Iikliniki ezininzi zokuzala ziba nemibhikano apho imibhangqwana ingena khona ukuphumelela umjikelezo we-IVF wamahhala. Ezi mpikiswano zifuna ukuba abathungi bamabonakude benze ividiyo, babhale isicatshulwa, imbongo, okanye ibali; okanye ubhale ibhokisi yeblogi ejoliswe kumxholo othile. Okanye, umncintiswano unokucela abo bangenayo ukuba babelane ibali labo ngendlela ephosakeleyo. Emva koko, abaphumeleleyo banokukhethwa ngokuvota komphakathi, abasebenzi bekliniki yokuzala, ikomiti engahambelani neklinikhi, okanye ukuhlanganiswa kwezi zinto.
Ezinye iimincintiswano ze-IVF zifana nelokottery. Ngokomzekelo, ukuya kwesiganeko esithile (njengeseshoni yolwazi kwiklinikhi okanye umboniso wezorhwebo) uza kukufumana ukungena. Emva koko, umqhubi ukhethwe ngokungalindelekanga.
Imincintiswano ye-IVF ne-Ethics
Kukhona ingxoxo malunga nokuba le micimbi - ingakumbi abo bacela izibini ezingenabantwana ukuba zithumele amabali abo - zikhokelo. Abanye bathi i-IVF iqhubisana nokuxhaphaza izibini ezinobuthathaka, ngokusebenzisa amabali abo njengefowuni kwimikhankaso yokuthengisa.
Abaxhasayo be-IVF imincintiswano bathi banikela imibhangqwana engenakukwazi ukufumana umjikelezo we-IVF ithuba lokukhulelwa ukuba mhlawumbi bekungenjalo. Baphinde bathi amabali abelana ngayo njengenxalenye yempikiswano yindlela yokwakhiwa kokungabikho komntwana. Bafumana abantu abangenasiphelo "ngaphandle kwekhamera" kwaye basasaza ulwazi lokungabikho komntwana.
Ukuba ucinga ngokungena kumncintiswano we-IVF, into eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba uluvo lwakho kule migubano.
Ukuba awunayo nayiphi na imiba yokuziphatha kunye nembono yenkqaso ye-IVF, kwaye uyazi kwaye ukhululekile ukuba ibali lakho liya kusetyenziswa ukuthengisa iteksikhi okanye umkhiqizo othile, kufuneka uqhubeke uye unikezele I-IVF inzame.
Ngaphambi kokuba wenze, zikho izikhokelo zokugcina engqondweni.
Nokwabelana ngolwazi ngokutsha kwiNgcaciso
Ngaphambi kokuba wabelane ngolwazi kwi-Intanethi, qiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukhuphiswano luyabonakala. Ngokudabukisayo, kukho abantu abanobuqhetseba abanobuqhetseba abathandana abangenabantwana. Imincintiswano ye-Scam IVF sele isetyenziselwe ukwenza ubusela besazisi kwaye iba imali ngemali "yokungena kwemali."
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Ukuba unakho ukungathandabuzeki, bizela ikliniki ukuba idibaniswe nekontraka uze ucele kuqala ukuba umncintiswano unobulungisa. Kwakhona, qinisekisa ukuba uqwalasela ukuba iklinikhi yokuzala ethintekayo kwintsebenziswano yinyani (kwaye ayikho "ikliniki" engacamngca eyenziwe ukuba ihlase abantu).
Cinga ngenyameko kwiKliniki yokuNzala kunye noTyhulwa olunikezwayo
Kungenxa yokuba umjikelezo wamahhala awuthetha ukuba ufanele uwuthabathe. Khangela eklinikhi yokuzala njengoko ngokucophelela ngendlela oya kuyenza ukuba uhlawula. Ngaba le klinikhi uya kucinga ukuba ayenganikeli umjikelezo wamahhala?
Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba unyango olunikezelwa lufanelekile.
Ukuba ufuna i-IVF epheleleyo, kwaye ukhuphiswano luphela kuphela lwe-mini-IVF , ngoko akufanele ungene. Ukuba udinga umniki-mali okanye umgcini we- gamete , qiniseka ukuba ukhuphiswano luquka ezi ntlobo zemijikelezo. (Umncintiswano awuyi kuhlawula iindleko zeminikelo yokunikela okanye i-gamete, kodwa i-IVF eyisiseko isenokuthi "ikhululekile.")
Oku kufuneka kucaciswe ngokucacileyo kwimigaqo, kodwa ukuba awuqinisekanga, biza abaxhasi bamashishini baze bafumene oko kugutyungelwe, oko kungenjalo, kunye nento onokuyihlawula ngayo ngaphezulu komjikelezo wamahhala, ukuba uyaphumelela.
