Uninzi lwaba bantu ngabantu abakhethekileyo abonisa uthando olungenammiselo, banikele ngenkxaso, banikele ihlombe ukukhala xa izinto ziba nzima, zifundisa imilinganiselo kubantwana babo, kwaye zize zifike xa uzifuna. Bakufanelekele ingqwalasela encinane ngosuku lwabo olukhethekileyo.
Akunabo bonke abazali balindele izipho okanye nayiphi na into enokuyisebenzisa imali. Nangona ukhetha ukuthenga isipho kunye nesipho ukuwugubungela uyihlo, yenze ubuchule uze udale imemori eza kuhlala ixesha elide ngaphezu kwe "# 1 uTata" umgudu, i-necktie, okanye itholide yegalufa.
Kukho iindlela ezimbalwa ezahlukahlukeneyo zokugubha uSuku lweBawo. Umzekelo, umzobo womntwana omncinci wosapho unokuthintela intliziyo kayise ngokufana nekhadi lesipho ukusuka kwindodana okanye indodakazi endala. Utata omtsha uya kuqonda ukuvuma okukhethekileyo kumama wengane.
AbaBawo kunye noBawo boMama
Ukuba u-patriarari ebomini bakho ngubaba wakho wezinto eziphilayo, u-stepadad wakho, okanye umntu wesilisa oye wakukhokela ekude kwaye ekhulile, uya kufuna ukumhlonela kulo suku olukhethekileyo. Uya kuxabisa ukuvuma, nangona akusiyo isizathu sokuba uthathe inxaxheba kule nxaxheba yobunkokeli. Akukho bukhulu bomntu obulinganayo ngoSuku lukaBawo, ngoko ke faka ingcinga engakumbi kwizinto ocinga ukuba uya kuthanda.
Umthendeleko woSuku lweeNtsapho zoBomi
Ukuba uyingxenye yentsapho edibeneyo, usenokubhiyozela bonke abachaphazelekayo. Kubalulekile ukukrazula okungenani imizuzu embalwa ukubonisa ukubaluleka komntu ngamnye oyise ebomini bakho.
Nazi ezinye izicwangciso zokugcina oko okwenene kodwa ungazivumeli ukuba zibe nzima:
- Gwema ukuvelisa nayiphi na imvakalelo enzima oyenayo ngaphambili. Ukuba ubhala umyalezo kubawo okanye ubaba wakho wesibini, bonisa kuphela iingcamango ezilungileyo. Emva koko, lo ngumhla wokubhiyozela, ungenayo.
- Ukuba ungumama wabantwana abanabo bobabini obaphilayo kunye noyise oyise, beka bucala iimvakalelo kunye neengcamango zabo kwaye bakhuthaze ukuba babonise uthando kubo bobabini. Abantwana bakho bangathanda ukuchitha yonke imini kunye noyise wabo, ngoko ke beka bucala olunye usuku okanye ixesha lokuba babhiyozele kunye nabazali babo xa bebandakanyeka ebomini babo.
- Abantwana abanomntu ohlala kunye no-stepdad akufanele bazive benetyala ngokuchitha ixesha kunye nabo bobabini, ngoko-ke mayeke ulwalamano olulodwa lube lulodwa ngaphandle kwemithwalo yomtshato womzali.
- Ungaze uzive ukuba izipho zababini bobabini kufuneka zilingane. Nangona nje becinga kakuhle, ootata bafanele babe nolonwabo ngokucinga.
Ixesha kunye neMali
Uninzi lwabazali bayazixabisa ixesha kunye nokucingisisa ngaphezu kwesipho esicacileyo. Ukuba unemali eninzi kwaye ufuna ukuthenga isipho esihle, qhubeka uye uthenge oko unokukwazi ukukwenza. Kodwa musa ukuliphonsa kuye kwaye uqhubeke ngendlela yakho yokuzonwabisa. Cwangcisa into ekhethekileyo kwaye wenze isipho sibe yingxenye yombhiyozo kwaye kungeyona nto kuphela oyenzayo.
Umgama omde
Ukuba unabantu abaninzi, awuhlali edolophini efanayo noyihlo. Ukuba awukwazi ukuhlala kwindawo efanayo, mbiza uze umxelele ukuba uthetha ntoni kuwe. Gcina ifowuni ikhuthaze kwaye ivuselele ngokumbulela ngezinto ezithile.
Nazi ezinye izinto onokuthi:
- Uhlala esebenza (okanye asebenza) nzima ukugcina uphahla phezu kwentloko yakho, iimpahla kumqolo wakho, kunye nokutya etafileni.
- Uphatha intsapho ngokuhlonela.
- Wayehlala ekhona kuwe xa ufuna umntu ophulaphulayo.
- Wayekho kwininzi yemidlalo yakho okanye izihlandlo.
- Wakuvumela ukuba ubukele iitokethi kwiTV, nangona iqela lakhe lezemidlalo elithandayo lidlala.
- Uhlala efumana iindlela zokuchitha ixesha kunye nawe .
- Wayeqinisekisa ukuba yonke imzuzu esetyenziselwe kunye nawe yayimkhethe.
