Lo msebenzi unika uncedo kumntwana wakho ngexesha elinzima
Xa ukufa kwelungu lentsapho, umlingane ofunda naye okanye umhlobo uvela khona, abazali, abagcini kunye nabanye abanonophelo bahlala bengawuboni okanye bachithe iimvakalelo zangempela zokudabuka nentlungu abavakalelwa ngabantwana emva kokulahleka, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bebudala babo. Eli nqaku lichaza indlela ongayidlala ngayo umdlalo "igama lomdlalo" nomntwana wakho, umsebenzi owenziwe ngezandla ukulungiselela ukumenza intlungu ukuze ahlangabezane nokufa komntu othandekayo.
Iinzuzo zeMidlalo yegama le-Acrostic
Izikhalazo zabantu abadala zifumana induduzo enkulu kwinethiwekhi yabo yokuxhaswa kwentlungu, oko kukuthi, amanye amalungu entsapho kunye nabahlobo abazimisele ukubonelela ngesipho sobukho babo kunye nokuphulaphula indlebe xa / xa abafelweyo befuna ukuthetha. Ngenxa yobudala babo kunye nokungenamava, ke ke, abaninzi abantwana bayazi nje ukuba bayazilimaza ngaphakathi kodwa abaqondi ukuba banokubuyela kubazali babo, umgcini okanye umnakekeli onothando uncedo (okanye abanokuziva bekhululekile ukwenza njalo). I-acrostic "igama lomdlalo" alinikanga nje indlela yokudala yokuba umntwana wakho abonise iimvakalelo zakhe malunga nomntu owafa kodwa unokukhuthaza nokukwabelana ngokucacileyo kweengcamango, iinkumbulo kunye neemvakalelo ezifunekayo rhoqo ekusebenzeni kakuhle kwentlungu.
Ngaphezu koko, lo msebenzi unokubonelela ngesifundo esibalulekileyo esibalulekileyo malunga nokufa kunye nendlela yokuphumelela ngokufanelekileyo , okuza kukunceda umntwana wakho esikhathini esizayo xa ehlangabezana nokufa komntu othandekayo.
Udlala njani umdlalo wegama le-Acrostic
Izinto eziza Kufuneka : Iphepha elimhlophe okanye elinemibala; ipensela, ipen, iipensele ezinemibala, iikhrayoni kunye / okanye amanqaku. Ungaphinde unike i-glue, i-tape yokubamba, i-scissors, i-glitter, njl. Xa umntwana wakho enqwenela ukuyihlobisa le projekthi.
Umda wobudala : Lo msebenzi ulungele abantwana abaneminyaka engama-5 +.
Ixesha elifunekayo : ubuncinane imizuzu engama-30 yokuthula, ingaphazamiseki ixesha, kodwa imizuzu engama-60 +.
Indlela yokusebenzisa : Mema umntwana wakho ukuba akujoyine itafile kunye nezinto ezibekwe phakathi kwakho. Cacisa ukuba bobabini bakha isibonelelo esikhethekileyo kumntu owafa ngokubhala igama lakhe ngokubhekiselele kwiphepha lephepha ngaphambi kokusebenzisa nganye ileta ngaphakathi kwegama okanye ibinzana ukuchaza umgangatho okhethekileyo ayenayo, into ebandakanyekayo imemori, okanye ukubonisa indlela ozivakalelwa ngayo ngomntu owafa ( njengoko kuboniswe kumfanekiso ongentla, umzekelo ).
Ukuba umntwana wakho unzima ukucinga ngegama okanye ibinzana elihambelana neleta efunekayo , mcele ukuba achaze iimvakalelo zabo malunga nomfi kwaye anikele ngesiluleko okanye ezimbini eza kusebenza kunokumxelela umntwana okokubhala. Injongo yalo msebenzi kukuba unikeze ithuba lokukhokela umntwana wakho ukuba achaze oko akuvakalelwa ngayo ngokufa komntu othandekayo kwaye ekugqibeleni, ukuba uthethe ngeemvakalelo nawe - ukuba ungagqiba le projekthi ngokukhawuleza okanye ukuphazamisa okwesikhashana umntwana wakho kwintlungu yakhe ngokumnika into enokuyenza.
Ngako oko, kufuneka uqaphele amagama okanye iincwadana umntwana wakhothayo, nokuba unobungozi bokucinga ngento ethile , njl. , Bese usebenzisa le miba njengendlela yokuqalisa ingxoxo kunye nonyana wakho okanye intombi ekhuthaza ukwabelana ngokuvulekileyo iingcinga, iinkumbulo kunye neemvakalelo.
Emva kokugqiba kokubili, tshintsha i-acrostics yakho ukuze uhlaziywe kwaye uqhubeke (okanye uqalise) ingxoxo ngokubuza umntwana wakho ukuba kungani esebenzisa "iTeddy Bear" kwileta T, umzekelo, okanye uchaza ukuba wenze ntoni ukuba ukhethe ibinzana elithi "Big Smile "ngencwadi yokuqala ye" Bob "(okanye nayiphi na imeko inokwenzeka). Injongo apha kukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba ahlanganyele iingcamango zakhe neemvakalelo zakhe, ezibonisa isifundo sokuphila esinamandla sokuthetha ngokufa komntu othandekayo; ukufumana ingqalelo kwingxaki yomntwana wakho yokufa ekufeni kwangoku; kwaye uqiniseke ukuba unyana wakho okanye intombi akufanele azive yedwa ngeli xesha.
Ekugqibeleni, emva kokuxoxa ngendlela umntwana wakho abavakalelwa ngayo ngokufa komntu owamthandayo, unokuphinda ucetyise ukuba uqhubeke ehlobisa iphepha ukuba ufuna kwaye / okanye ucele ukuba wenzeni ngeprojekthi yakhe ephelileyo . Unokwenza, umzekelo, ukuphakamisa imbono yokuyibeka kwisiqwenga kwaye uyixhoma kwindawo ethile ekhaya; ukubonisa njengesipho kwesinye isikhalazo; ukuthumela ifoto kwi-intanethi ngeendaba zoluntu; uyifake ebhokisini leememori okanye udibanise kwi-collage memori, njl.
UkuFunda okudibeneyo :
• Ukunceda abantwana baqalane nokufa
• Indlela yokuthetha nabantwana malunga nokufa
• Izidingo zabantwana ababuhlungu
• Ukubuhlungu iincwadi zeBantwana
• Yintoni ongayithetha kumzali onomsindo