Qinisekisa ukuba ufanelekile
Ngaba kufuneka uhlale kwindawo ethile? Ngaba kukho imingeni yobudala kumncintiswano? (Abanye abavumeli abafazi abangaphezu kwama-40 ukuba bangene.) Ngaba uvumelekile ukuba ungene ukuba unesifo se-inshorensi ngenxalenye yonyango lwe-IVF?
Eminye imincintiswano inokunciphisa uhlobo luni lokungabikho kwengqondo onalo. Unokuba ungafanelekanga ukungena ukuba sele unabantwana ekhaya okanye unako ukungabikho komntwana .
Qinisekisa ukuba Unako Ukunqoba
Xa iikliniki zinikeza "umjikelezo we-IVF wamahhala," azifaneli zithetha zonke iindleko ze-IVF. Mhlawumbi kunokunyaniseka ngakumbi ukubiza ngokuba ngumjikelezo we-IVF.
Abanye baphikisana neendleko ezininzi kunabanye. Imirhumo omele uyihlawule yona ibandakanya:
- Iindleko zokuhamba, ezinokubangela ukuba ikliniki ingekho kufuphi
- Ukuvavanywa kwangaphambili kunye nokubonisana
- Ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi, ezinokubangela amawaka eedola kwezinye iimeko
- Iindleko zeAnesthesia
- Nantoni na engacatshangwanga "eyimfuneko" ye-IVF, kubandakanywa nobuchwepheshe bokuzala obufana no- ICSI okanye ukuncedwa ukukhutshwa
- Ukubeka esweni kwimijikelezo, edlalwa ngamanye amaxesha, ngamanye amaxesha ayikho
- I-Embryo iqhwa kunye nokugcinwa, okungekho okanye kungagqitywa ngongqinisiso, okanye ingafunyanwa ixesha elilinganiselwe kuphela
Qinisekisa ukuba uya kuba nemali yokugubungela oko kungafakiwe, ngaphandle koko ungadinga ukulahlekelwa umvuzo wakho.
Kwakhona qiniseka ukuba into oyinayo ayiyi kuhlawula imali ngaphezu kokuhlawula ngokwakho. Ukuba iklinikhi ayikufuphi, iindleko zokuhamba kunye nexesha lokusebenza emsebenzini zingenza umjikelezo "ongenakho" ungakufanelekanga.
Qinisekisa ukuba uyathuthuzelwa kunye nolwazi lwakho ukuba lupapashwe
Funda ngokucophelela ukushicilela okulungileyo xa ungena. Nangona ungaphumeleli, ukungena kwakho kungasetyenziselwa ukuthengisa imaklinikhi.
Ukuba uyaphumelela, unokufunwa ukuba uthethe kumabonakude. Ungadinga ukuvuma ukuba ufotozwe okanye ulandwe ngevidiyo phambi, ngexesha, okanye emva kokunyanga kwakho kwe-IVF. Amaxesha amaninzi kakhulu angabonakaliswa kwaye abelwane ngawo esidlangalaleni.
Ulungile na oku?
Qinisekisa ukulandela iMigaqo
Ngaba kuya kudideka ukuba usebenze kanzima kwividiyo okanye ukungena kweengcoko kuphela ukuba ungakufanelekanga? Funda imigaqo nemigaqo ngokucokisekileyo. Qinisekisa ukuba udibana nobude bevidiyo kunye neemfuno zamanani ezilinganiso zamagama.
Unokufunwa ukuba ukhankanye igama kwiklinikhi kwividiyo yakho okanye incoko. Ewe, leyo yintengiso yokubambisana!
Kwakhona, qinisekisa ukuba ufaka ukungena kwakho ngokufanelekileyo. Unokucelwa ukuba uthumele i-imeyile yakho yokungena, okanye uyibeke kwiblogi, okanye uyibhale njengengxelo kwi-Facebook okanye kwiblogi. Ungadinga ukulayisha ividiyo yakho kwiwebhusayithi ethile. Zonke iintambo ziyahluke, ngoko funda loo mithetho!
Inqaku lokugqibela: ukuba awuyikuphumelela, akuthethi ukuba ibali lakho alizange libuhlungu ngokwaneleyo. Phantse malunga nebali lonke elingenasiphelo. Ngelishwa, akuwona wonke umntu onokuyiphumelela.
Zama ukungathathi ilahleko. Ukuba ukungaphumeleli kuyongezelela ngokubaluleka kwintliziyo yakho, kungcono ukuba ungangeni.
Imithombo:
2013 'Ndiyakholwa' Iprojekthi Yengxelo Yevidiyo - uDkt. Sher Ucacisa. Iiklinikhi ze-Sher Fertility zeMithi yokuzala. http://haveababy.com/fertility-information/ivf-authority/2013--ca-video-journal-project/
Rochman, uBonnie. Imicimbi Yentsapho: Umncintiswano weVIV weView for Couples Ukufuna umntwana: Ukhohlakele okanye ulungile? TIME.com. http://healthland.time.com/2012/06/19/fertile-ground-couples-compete-for-free-ivf-xploitation-or-generosity/