Ngaba kukho inguqu enzima kumntu kunokuba ube ngumntu ongatshatanga kunye nabantwana ekhaya? Ingaba ulahlekelwa ngumlingane wakho kunye nomama wabantwana bakho ekufeni okanye ngenxa yokuqhawula umtshato kunye / okanye ukushiya, ukulungelelanisa into entsha yezinto kukuba ngumsebenzi omkhulu oguqula ubomi.
Abaninzi abatsha abangatshatanga bazama ukukwazi ukuba baqale kuphi. Yintoni ekufuneka ibe ngowokuqala kwoluhlu lwakho, kwaye uqala njani ukufumana iingalo zakho ngokubanzi?
Njengabantu abadala, ubuncinane sifunde iindlela ezithile zokuhlangabezana nokuphila kwethu ukujongana notshintsho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana bethu abakulungele ngokupheleleyo ukuba nobawo oyedwa njengomncedisi wabo oyintloko. Ngoko njengoko unceda abantwana bakho balungelelanise, qwalasela ezi ngcebiso.
Iingcebiso zoHlelo kwiTata elingabodwa
Enye yemingeni enkulu intsha engatshatanga indixelela kum, kuyimfuneko yokuseka iinkqubo ezintsha xa omnye umntu omdala ekhaya engekho. Ukusuka ekufumaneni iindlela zokuthenga ivenkile kunye nesicwangciso sokutya ngokufanelekileyo ngokugcina imisebenzi yasekhaya ngokuchanekileyo, kukho ininzi yokulungelelanisa ukwenza kwaye akunakunceda kakhulu ukwenza loo nto.
Ukukhulisa intombazana njengoBawo ongabodwa
Uninzi lwabayiki banomdla wokuba bavelise intombi ngaphandle komama ekhaya. Kuyinselele ukuqiniseka, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uyayicinga xa ugxininisa kwiimfuno zakhe ezithile, kumnceda ukuba athole imifanekiso emihle yabesifazane kwaye abonise uthando ngendlela angayifumana ngayo.
UkuPhila ubomi njengoBawo otsha ngokutsha
Ubawo ongatshatanga uguquko olunzima ukuba uqiniseke, kodwa kuba nguyise oyedwa ngenxa yokufa komlingane wakho umrhumo womoya kwaye unomxholo obalulekileyo weengxaki esingaze silindele. Ukujongana nentlungu kunye nokulahleka kwakho ngenkqu ukunceda abantwana bakho ngeyona nto kulula, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iimpembelelo zazo zonke ziyancipha.
Funda indlela abanye ootata abaye bajamelana ngayo nenguqu kunye nento enokuyenza ukuze ncedise abantwana bakho kunye nawe ubhekane nokulahlekelwa ngumfazi kunye nomama wabo.
Iifaki zezinto ezithandiweyo zasekhaya
Yiyiphi imisebenzi yasekhaya ayithandi kakhulu? Kwabanye, ukutshitshisa nokupakisha ikhitshini kumgangatho onzima kunokuba kubonakala kulungele usuku kwaye emva koko konke uqaphela ukuba kubi kangakanani. Abanye abazonda ukucoca izindlu zokuhlambela, ukucoca ifriji okanye ukufumana amanzi amanqabileyo kwiifestile. Le mivuzo yezinto eziqhelekileyo ezithandwayo zendlu zingakunceda ukuba uthintele imisebenzi ongayithandiyo kwaye uyenze ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukutshatyalaliswa Kwenziwe Okwenziwe nguDates kunye no-Dont for Divorced Dads
Xa ucinga ukuba ulungele ukubuyela kwindawo yokuthandana, uyaqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba akuyona ihlabathi elifanayo xa wawuqhathaniswa nexesha lokugqibela. Ukongeza kwinto yokuba abazali abangatshatanga banamathuba amaninzi kunye neentsilelo kwihlabathi lokuthandana, kwaye inkqubo iyanzima. Khangela iinqununu ezimbalwa zeengcebiso ezivela kwabanye ootata malunga nendlela yokuphatha ukuthandana njengomntu onabantwana.