Kwakulungile ukuthumela ikhadi ngaphambili. Bala ixesha elithathayo ukuze ufike apho uze ulifake ngosuku olongezelelweyo okanye ezimbini ukuze uqinisekise ukuba uyifumana phambi kokuba umnxeba wakho umnxeba. Ukuba unetyala lemali, kukuhle ukongeza isipho okanye ikhadi lesipho malunga nento eya kumdla.
Iingcebiso kunye nemibono yoSuku loBawo olukhethekileyo
Ingaba uyabhiyozela Usuku lukaBawo njengomntu omdala okanye ufuna ukubonisa umyeni wakho uthando oluthe xaxa ngunyaka wokuqala wobomi bentsana yakho, uya kufuna ukwenza usuku angayijonga emva kwakhe.
Nazi ezinye iimbono zokubonisa umntu okhokelayo uthando oluthile:
- Makhe alale, kwaye xa evuka, mlethe isidlo sakusasa ngesitya esenziwe kakuhle.
- Mphephe isidlo nazo zonke izitya ezithandayo, kwaye ungalibali i-dessert.
- Mthabathe kumcimbi wakhe owuthandayo, njengebhokisi lebhokisi okanye ikonsathi.
- Ukuba unayo imali, mnike into ayengayithengi yona. Le nto ingaba yikhompyutha, i-drone, i-toy control, okanye nayiphi enye into oyibonayo "Njengokuba ibonakala kwiTV" kwindawo yokugcina i-box box.
- Bhala ibali okanye imbongo ebonisa zonke iimpawu zakhe ezilungileyo kunye nezizathu ezikhethekileyo kuwe. Oku kunokuba kunzulu okanye kudibanise njengoko ufuna ukuba.
- Mthabathe kwi-drive kunye nendawo ekumangaliswe kuyo. Le nto ingaba yipikiniki epakini, ukuphunyuka kweveki-moya, ukutyelela kwendawo yokuvakasha, okanye nayiphi na indawo ocinga ukuba uya kuyithandayo.
- Mphathele kwisidlo kwivenkile yakhe yokutyela.
- Yenza eminye imisebenzi ayenzayo kwintsapho, njengokutshiza umtshini okanye ukuhlamba imoto.
- Gcwalisa ibhaskiti kunye nokuthandwa kwakhe kunye nezinye izinto eziya kumkhumbuza ukuba uyamthanda kangakanani. Ezinye izinto onokufuna ukuzenza ziquka ii-coffees, iibheyi, iibhotile zewayini, ikomityi yekhofi ekhethwe ngumntu, amaphephancwadi, iincwadi , amathikithi kumdlalo okanye ifilimu, iibhola zegalufa, ithayile ye-tennis, incwadi yekhuphoni ye-massage, ukutya okuthandayo, kunye nemisebenzi ejikeleze indlu.
- Mnike unyaka owodwa wokubhaliselwa kwee-cookies ezikhethiweyo, ikhekhe, okanye i-pie nyanga zonke.
Ubaba omtsha
Ootata beentlobo ezintsha zentlobo zihlala zikhohliwe kuba ukugxila kumama kwiinyanga ezilisithoba kwaye ngoku i-little bundle of happiness. Musa ukulibala ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani indima adlala kuyo ebomini bentsana.
Nazi ezinye iingcamango zesipho ku-ntata omtsha:
- Umgudu kunye nesithombe somntwana wakhe
- Ulusu lomntu okanye i-decal yekhompyuter yakhe, ifowuni okanye ithebulethi
- Ukudibanisa i-T-shirt ne-onese kuye kunye nosana
- Ibhokisi yeebhokisi ezaliswe izinto kwibawo abatsha
- Ifoto yomfanekiso wentsapho okanye iziprintshi zentsana
Ukuba utata omtsha uxhomekeke ekusebenzeni ngakumbi, nakhu ezinye iingcamango:
- Incwadana yokuzali
- Umntu ojongene nomntwana othwala umntwana okanye isitya se-diaper
- Uluhlu lwadlalwayo lwaLullaby lwabo bantu abangenasiphelo sokulala okanye amaxesha omnxeba
Musa ukulibale uMkhulu
Khumbula ukuba oomkhulu babengabayihlo bokuqala. Ingaba umntakwenu wakho wayesebenza kunye nawe njengoko wakhulela okanye ekugxothiseleni kude, uya kukuxabisa uhlobo oluthile lokuvuma ngalo suku olukhethekileyo. Kule ngxaki ebomini bakhe, mhlawumbi akalindelanga isipho esifanelekileyo. Umyalezo womntu kwikhadi, ileta, okanye umfanekiso oqingqiweyo uya kukhanyisa usuku lwakhe.
Ndiyabulela ngokuba ngubawo
Enye yezinto ootata abaninzi baya kuzixabisa ngaphezu koko nantoni na into oyenzayo kukubonga nje ukuba uyihlo. Kwiphepha lephepha elikhawulezayo, jonga phantsi uludwe lwezinto zobutata bakho uze ubafake kwisigijimi. Futhi ungakulibali ukumxelela ukuba uyamthanda kangakanani. Oko kuya kuthetha ukuba ngaphezu koyihlo ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye.