Indlela Yokugcina Imbali Yentsapho Iphila Ngaphandle kokuba abantwana bekhulile

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Ukugcina iMemori kunye neNkcubeko

Abazali banokuqiniseka ukuba baya kukhumbula ixesha elilodwa elikhethekileyo xa abantwana babo bekhula - kodwa xa bebazali, kunzima ngakumbi ukugcina iinkumbulo ezingqondweni zethu naseentliziyweni zethu, njengoko ezitsha zenziwa rhoqo. Ezi ngcamango zinokukunceda wena kunye nabantu bakho abaselula ukuba bakhumbule, ngokukodwa iintsuku ezikhethekileyo ezibonakala ngathi zidala.

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Tshela a mabali

Abantwana bakho abakhulileyo banokugubungela amehlo abo kunye nabazukulu baxakeka ngegama elilodwa (iiVCR, iimpendulo zoomatshini), kodwa indlela engcono yokugcina amabali aphilileyo kukubawaphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Njengamabali avela kwi-Brothers Grimm, iBhayibhile kunye neengcali zamaGrisi, iimbali zomlomo ziba yimbali yentsapho - yinyaniso kwaye iphakanyisiwe - ukugcina izizukulwana zidibeneyo.

Ngokungafani namaphephancwadi okanye iidayari, imbali yomlomo inokuyonwabela nayiphi na umntu osemdala, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bakwazi ukufunda okanye ukubhala kakuhle. Ukuba amabali angenelela okanye ahlelwe encinane njengeminyaka ehamba phambili, oko kulungile-into ebalulekileyo ukuqhubeka ubatshela ukuba amalungu entsapho angakwazi ukuqonda ukuba ngubani na kwaye avelaphi.

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Bhala Amanqaku Aphantsi

Ukufumana irekhodi engaphezulu kunye neyohlala ekhunjulwayo yeememori kunye nembali, uxwebhu olubhaliweyo luhlala luluvo oluhle. Ukuba unabantwana abancinci kubantwana bakho xa besemncinci, buyela uye wongeza kwiminyaka embalwa yokuqala ye-anecdotes ngokukhunjulwa kweminyaka kamva. Bhala malunga nosuku lwabo lokuqala lwe-kindergarten, uqala ukuchoboza, intlanganiso yokuqala, okokuqala ngqa kude nekhaya. Buza abantu bakho abaselula ngememori yabo kwaye wongeze loo mabali, kwakhona. Ngokufanelekileyo, uya kukhangela amabali amadala, kunye neefoto, amakhadi okubulisa, amakhadi okunika ingxelo, kunye nokunye okugcina kukho ikhompyutheni yakho nokwakha kwixesha elidala kunye nelo elitsha, kodwa nge-digitally - oku kuza kugcina amaxwebhu amaphepha afutshane kwiminyaka ezayo.

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Yenza Inkumbulo Yentsapho Inqabana

Mhlawumbi uye wambona iingubo zetafile abanye abantu abaye bazenza ezibandakanya iimpawu zentsapho. Le yindlela enhle yokugcina amagama kunye nobudala bamalungu entsapho ngeminyaka. Enye ingcamango yentsapho yokukhumbuza indwangu. Yenza ilungu ngalinye lentsapho etafileni ngexesha lokubhiyozela (I-Thanksgiving, iKrisimesi, iPasika, iintsuku zokuzalwa) bhala imemori emfutshane ekubhaliweyo ngesandla usebenzisa ummakishi osisigxina. Kungcono ukuba ungayisebenzisi le ntlupheko yokutya kodwa ulondoloze njengento yokugcina, nangona ingasetyenziswa phantsi kwekhava elicacileyo ukuba likhethwa. Unyaka ngamnye, malungu entsapho adibanise enye imemori evakalelwa kukuba iyayimfuneko kwaye ibhalise ukurekhoda. Ukufunda emva kweememori kungenantogri kunye nendlela enhle yokwenza iingxoxo.

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Ukuguqula iiVideos zakho kunye neefowuni kwiDavidi

Ukuba ubucingele phambili kwi-videotape uze ufotoze abantwana bakho benza izinto eziqhelekileyo xa bekhulile, kuhle kuwe. Ngelishwa, ininzi lethu lijolise kwiziganeko ezinkulu kwividiyo xa abantwana bethu bebancinci. Nantoni na oyilondolozile kwi-tepi okanye kwiifoto, qi niseka ukuba zonke zihanjiswe kwidijithali ngokukhawuleza. Kukho iinkonzo eziya kuguqula ividyo kwiiDVD, kunye neenkonzo eziya kuguqula ividiyo kwifomathi ekhompyutheni, ukuze ube nevidiyo ngaphandle kokuba kwenzeke kwaye unokufikelela kuyo naphi na.

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Hlola i-Ancestry yentsapho yakho

Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuphanda ookhokho bentsapho ngoku, kwaye ukwenza njalo kuyindlela enhle yokugcina imemori kunye neembali ezidlulileyo xa senza into kunye. Ukufumanisa amalungu osapho asekude okanye ukuxhuma kunye nabahlali abaye baphucula baya kuvuselela umntu wonke ukuba yinxalenye yento ekhethekileyo neyodwa. Yiya kwiifoto ezindala kwaye, ukuba unako ukufumana amagama ezinxulumane onokungazi malunga nazo. Buza amalungu omndeni asekudala ukuba abelane ngemikhumbuzo yabadala kunye nabazali, kunye neenkcukacha ezininzi njengoko kunokwenzeka. Awukwazi ukuba yiyiphi imimangaliso ongayifumana ekukhangekeni kookhokho bakho.

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Gcina Imasiko Njengeentsapho Ukukhula

Amalungu omtsha amatsha - ukusuka kwintsapho entsha ukuya kubantwana abatsha - kufuneka aqaliswe kwizithethe zentsapho ekuqaleni. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintsapho yonyaka yentsapho kunye ne-Thanksgiving turkey okanye uhambo lwasehlotyeni ukuya kwindlu ye-echibi, ukudala iinkumbulo ezintsha kunye nezithethe ezide ziyinkolelo yokugcina ezo zikhumbuzo ezindala ziphila. Gwema "kufuneka ube khona" amabali kunye neenkcukacha ezongezelelweyo kwintsapho - kwaye ubanike ithuba lokuxelela amabali abo entsapho ngokunjalo. Wonke umntu uvela kwintsapho yabo kwaye abaphulaphule bathetha iintetho zabo zentsapho ziya kwenza bazive bevulekile kwaye bekhululekile.