Ukususela esemncinci, umntwana wakho uya kubakhokela abanye, ahlakulele ubuhlobo obuqinileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukufunda indlela yokuba ngumhlobo olungileyo akusikho isakhono esicacileyo.
Abantwana abazabalazela ukuba ngumhlobo omhle babonise inani elifanelekileyo lemicimbi yokuziphatha. Ukuxubha, ukutshatyalaliswa ngokomzimba , kunye nokubizwa ngegama rhoqo kuvela xa abantwana bengenazo izakhono zokudlala kakuhle nabanye.
Kubalulekile ukunceda umntwana wakho abe nobuhlobo obunempilo. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba abe ngumhlobo omhle, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuhlangana nemicimbi embalwa yoluleko.
Yenza I-Self-Esteem
Isinyathelo sokuqala ekufundiseni umntwana ukuba ube ngumhlobo omhle kukumfundisa ukuba abe mhle kuye. Xa umntwana eneengqiqo ezizimeleyo , akayi kuziva ukuba kuyimfuneko ukujoyina ukuxhatshazwa okanye ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ukuze azive engcono okanye angene.
Ukongezelela, umntwana onengqondo ephilileyo uya kuba nobuhlobo obunempilo kwaye aphephe ubudlelwane obunobungozi phantsi kwendlela.
Fundisa i zakhono zoLuntu
Ukuziphatha kwentlalo efanelekileyo akuyinto engafanelekanga. Ukudlala umdlalo nomntwana wakho ukuze umfundise indlela yokuthetha ngeentlondi nabantu abadala kunye nabanye abantwana.
Izakhono zentlalo eziba buhlobo kubandakanya ukufunda indlela yokuthi "hayi" kunye nendlela yokwamkela "cha" njengempendulo evela komnye umntu. Umntwana wakho ufuna kwakhona ukuxolisa (kwaye uthetha!), Xubana nomhlobo ngenhlonipho, mamela abanye, uvakalise uvelwano kwaye ube yimidlalo emihle kwimidlalo .
Jabulela iincwadi malunga nobuhlobo
Ukusuka kwi-Frog kunye ne-Toad kuWinnie the Pooh noChristopher Robin, uncwadi lwabantwana luba nobuhlobo obuqinileyo. Sebenzisa iincwadi njengethuba lokuthetha malunga nento eyenza abo bahlobo basebenze, kwaye zeziphi iimpawu ezibonakaliswe ukuba zikuncede.
Qinisekisa ukuba ufunda iincwadi malunga nabahlobo abahluke kakhulu komnye nomnye ukubonisa umntwana wakho ukuba unokuhlonela njani ukungafani kwaye usenokuba ngumhlobo.
Yenza abahlobo abatsha
Kuya kuba nzima ukwenza abahlobo njengoko ukhula. Ukuxhalaba kwezenhlalakahle, kunye nokungahambi kwamathuba, kunokudala izithintelo zokubonga abantu abatsha.
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba athathe njani iqhinga lokwenza abahlobo - liya kumkhonza ngexesha elide. Endaweni yokuba uhlale endlwini, phuma uye epakini okanye ubhalisele kwiklasi.
Zizise ngokwakho umntu onomntwana oneminyaka elilinganayo nawe. Bonisa umntwanakho ukuba akufanele ukuba asongele ukuhlangabezana nomntu omtsha (ngelixa eqhubeka eqinisekisa ukuphepha kwabangaphandle). Awukwazi ukuba ungaphi umhlobo wakho osisigxina esiphila kuyo!
Beka Umzekelo Omhle
Umntwana wakho ubukela indlela oziphatha ngayo, nangona ungacingi ukuba uyayithobela. Umntwana wakho uya kufunda indlela yokuphatha abahlobo bakhe ngendlela ophatha ngayo oontanga bakho.
Ukuba uthe waxoka nabahlobo bakho, bathethe kakubi ngabo emva komva okanye baxake into ethile obona ibaluleke ngakumbi, umntwana wakho uya kucinga ukuba indlela efanelekileyo yokuphatha umntu. Kunoko, yibani nomusa, nibe neentlonelo kwaye nihlale nizinikezele kwiimbopheleleko zenu zentlalo.
Ukufunda indlela yokuba ngumhlobo olungileyo akuyona inkqubo yobusuku. Njengomzali, mhlawumbi ungena kwiimeko apho umntwana wakho engenzi njengomhlobo ongcono kakhulu.
Kuya kubakho umdlalo, ukulwa kunye nokuhleba. Yenza loo maqhekeza abe ngamaxesha athile, kwaye umcele ukuba umhlobo omhle wayenokuba njani kwimeko. Ekugqibeleni, uya kufumana umxhelo walo kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ube ngumhlobo onomdla, onomusa kunye onokuthenjwa.