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Mhlawumbi sakho isikolo esiphakathi sikubonisa ukuba bafuna ukuzimela ngokuphikisana nani kwaye bakunzima ngethuba ngalinye. Umfundi wakho ophakathi ukwazise ukuba bafuna indawo engaphezulu. Uyazi ukuba isikolo sakho esiphakathi sifumana ukuzimela.

Mhlawumbi ngexesha leminyaka yesikolo, umntwana wakho wabuya ekhaya kwaye wanxusa ukuba uthathe inxaxheba kunye nokuzithandela esikolweni sakho nanini na ukuba ube khona.

Ngoku, i-kati yakho ayifuni ukubonakala esidlangalaleni nawe.

Yongeza kule nto uzive ukhathele emva kweminyaka yonke yokuvolontiya nanini na xa unakho ngexesha leprayimari - unokuziva uthanda ukuhamba ngokupheleleyo ekubandakanyekeni nomntwana wakho esikolweni esiphakathi.

Ungabuyisanga okwamanje. Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezenza ukuba isikolo sakho esiphakathi sisakudinga ngethuba lokuguqulwa kwabadala.

Ufuna nje ukuthatha indlela eyahlukileyo kunokuba unayo ngaphambili. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nezindlela ezingcono zokuncedisa umntwana wakho esikolweni esiphakathi.

Suka kude Ube Nezandla-Nge-Uncedo Ukujongana Nokucebisa Endaweni

Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba kutshintshwe ixesha, kungekhona utshintsho oluzelelwe. Ngethuba lokutshintsha ngokukhawuleza kokukhula umntwana wakho uya kuba nako ukuthatha zonke iintlobo zengxanduva ababengenako ukwenza ngaphambili. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba babefuna ukuba uhambe nabo esikolweni, ngoku banokukwazi ukuhamba esikolweni ngokwabo.

Umntwana wakho uya kuba nokuthatha imisebenzi emininzi njengoko beqhubeka bexanduva lwabo ngokweenqanaba leminyaka eliphakathi.

Uncedo Ngexesha loLawulo kunye neNhlangano

Abantwana bafumana utshintsho olukhulu kwindlela abafuna ngayo ukucwangcisa nokuhlela umsebenzi wabo wesikolo xa beza esikolweni esiphakathi.

Abafundi baseMbindi babe neetitshala ezahlukeneyo endaweni yomfundisi omnye wokufundela. Umfundisi ngamnye uya kuba yinto eyahlukileyo kwizinto abazilindeleyo xa banika umsebenzi kunye nendlela ekuzaliswe ngayo.

Ukongezelela, izikolo eziphakathi zinika umsebenzi wesikolo ophezulu kunye neemvavanyo ezingaphezulu kwezikolo zaseprayimari. Abafundi besikolo esiphakathi banikezelwa izitshixo zezinto eziphathekayo, kodwa banikwa ixesha elincinane kunye nemiyalelo yokulungiselela nokugcina ii-lockers zabo. Konke oku kwongezelela ukunyuka okukhulu kwiimfuno zokulawula ixesha ukulungiselela izinto zabo.

Ngenhlanhla, izikolo ezininzi ezisemaphakamileyo ziyakwazi ukutshintsha kwaye zinike uqeqesho kunye nesakhiwo ekuncedeni ukufundisa abafundi ezi zakhono ezintsha. Unokuxhasa umntwana wakho ngokuya nasiphi na isikolo esikolweni esiphakathi kwaye ufumanisa ukuba isikolo kunye nathishela ngamnye silindele ngokwenkqubo kunye nomsebenzi wesikolo kugqitywa.

Zisebenzise ngamaphi na mathuba anxibelelwano anikezelwa kubazali, njengee-imeyli zeveki, ii-newsletters kunye ne-portal portals. Uya kufuna le ngcaciso ukuze ukwazi ukubeka iliso kunye nokucebisa umntwana wakho ekugqibezeni umsebenzi wabo.

Ngaphambi kokuba isikolo siqale, fumana izinto ezikuluhlu lokubonelela izikolo. Ungaphinda ufune ukuqwalasela abaququzeleli be-locker, iithebhu ezongezelelweyo kunye nesicwangciso somfundi ukuba isikolo asiboneleli ngamnye umfundi.

Izikolo ezininzi eziphakathi zifuna ukuba abafundi basebenzise umcwangcisi wephepha ukugcina umkhondo wezabelo. Qiniseka ukujonga isicwangciso somntwana wakho rhoqo. Ukuba akukho nto ibhaliwe kuyo, landela ngokujonga ngetitshala bentwana yakho ukuba babone ukuba ngaba kufuneka babe neengxelo ezirekhodiweyo kumcwangcisi wazo.

Yiba kufuphi ngaphandle kokuhamba

Umfundi wakho ophakathi unokufuna kwaye afune ukuzimela, kodwa nangona bezinye iimeko zabo ezintle, bayakuthanda kwaye bakudinga. Funda ukubuyela emva kwaye ubanike isikhala ngaphandle kokubandakanyeka ngokuthe ngqo kwixesha lonke.

Esikhundleni sokugxotha iqela elithile lomntwana kwindlela yokuhamba kwintsimi, unako ukukhangela iqela leqela labafundi abaphakathi.

Ukubandakanyeka ne- PTA / PTO kunika amathuba okubandakanyeka ekuxhaseni isikolo ngokuya kwiintlanganiso zebhunga zedolophu okanye ukufuna iminikelo evela kumashishini asekuhlaleni kunokuba yintliziyo yokuzithandela.

Xa kuziwa kwimisebenzi yasekhaya, abaninzi bezikolo abaphakathi babengazilungele ukwenza umsebenzi wabo wesikolo emagumbini abo ngokupheleleyo kude nokulawula. Kulula kakhulu kubo ukuba baphazamiseke nantoni na ngaphandle komsebenzi wesikolo. Zigcine zifuphi kwaye zenze umsebenzi wabo wesikolo kwitheyibhile yekhitshi okanye kwenye indawo yendlu apho ungabona ukujonga kuyo.

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Iminyaka yesikolo esiphakathi yinkalo enkulu yenguqu ukususela ebuntwaneni ukuya kwintsha. Umfundi wakho osesikolweni ukhula ngokukhawuleza kwaye uyazimelela ngokwengeziwe ngosuku ngalunye. Ukukhumbula ukuba usabaluleke kakhulu kubomi babo. Bakho xa beqala ukuzimelela ngakumbi, nokuba ngabahlali okanye ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo.