Ukuhamba esikolweni kunokuba yindlela enhle yokuba abantwana bafumane ukusetyenziswa kwansuku zonke abayidingayo. Kodwa kuluphi ixesha elifanelekileyo ukuba umntwana ahambe yedwa esikolweni?
Abantwana abaninzi kunye nabazali babo banokucinga ukuba banako ukuhamba ukuhamba ukuya kwinqanaba lebhasi yesikolo kunye nayo yonke indlela eya esikolweni ngokwabo kwinqanaba lesibini okanye lesithathu. Nangona kunjalo, iingcali ezininzi zokukhusela abantwana ezifana ne-American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) zithi abantwana abasenakukwazi ukujongana nokukhawuleza okanye imeko engalindelekanga de kube phakathi kweminyaka eyi-9 ukuya kwe-11 ubudala, okanye malunga nebanga lesihlanu.
Izakhono Ukufundisa Umntwana Wakho Ukuhamba Esikolweni
Abazali bangaqala ukuqhuba imithetho yokukhusela yabantwana kunye nemithetho yokuphepha kweenyawo ukuze abafundi babo bebanga elizimeleyo bahlale bezimeleyo baze bahambe esikolweni bodwa. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba:
- Ukuqwalasela i-traffic ngaso sonke ixesha xa uwela esitrato uze ususe ifowuni okanye ezinye izixhobo zecomputer ezifaka isandla ekuphazamiseni ukuhamba.
- Soloko uwela kwi-intersection apho kukho izibane zendlela; Musa ukuwela phakathi kwebhloko.
- Khangela ngakwesobunxele, kunene, uze ushiye kwakhona ngaphambi kokuwela; mnqamlezo ngelixa ugcina iliso kwizithuthi.
- Hlalani nilindile ukujika kwezithuthi xa niwela isitalato.
- Khumbula ukuba abaqhubi abanakuzibona, nokuba bangazibona umqhubi.
- Gqoka iimpahla ezigqamile okanye isixhobo esiza kukhulisa ukubonakala kwazo, njengombonakalo wokubonakalisa okanye kwintambo yokuphepha, kuxhomekeke kwindlela yabo.
- Ungaze ulandele umntu ongumphambukeli okanye umntu owaziyo kodwa engakhethiweyo "okhuselekileyo" omdala. Umntu omdala okhuselekile ngumntu oye wavunyelwana ngaphambili nawe nomntwana wakho ukuba abe ngumnakekeli, njengomntakwabo okanye ummelwane othembekileyo. Ukuba umntu uzama ukumkholisa ukuba ahambe naye okanye azame ukuza kuye, memeze, "Uncedo! Lo akayena ubaba!" okanye "Uncedo! Lo akayena umama!" ubaleke. Ukuba uyambamba, mxelele ukuba atyebe, athabhe, aze ambethe njengokuba unako.
- Ukuba ufanele ulahleke ngandlela-thile nangemva kokusebenzisa indlela kunye nawe ngezihlandlo eziliqela, mcele ukuba acele ibhinqa-mhlawumbi ibhinqa elinomntwana okanye umntwana-uncedo.
Inkqubo umntwana wakho kufuneka ayithathe esikolweni nayo ingadlala kwisigqibo malunga nokuba ikhuselekile nini. Indlela engenawo ukuwela kwezitrato ezixakekileyo inokuba yindawo ephephile kwintshukumo encinci, ngelixa iindawo ezixakekayo zifuna ukukhula okungakumbi.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Abazali kuphela banokwazi ukuba yintoni umntwana onokuyenza. Ukuba uneminyaka eli-10 ubudala onokuyilumkisa kwaye unika ingqalelo kwiindawo ezikuyo, unokulungele ukuya esikolweni yodwa. Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho uphazamiseka lula kwaye akanakwenzeka ukuba akhumbule ukubheka ngaphambi kokuwela isitalato, ngoko unokufuna ukulinda. Njengoko kunye neminye imiba yokhuseleko nempilo, kholosa izilwanyana zakho; Uyazi umntwana wakho ngcono kunanoma ubani.
> Umthombo:
> Buyela kwiiNgcebiso zeSikolo. I-American Academy yePediatrics. https://www.aap.org/en-us/about-the-aap/aap-press-room/news-features-and-safety-tips/Pages/Back-to-School-Tips.aspx.