Izinketho kunye neZibongo kuwe nakumntwana wakho
Iholide lixesha elihle kwabanye abantwana. Izibane ezikhanyayo, umculo weKrisimesi, izibonda, amaqela kunye nokutyelela kunye no-Santa kunokubakho izinto ezinokuzonwabisa ezinokubakho abantwana. Kubantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa kunye nabazali babo, nangona kunjalo, iziganeko ezinomsindo omkhulu, izihlwele ezinkulu kunye nezibane ezikhanyayo zinokuba nzima.
Kunzima kunokuba izigwebo zabanye zomntwana ongeke aziphathe ngendlela elindelekileyo.
Amehlo aqingqiweyo xa umntwana engakwazi ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza kumbuzo othi ufuna ntoni uSanta? Ukugubungela xa umntwana encibilika phantsi, ngakumbi xa "ekhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuba aziphathe."
Kungaba nzima ukunyuka ekhaya lakho kunye neemfuno zakho ezizodwa kwaye uvale ihlabathi. Ngamanye amaxesha, kuxhomekeke kumntwana wakho kunye nemeko yakho, akuyiyo into embi. Kodwa zikho ezinye iindlela ezintle zeentsapho ezineemfuno ezikhethekileyo abantwana ukuba banandiphe iiholide ngaphandle kwentlungu. Nazi ezinye iziphakamiso eziphezulu malunga nokwenza ixesha likhanyise!
Gwema izihlwele ngelixa ufumana umdla wokuzonwabisa
Izihlwele zizinzima kubantu abaninzi, kunye nezingane ezineemfuno ezizodwa, zinokuba nzima. Abantwana abaxakeke kakhulu banokuthi banyibilike, baqhube kakuhle, okanye bavele bakhawuleze. Ukuze ugweme ingxaki, thintela izihlwele. Nantsi indlela:
- Esikhundleni seendwendwe kunye neziganeko ezikhanyayo ezinkulu zaseKrisimesi, ziqwalasele ukuthatha imoto yokuqhuba ukujonga ezinye zezona ziboniso eziphezulu zokukhanya kwendawo. Ezinye iindawo zize zibonelele ngokubonisa ukukhanya kwebala elikhulu. Ungonwabela izinto ezimangalisayo zezibane ngaphandle kokubanda, ingxolo, okanye izihlwele!
- Ukutyelela iintengiso ezikhethiweyo kwieholide. Khangela iifestile zeeholide xa izitrato zivaliwe, okanye ziyeke kwiimyuziyam ezihlotshisiwe okanye ezitolo kwizinto zokuqala ekuseni xa kungekho mntu uphakamileyo.
- Endaweni yokuya kwintengiselwano ukutyelela i-Santa, mema "uSanta" ukutyelela ikhaya lakho ingxoxo yomntu.
- Esikhundleni sokutyelela iMarike yeKrisimesi ephakamileyo kwisixeko, yima e-nursery yasekuhlaleni apho imifuno enhle yeholide kunye nezibane zakha i-wonderland encane.
- Hlola iphepha kunye ne-Google ye-Friendly Sly Friendly Santas, iivenkile, ii-movie kunye nokunye. Uluntu oluninzi ludala amava ngokubhekiselele kwiimfuno zezingane kunye nabantu abadala abakwazi ukuphazamiseka lula.
- Hlala ekhaya uze ubhaka ii-cookie, wenze iigqabi zamaphepha, uthinte i-snowflakes, okanye mhlawumbi unomdla kunye nomntwana wakho. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza uninzi lomsebenzi, kunjalo!
Jabulela iiholide ezincinane ngexesha
Uninzi lweentsapho zijwayele ukuya kwi-Nutcracker okanye uMesiya. Kwaye xa bathenga iholide yintlanganiso yeeyure eziliqela. IKrismesi ku-Grandma iqala ngokuntwela kokusa kwaye ayisapheli kude kube mnyama. Kodwa kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuzonwabisa ngamava eholide kwinqanaba elincinci, kwaye abaninzi abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa banokuphatha iholide encinane. Umzekelo:
- Esikhundleni sokuya kumculo wobugcisa okanye umcimbi womdaniso nomntwana wakho, qwalasela izinto ezincinci, ukuqhuba kwendawo okanye iikontshi ezingenasesikweni esingaphantsi, ezibiza ngexabiso elifutshane, kunye ezimfutshane. Nangona umntwana wakho eqala ukudibanisa phakathi kwaye kufuneka uhambe, uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho wayenomdla wokuba ngamava eholide.
- Cwangcisa uhambo olutshane, olulula oluthengisa umntwana wakho. Kunokuba uzame ukwenza konke ngokukhawuleza, thabatha umntwana wakho ukuyothenga ngesipho esisodwa okanye ezimbini ezibalulekileyo kubahlobo okanye entsapho. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba akhethe isipho esithile kumntu othandekayo ukuze abe nolwazi lokubukela ukuba luvule!
