Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uneminyaka emininzi ukuba ube nguyise, kukho ubuninzi beninzi amathuba okuba nguyise ongcono. Ngokufunda ukufumana ithuba, unokudala impembelelo enhle kubantwana bakho, umzekelo. Iintlobo zokuba iidrafes zibe kwiindawo eziliqela-iimvakalelo, ezempilo, ezentlalontle kunye nezomoya. Ukuze ufikelele kumntu obulungele abaninzi, umtshato kunye nentsapho yokuphila ingaba yindlela.
Ukuba ngumntu ongcono
Ngokuba nguyise ongcono, unokuba ngumntu ongcono. Nangona abanye abantu abanootata banokuziva bekhathele, badikibala, baxakeke, abanye banamandla, baphefumlelwe kwaye banamandla. Enyanisweni, kukho izifundo ezibonisa ukuba ubaba unceda njani amadoda enempilo, umsebenzi, kunye nokwaneliseka komsebenzi-ukunciphisa ingozi yokudandatheka.
Enoba ugosa ngombono wokuba nguyise okanye ufuna ukuqinisekiswa malunga nokukhetha kwakho, ungafunda malunga neenzuzo zobuqu zokuba ngubaba owenza ukuba kulungele konke ekugqibeleni.
Impilo Yomntu Iphucula
Uphando lubonisa ukuba isakhiwo esiza kubomi bomntu ngenxa yokuba ubaba uyamnceda enze ukhetho olungcono. Ngokutsho kwabazali bakaMagazini , ootata badla ukulahlekelwa yimikhwa emibi efana nokutshaya kwaye baqale ukukhetha ukutya okuphekwe ekhaya ngokutya okukhawuleza. Ukuba nosapho ufike ekhaya kwaye ube noxanduva lokunceda ootata bakhethe indlela yokuphila enempilo.
Umsebenzi weNqanaba landa
Imizila efana nokuvuka ebusuku, ukudlala nabantwana, nokuhamba epakini kwenza abantwaba basebenze kwaye bazive bengcono ngokwabo. I-Pew Research Centre yafumanisa ukuba ama-54% wabantwana baxabisa izibonelelo zokuba ngumzali.
Ukuxinwa kweengxaki ezinxulumene nokunciphisa
ISiko leSizwe seMpilo yengqondo sifumane ukuba amadoda ahlala kunye nobudlelwane bokwenu bentsapho abanako ukufumana iingxaki zempilo ezinxulumene noxinzelelo.
Imiba enjengeentlungu ezingapheliyo, ukusila, iingxaki zesisu, kunye nokukhathala zizinzima kakhulu kubazali abazinzileyo kunabanye abancinci besilisa.
Ikhono loKhuhliswa liphuhliswa
Ngokuqhelekileyo, sibona amakhwenkwe kunye namadoda amancinci ekuziphatheleni ngokwabo kunye nokuzimela. Ngethamsanqa, i-Minnesota Fatherhood Initiative yafumanisa ukuba amadoda aphumelele njengoyise abe ngephambili ekugxileni ngaphakathi kwaye aphuhlise amandla amakhulu okunyamekela nokunyamekela abanye . Abenjenjalo nje kuphela kubantwana babo, kodwa ngababafazi babo, abahlobo kunye nabasebenza nabo.
Umngcipheko weNtsholongwane yokuThuthukiswa kwengcinezelo
Amadoda ahlala yodwa aneengozi enkulu yokudandatheka nokuzibulala kunamadoda ashade nabantwana. Uphando oluvela kwiHarvard Men's Health Watch lubonise uphando lwabadala abangama-127,545 baseMerika ukuba amadoda atshatileyo aphilile kunabo abangatshatanga, abaqhawule umtshato okanye abafelokazi.
Ukwaneliseka koJob kuqhubela phambili
Oobawo owenzayo baziva bekhululekile emsebenzini wabo kwaye bakholelwa ukuba benza kakuhle emsebenzini. Oku kwenzeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunamadoda abangaboyise. Ngokutsho kweNew York Times , oobawo abathanda umsebenzi wabo bahlala bebonisa inkxaso eyaneleyo yokuzimela komntwana kwaye babe nolwalamano olungcono nabo.
Ukujongana neZakhono zoPhuhliso
Amadoda ooyise athambekele ekubeni neengxaki zokumelana nokuxinezeleka kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi, kungekhona nje ekhaya.
Iziko loPhando loPhando loLuntu libonise ukuba oobawo abanobudlelwane obuhle nezingane zabo babenokwanda kwintlalo yengqondo.
Abantwana bafunde kakuhle
Isifundo soBuncinane besifundo sexesha elide sabona ukuba ootata abathintekayo nabachaphazelekayo bafunda izakhono zobomi ngokukhawuleza nangcono kunabantwana bengabandakanyeka kubawo ebomini babo. Uhlolisiso lwabantwana baseBarbados ozalelwe oomama abaselula bafumanisa ukuba abantwana ababandakanya uyise baba nebanga elingcono kunabanye abantwana.
Ubulili bufumana ngcono
Ootata abatshatileyo unina wabantwana banesondo esiphezulu nangcono kunabesilisa abangenawo ulwalamano olunjalo lwentsapho.
Oku kubangelwa ukuba unxulumano phakathi koomama noyise luhlala luqiniswa, kwaye oobawo bathambekele ekunandipha umlingane wabo emva kokuba sele bebele.
Inkululeko Yomntu Yomeleza
Uphando lubonisa ukuba ootata abanako amathuba okuba bahlangabezane nenkqubo yobulungisa bezobugebengu. Baye banamathela kwizibhedlele ezimbalwa zokungeniswa kwezibhedlele, ukungabikho kancinci nokufa kwangaphambili, kunye nokunciphisa umngcipheko wokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi.