Ulwalamano lwakho lwangaphakathi lungabonakali ngexesha leminyaka yesikolo esiphakathi
Ngethuba ixesha umntwana efika esikolweni esiphakathi, ubuhlobo bube bubalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni njengentsapho. Abafundi besikolo esiphakathi banqwenela ukwamukelwa kwiontanga zabo kwaye bajonge kubahlobo ukuba bancede bahambe ngokususela ebusheni kunye nayo yonke into ezayo nayo. Ubuhlobo buyenza yonke into eyonwabileyo kwaye kunokuyenza imihla emibi ngakumbi.
Kodwa ubuhlobo kule nkalo ekuphuhlisweni komntwana nako kunzima kakhulu.
Ngezantsi ngeengcebiso zokukunceda ulungiselele i-kati yakho ngokunyuka nokuhla kobuhlobo esikolweni esikolweni esiphakathi. Ukwazi indlela abahlobo abanokutshintsha ngayo, ukuphela okanye ukuqinisa kunokunceda ungehluko phakathi kobudlelwane bomngeni ekugqibeleni uya kuthatha.
Abalungileyo nababi bobuhlobo beZikolo eziphakathi
Okulungileyo
Kungokwemvelo ukuba i-tween yenza ukuba abahlobo babo ibe yinto ephambili kwaye, ngoku kuphuhliso lwabo, banokukhetha inkampani yabahlobo babo malunga nenkampani yabazali babo kunye namanye amalungu entsapho. Oku akufanele kube yinkxalabo kuwe, kodwa kunoko into enokuyonwabela. Qiniseka ukuba awuyi kumenza umntwana wakho azive enetyala ngokubeka ukubaluleka okunjalo ebusweni bakhe, yinto eqhelekileyo yophuhliso kwaye uthetha ukuba umntwana wakho ukhula isangqa sakhe sokuthembela ukufaka abanye ngaphandle kwentsapho. Abantwana badinga unxibelelwano oluqinileyo lwabahlobo kule minyaka ukuze bancede bajongane nobomi baze bahlekise xa bekhula.
Ubuhlobo obuninzi obungapheliyo bungahlali kuphela kwisikolo esiphakathi, kodwa banokomelela ngakumbi njengamava kunye kunye neziphumo ezifanayo. Kwaba nabahlobo abaya kwizikolo ezahlukileyo okanye abahlukeneyo kwibanga esikolweni banokuthi banokwanele ngokufanayo ukuba banandiphe inkampani yomnye. Ubuhlobo obuqinileyo kuminyaka bunokuba nefuthe elihle ebomini bakho.
Iingeniso zingabandakanya:
- Ukuzonwabisa ixesha kunye emva kwesikolo
- Ukuba nomntu othetha naye okanye uxoxe naye
- Ukufumana enye imbono yokujonga xa ujongene nengxaki
- Ukwabelana ngeminqweno efanayo
- Ukujongana neengxaki zesikolo (njengotitshala onzima okanye isikolo se-bully ) kunye
- Ukugcina ingxaki
- Ukuba nomntu onamathela kuwe
- Ukwazi ukuba awuyiyo yedwa
Okubi
Kubalulekile ukuba ubuhlobo buphakathi kwesikolo esiphakathi, oko akuthethi ukuba baya kuba lula. Uninzi lwabafundi basekuhlaleni bafumanisa ukuba ubuhlobo babo buya kutshintsha ngexesha lokufunda esikolweni esiphakathi nje ngokuba abahlobo bahlukana okanye baceba abanye ubuhlobo. Abafundi besikolo esiphakathi abasayi kubona abahlobo abadala njengoko befuna iimfuno ezahlukahlukeneyo okanye izinto ezinqwenelekayo, okanye ukuba abafundi beza ezikolweni ezahlukeneyo abanakho ukufumana ithuba lokudibanisa nabahlobo bamandulo.
Kodwa imingeni ayipheli apho. Nganobuhlobo obomeleleyo bunokugwetywa ngethuba leminyaka yesikolo esiphakathi. Abahlobo banokulahlekelwa ngumsindo wabo, badumelane, okanye baxakeke iimvakalelo zomnye. Akukho buhlobo obugqibeleleyo, kodwa abaninzi banokumelana namaxesha athile kunye nokufunda kubo. Khuthaza yakho phakathi ukuba usebenze ngquzulwano. Ukuthi, "Ndiyaxolisa" kunokuthetha okuninzi kule minyaka, kwaye kunceda abantwana baqonde ukuba banembopheleleko yindlela abaphatha ngayo abanye.
Ubuhlobo obuqinileyo bunokuba buthathaka ngamaxesha onke, kodwa ukuba kwenziwa umgudu wokusebenza ngquzulwano, aba bahlobo baya kuphila.
Inyaniso Ngohlobo Lokwenene
- Abahlobo bokwenene baxhasana
- Abahlobo bokwenene bathi "Ndiyaxolisa"
- Abahlobo bokwenene abanomona
- Abahlobo bokwenene banokuthenjwa
- Abahlobo bokwenene babonisa inhlonipho
- Abahlobo bokwenene baphulaphulana
- Abahlobo bokwenene benza umgudu
- Abahlobo bokwenene banokuthi benze njenge "jerks" ngezinye ixesha, kodwa ekugqibeleni bafika