrofayili yam kunye ne-agent, kunye ne-caveat engingakwazi ukusebenza nalo klinikhi ethile, ngokuphelisa ngokukhawuleza malunga nesiqingatha sabazali abafuna abaxhasi kwindawo yam.
Okumangalisa kukuba, ndanyulwa kwakhona emva kwenyanga okanye ezimbini emva kwabazali basebenza ngeklinikhi eyahlukileyo. Kwakhona babe neyabo ifomu lembali yonyango lokuba ndifunwa ukuba ndizalise kwaye ndibuyele ngaphambi kokuba ndiqhubeke novavanyo olwenziweyo lwezokwelapha.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ngeli xesha, umnikeli uya kudibana kunye negqwetha ukuba enze isivumelwano kunye nabazali.
Abazali babekhethe ukungawusebenzisi igqwetha, ngoko ke imfuno yam kuphela yinto yokuba batyikitye kwaye baqaphele uxwebhu oluchaza ukuba baya kusebenzisa yonke i-embrasi ukuzama ukukhulelwa okanye ukunikela ngemibusi engasetyenziswanga kwibhanki yokwamkelwa komntwana , kwaye banikele ngokuphanda-eselula okanye ukutshabalalisa.
Emva kokuba ukhethwe, yintoni inqubo yokunikela ngeqanda?
Emva kokuba umququzeleli ekliniki uye wahlolisisa imbali yam kwaye wangaphambi kwamkela umnikelo, kwafuneka ndiyeke ukuthatha iipilisi zokulawula iilali kwiiveki ezimbalwa. (Ngeli xesha, andivumelekanga ukuba ndilale ngesondo kunye nomyeni wam, kodwa kwenzeka ukuba sele ehamba kwiiveki eziliqela ukuqeqeshwa koMkhosi.)
Emva koko ndaya kwelinye lala mabhubhoratri ukwenzela ukukhutshwa ngokupheleleyo kwegazi lam kunye ne-ultrasound yangaphakathi yamanqanda ami.
Ndadlula zombini ezo ziqobo, ngoko baqalisa ukulawula ukuzalwa ngexesha elifanayo njengoko unina ohlosiweyo (IM) ukulungelelanisa imijikelezo yethu.
Umyeni wam naye kwafuneka angene ukuze ahlolwe igazi lakhe ngeli xesha.
Kwakhona ndathunyelwa kwisazi sengqondo seli xesha ukuze ndiqiniseke ukuba ndilungiselelwe ngokwengqondo inkqubo yokunikela kunye nokuba ndilungele ngokwengqondo ukunikela.
Injections Qala
Emva kweeveki ezintathu ngokulawulwa kokuzalwa (malunga neenyanga ezi-3-4 emva kokuba i-agesi idibanise naye kuqala), ndaqala ukuzithoba phantsi kwesikhumba sam esiswini kwanye ngosuku ngemichiza eyanciphisa i-hormone yam kwizinga elisezantsi.
Ndangena kanye okanye kabini ngeveki ngokwenene kusasa ekuseni ukuhlolwa kwegazi ukujonga amazinga am hormone.
Ngeli xesha, ndabona i-coaster coaster ye-hormones kuba iqala ukunyuka ngaphambi kokuyeka kakhulu.
Okokuqala, ndandingu-PMSing, ngoko ndanditshisa ukutshisa njengowesifazane wesilisa!
Xa amazinga e-hormone afanelekile malunga neveki kamva, ndaqala ukuzinika ipiliti yesibini (ibuhlungu kakhulu kwaye ihlaziye ngenxa yombane wamanzi endiyijobile kwesikhumba sam esiswini) sam hormone ukwenza ukuba iiqanda kumama-ovari zikhule .
Ndenza amabhothi amabini ngosuku malunga neveki enye, ndihamba nganye iintsuku ezimbini ukuya kwibhabyitha ukuba ndibe negazi kunye ne-internal ultrasound yamanki ama-ovari ukuba ndikhangele indlela i-follicle nganye yeqanda elaliyiyo kwaye ininzi kangakanani eyakhulayo.
Iingalo zam zonke zaziphazamiseka kwiimvavanyo zegazi rhoqo.
Ngasekupheleni kweveki, ndandiqhakazile kwaye ii-ovari zange zikhukhumele kakhulu kwaye zithintela ukuchukumisa .
