Amava abantu abanobuKhubazekileyo obungabonakaliyo Ngokuqhelekileyo baya kungakhange baqaphele
Yintoni Ubungabonakali Bokukhubazeka?
Yintoni ukukhubazeka okungabonakaliyo? Eli gama libhekiselele ekukhubazekeni elingenakubonwa ngokukhawuleza. Abantu abanokukhubazeka ukufunda ngokufunda , izibalo, ukubhala nokuphicothwa kwamanye amaxesha kubonakala bekhubazekile. Kodwa aba bantu banokujamelana nzima kunye nabalingani babo abaneziphene ezicacileyo.
Funda kabanzi malunga nemingeni abajongene nayo kunye nenkxaso abayidingayo ngoku kuhlolwa kwezikhalazo zokufunda ezingabonakaliyo.
Yintoni eyenza abantu abaneziphene zokuFunda ezingabonakaliyo?
Abantu abaneengxaki zokufunda ezingabonakaliyo zibalaseleyo kuba abazimeli kubafundi abaqhelekileyo nangona banokuba nzima ukuthula. Babonakala ngathi bonke abantu kwaye abanakho ukuphazamiseka ngokomzimba abafuna inkxaso ebonakalayo njengabantu abahambahambayo, izihlalo zabakhubazekile, okanye izixhobo zokuvalelwa. Njengabo ontanga abangenakho ukukhubazeka, banokuhamba, baleke kwaye bathathe inxaxheba kwimidlalo.
Kutheni Ubungabonakali Ukukhubazeka Ingxaki?
Nangona abafundi abangabonakali bangabonakala ngathi wonk 'ubani, oku akusiyo inzuzo. Enyanisweni, ukufana kwabo kwiontanga zabo eziqhelekileyo kunokubangela ingxaki eyongezelelweyo kubo. Kungenxa yokuba isiphumo sokukhubazeka kwabo asinakubonwa ekuqaleni. Utitshala unokucinga ukuba umntwana unesifo sokubhala esibonakalayo kuze kube yilapho abafundi bezandla kwisicatshulwa sakhe sokuqala.
Ngaloo ndlela, utitshala angagxuma kwisigqibo sokuba umfundi obonakala ngathi ungumntu owenza umsebenzi obhaliweyo ngenxa yobuntunu, engazi ukuba ukukhubazeka kwentombazana kuchaphazela zonke iinkalo zobomi bakhe, kubandakanywa nendlela afunda ngayo, imisebenzi kunye nemisebenzi.
Ngokufanayo, umntwana onenkathazo yokucubungula ngokucokisekileyo angamtyholwa ngokungayiphulaphuli, aze ahlawulwe into engenakho ukulawula.
Xa ukhubazeko olungabonakaliyo lungafumanekiyo, abanye banokuqonda ukuba umntu ulahlekisa okanye asebenzisani. Xa kuphazamiseka ukuphazamiseka kokufunda okungafihli, abantu abangafundile bangamangalela umntu ofilisayo okanye ukukhubaza ukukhubazeka. Bangayenqaba ukuhlangabezana neemfuno ezizodwa zomntu ngenxa yokuba abaziqondi izinga lokukhubazeka.
Enyanisweni, ukuziphatha ngokuphathelele ukukhubazeka njengokuziphatha kakubi kubandakanya kuphela ingxaki.
Izibonelelo Zokukhubazeka ezingabonakaliyo
Abanye abantu abaneziphene zokufunda baxabisa amandla oku "ukudibanisa nesihlwele" ngoko ukukhubazeka kwabo kufihliwe. Bakuvuyela ukuba kwimisebenzi engeyiyo yemfundo, njengemidlalo, imisebenzi yoluntu, amaqela ecawa kunye nemisebenzi yokuzithandela, banokuthatha inxaxheba ngokuphumelelayo okanye ngaphezulu kunabanye.
Ngaphandle kokukhubazeka okucacileyo kweso sixhobo okanye isihlalo sabakhubazekile, aba bana banokufumana kulula ukusebenzisana nabontanga abangenakho ukukhubazeka.
Ingxaki kukuba iyakwazi ukuhamba ngeendlela zombini, kwaye njengoko ubudlelwane behamba, kunokuba nzima ukwazi indlela eya kuhamba ngayo nawuphi na umntwana omnye. Abanye abantwana baya kukhula ngokukwazi ukudibanisa, ngoxa abanye, ukukhubazeka kwabo kuhlanganiswe ngokungaqondakali ngotitshala kunye noontanga, baya kugqiba ukujamelana nokugqithiseleyo kuphela.
Ukuxhasa abantu abaneziphene ezingabonakaliyo
Amanyathelo angezantsi aya kukuvumela ukuba unike abantu abaneengxaki zokufunda ezingabonakali nenkxaso abayidingayo.
- Mamela umntu okhubazekileyo kwaye umlandele uholele kuye.
- Qaphela ukuba abanye abantu abanokukhubazeka abangabonakaliyo bakhetha ukuba bangaxoxani ngokukhubazeka kwabo kwaye baya kuhlanjululwa xa uzama ukuthetha nabo ngawo. Kwakhona, landela ukukhokela kwabo.
- Ukuba umntu ufuna uncedo, buza ukuba kwaye unokunceda njani.
- Funda ngohlobo oluthile lokukhubazeka kokufunda .
- Ukuba ungumzali okanye utitshala, yazi ukuba amanqanaba omgangatho womntwana. Zama ukugcina umsebenzi udinga kwaye nje ngaphezu kwekhono lakhe langoku. Oku kuya kugcina umntwana engenelele ngaphandle kokufikelela kwisigaba esicasulayo, sokuvalwa. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba uhlolisise umzamo womntwana.
- Ukuba ungumqeshi womntu onokukhubazeka okungabonakali, funda indlela yokulawula ukukhubazeka kwindawo yokusebenzela .
Ukuthetha nabantu malunga nokukhubazeka okungabonakaliyo
Kwintlalo yethu senza umsebenzi omhle wokungahoyi indlovu egumbini. Abantu bahluka ngokukhululeka kwindlela abanqwenela ngayo ukwabelana ngokukhubazeka kwabo. Ukuba ulandele ukukhokela kwakhe, kwaye kubonakala ukuba uya kuhlanjululwa ukuthetha, yishiye yedwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba uzimisele ukuthetha, yiba yindlebe evulekile. Abantu abanokukhubazeka abangabonakaliyo badla ngokungaqondakali, kwaye ukumnika ithuba lokukwazisa ukuba ubona into enokuyilwa nayo kunokumnceda ukuba azive ephantsi kwihlabathi eliqhutywa ngokuphelela.
Imithombo:
Peltopuro, M., Ahonen, T., Kaartinen, J., Seppala, H., noVanhi. Ukusebenza kweengqiqo zeNgqiqo: UkuHlola okuHlolo lweNcwadi. UkuKhubazeka koBugcisa . 2014. 52 (6): 419-43.