- Xa uceba usuku lwakho lweKrisimesi, cinga ngeemfuno zomntwana wakho ngaphambi kokwenza nayiphi na imbopheleleko. Ukuba umntwana wakho unako ukusingatha iiyure ezimbalwa (kodwa kungekho usuku lonke), kunye nesigqibo sokuza kubakho ixesha elide kubalulekile. Yenza isapho sakho esongezelelweyo siyazi isicwangciso sakho, kwaye unamathele kuso.
- Ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo uye kwiinkonzo zonqulo kwiKrisimesi, cinga ukuba uhleli eduze kwendlu engcwele ukuze ube lula "ukuphepha." Ukuba ubude benkonzo buba nzima kakhulu kumntwana wakho, unokubetha lula ukuhamba.
Ukukhathazeka Okungathandabuzekiyo "Iminyaka Elifanelekileyo" Amava
Iimvana ezininzi ezineemfuno ezizodwa "zincinci kuneminyaka yabo." Umntu oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala eneemfuno ezizodwa unokufumana ukukhaba okukhulu ngaphandle kweThomas kwiToyin yeetoyi okanye ukutyelela uSanta.
Ngeli xesha elikhethekileyo lonyaka, ke, wonke umntu uyinkwenkwe! Cinga ukukhetha amathoyizi ambalwa kunye namava aza kuhlawulela umntwana wakho nokuba ngaba ayenzelwe ngokwenene abantwana abancinci. Emva kwakho konke, abantu abadala abadala bayathanda ukubukela iRudolph i-Red-Nosed Reindeer kunye nendlela i-Grinch ibeke ngayo iKrismesi ! Amathuba ambalwa okuqwalasela:
- Vumela umntwana wakho ahlobise ii-cookies kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukuhlobisa kubonakala ngathi.
- Jonga i -Muppets uKrisimesi yeKarimesi endaweni yexesha elide, iinguqulelo zebali.
- Gquba izipho ezimbalwa oza kumthanda umntwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubudala bhokisi.
Yiba Nobubele Wena Nomntwana Wakho
Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive udidekile xa umntwana onemfuno ezizodwa engabonakali "ukufumana" iiholide okanye ukuxabisa konke okwenzayo ukulungiselela ixesha elikhethekileyo. Kungaba nzima ukunyamezela iimpawu kunye neengcamango zentsapho enentsingiselo kunye nabahlobo abangacacanga ukuba kutheni umntwana wakho engabonwabileyo kwaye echaphazelekayo. Awukwazi ukuguqula indlela yokuziphatha okanye iimvakalelo zabanye abantu, kodwa ungatshintsha yakho. Ukwenza iieholide zibe lula kubo bonke (kuquka nawe!):
- Khumbula ukuba iiholide azikho ukufumana udumo okanye ukwazisa; bahlala bezokwakha ubudlelwane kunye neemkumbulo (kwaye, kubantu abaninzi, ngokukhumbula ukubaluleka kwenkolo yeKrismesi). Ukuba unakho ukukhumbula nakwixesha elithile elikhethekileyo xa ieholide zenziwe, uphumelele!
- Zama ukufumana iindlela zokudibanisa nomntwana wakho kwinqanaba lakhe okanye malunga neminqweno yakhe. Ngaba unokufumanisa indlela yokutshitshisa inzala kwizinto ezithandekayo kuye, kwimizuzu yeeyure? Unokumangaliswa kwiziphumo ezilungileyo ozifumanayo!
- Zinike imvume yokuhamba kwiimeko ezinzima. Nangona ezinye iintsapho kunye nabahlobo banokubaluleka kwiimfuno ezikhethekileyo zezingane, abanye ... azinjalo. Ukuba lwakho usapho luwela kweli qela lesibini, kulungile ukupakisha kwangoko uze uhambe ekhaya. Awunyanzelekile ukuba unamathele kwiimeko ezingathandekiyo.
- Fumana inkxaso xa uyayidinga. Mhlawumbi ngokwenene ufuna ukuya kwi-carol ingoma, inkonzo yecawa, okanye iqela elikhethekileyo nokuba ngaba umntwana wakho akakwazi okanye akayi kuyenza. Akukho nto ephosakeleyo ngokucela ukunyamekelwa kancinci kubahlobo okanye kwintsapho ukuze ufumane amava okufuneka uhlawule kwaye ukhumbule ukuba kutheni ieholide zikhethekileyo!
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Kubantu abaninzi, iiholide zixinzeleleka okanye zingenazo abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa. Kodwa iholide ngokwenene ixesha eligqibeleleyo lonyaka ukuthatha isinyathelo emva, phawula oko kuhambe kakuhle kwinqanaba lomnyaka wokugqibela, kwaye ubhiyozele ukunqoba okuncinci. Kwakhona ixesha elide lokuchitha kunye nabantu obathandayo. Ukuba oko kuthetha ukuba ii-cookies ezimbalwa ezibhaka okanye amakhadi amancinci amancinane athunyelwe, yintengo encinci ukuhlawula ukuxhuma (okanye ukuxhuma kwakhona) nento eyenza umntwana wakho abe mhle kakhulu!