Xa ndifikile kwinani elithile lee-follicle zeqanda ngaphezu kobukhulu abathile, bandixelele ukuba ndiyeke izihlunu zemihla ngemihla ndizinike ama-hormone athile ngexesha elichanileyo (iiyure ezingama-36 ngaphambi kokuba inkqubo yokuvuna yayiqhutyelwe) ukuba ibangele amaqanda ukuba alungele ukufunyanwa.
I-Egg Retrieval
Emva kweeyure ezingamashumi amathathu anesithandathu, ndaya kwiklinikhi kunye nomyeni wam ngenkqubo. Ndibekwe esibhedlele esibhedlele kwaye ndine-IV ye-fluids eyongezelelweyo malunga nemizuzu engama-30.
Emva koko, bandifaka kwigumbi elincinci kunye netafile ebonisa ukuhambisa umntwana. Ndanikwa i-anesthesia nge-IV yam kwaye ndawa ndilele ngephelanga elingama-20 imizuzwana. Ndaphakamisa malunga nemizuzu engama-30 kamva xa bekhupha ngaphandle kwamagumbi okubuyela kwindawo yokubuyisela.
Ndineenkampu ezincinane kwaye kubanda kakhulu kwi-IV. Bandinika i-painkiller yomlomo, kwaye umyeni wam wavunyelwa ukuba ahlale nam. Ndahlala apho malunga neyure ibuyele kwaye ndineentlungu ezinzima ngaphambi kokuba zityeshe. Ndaphuma ngedwa malunga nama-1.5 emva kweprogram kwaye ndaya ekhaya.
Ndaphinde ndabuyiselwa emva kweentsuku ezimbini.
Abazali abahlosiweyo bazalwa emva kweveki kamva bekulindele umntwana ngo-Agasti 2010, inyanga yokuzalwa.
Iindleko kunye nentlawulo
Ngaba kukho naziphi iindleko ezingaphandle kweendleko omele uhlawule ngazo?
Hayi, ngaphandle kokuba ndifuna ukufumana igqwetha, engingazange ndibe nalo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali abahlosiweyo bahlawulela igqwetha labo kunye nomnye omnye kumniki-mali.
Unokufumana phi ukunikela amaqanda akho?
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Intsapho yam isoloko isempilweni kwaye iyasebenza, kwaye sinemivuzo emininzi kwintsapho, ngoko ke ndinethemba lokuba ndinokunceda iinwele ezibomvu zikhuphe ukuphela!
Ndiyabulela kakhulu ukuvavanywa kwabo kwindlela yokuzala xa ndihamba kwinkqubo.
Yiyiphi icebiso ongawabelana nabasetyhini abafuna ukuba ngabaxhasi beqanda?
Inkqubo ide. Ingathatha inyanga ezine ukuya ezintandathu ukusuka ekuqaleni ukuya ekupheleni, mhlawumbi nangaphezulu.
Awuvunyelwe ukuba ulale ngesondo,
Inkqubo ephakanyisiweyo iyahluke ngazo zonke iikliniki, ngoko kufuneka uyenze ezintathu okanye ezine izihlunu ezahlukeneyo. Okanye unokwenza ezimbini kuphela.
Isikhathi yinto yonke-ukuba awukho kakuhle ukukhumbula ukunamathela kwishedyuli echanekileyo, unokuphazamisa inkqubo okanye wenze ukuba kuthathe ixesha elide kunokuba luyimfuneko.
Musa ukwenza oku ukuba awukwazi ukumelana negazi. Bamele bafake izibambalwa ezimbalwa zegazi lakho yonke imihla ngeveki okanye ezimbini.
Ukuba awukho kakuhle kwiinkcukacha, ndiza kucetyiswa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba unommeli wale nkqubo, nokuba ngaba abazali abahlosiweyo abayihlawula enye.
Gcina kwiimvakalelo zakho zesisu kunye nokuba kukho into engafanelekanga, musa ukuvumela ukuba imali ikudwebe into engafanele uyenze.
Yiba nenyaniso kwiprofayili yakho, nokuba uthetha ukuba awukwazi ukunikela! Ngaba ufuna ngokwenene ukudlula into enobungozi kumntwana, okanye wenze into enokuba yinto eninzi engqondweni yakho?
Uvumelekile ukuba unikele ngezihlandlo ezihlanu, kodwa qaphela kwaye ujonge ingozi yeminikelo emininzi.
Ukuba i-arhente ayinakukunika yona, cela ulwazi lwabantu malunga nabazali abahlosiweyo. Ibali labo liya kuqinisa kwaye mhlawumbi utshintshe izizathu zakho zokunikela!