Fumana oluqhelekileyo ngala maZiko okuKhuseleko kwabantwana
Iyiphi impendulo yakho yokuqala xa ufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho ulahlekile?
Ukuba unjengabazali abaninzi, uziva unkwantya, njengoko ucinga izinto ezilikhulu kunye ezimbi ezinokuthi zenzeke kumntwana wakho. Kubalulekile ukuhlala uxolo kodwa, njengokuba okokuqala ukwenza oko kuthetha ukuba umehluko phakathi nokuba ungenayo isigxina.
Ukongezelela kokucela uncedo, into yokuqala yokuyenza ukujonga indawo kunye neenxa zonke kwikhaya lakho eliyingozi enkulu kunomntwana wakho. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba umntwana wakho unokugonywa ngamasekhondi nje okanye imizuzu kwisipu se- backyard okanye echibini, ngoko kufuneka ube apho uhlola khona kuqala, endaweni engaphantsi kwayo yonke imibhede okanye kwikamera yegumbi leendwendwe.
Ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci ufihla indawo ethile ngaphakathi kwendlu, mhlawumbi uya kuhlala elungile, nokuba awufumani imizuzu engama-15 okanye engama-20, nangona mhlawumbi ayengaze agcine ixesha elide kwisitya sakho eshushu , kwisitampu eshushu, okanye kwisitalato esityebileyo.
Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Ukho Ekhaya
Emva kokucela uncedo, kubandakanywa nabanye abadala ekhaya okanye ummelwane osondeleyo onokukunceda ukukhangela, kufuneka ukhawuleze ngokukhawuleza:
- tshekisha indawo ezinobungozi eziphezulu, ezinokubandakanya:
- ichibini, isibhakabhaka, intlambo, umlambo, i-echibi, okanye nayiphina eminye imizimba yamanzi
- izithuthi ezikufuphi, kuquka iinqwelo zemoto
- ifriji endala, ngaphakathi apho iifana zinokubanjwa khona
- isitratato ngeendlela ezininzi
- jonga ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, ngaphantsi kwebhedi, nakweyiphi enye indawo umntanakho ayithanda ukuyifihla
- tshekisha nabamelwane ukuba umntwana wakho utyelela okanye udlala naye
Kwaye xa uqhubeka ukhangele indawo ezinobungozi eziphezulu, unokubheka umntu ohlala kwindawo edibeneyo, kubandakanya indawo yokudlala.
Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Ulahlekile kwindawo yoLuntu
Izinto zihle kakhulu xa umntwana wakho elahleka kwindawo kawonkewonke, nangona kungaba lula ukufumana uncedo ukuba unendawo enobungane, njengevenkile, i-zoo, okanye ipaki yokuzonwabisa.
Buza uncedo olusondeleyo uncedo, ngubani ongathembela ngokuqinisekileyo ngomntu ukhuseleko okanye umphathi kwaye akhuphe i-Code Code uAdam.
Ngokuxhomekeke apho ukhona kwaye ukuba kukho nayiphi na indawo enobungozi obukufuphi, amanyathelo akho alandelayo anoku:
- tshekisha nayiphi na yale mimandla yengozi ephezulu, kubandakanywa nayiphi na imizimba yamanzi
- ukuya kwindawo yentlanganiso ekhethiweyo ukuba unayo
- ukubiza ukunyanzeliswa komthetho wendawo ukuze uncedo olungakumbi xa ungekho
Nangona kukhwankqisayo xa umntwana elahlekile, gcinani engqondweni ukuba izibalo zibonisa ukuba "amaphesenti angama-99.8 wabantwana abalahlekayo abuyele ekhaya."
Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Usweleka
Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana umntwana wakho emva kokukhangela ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka ubize i-arhente yakho yokunyanzeliswa komthetho ukuze uncedo olongezelelweyo kwaye ucele ukuba:
- kukhupha i-Alber Alert
- faka umntwana wakho kwiFayile yeNkcukacha yoLwaphulo-mthetho lweSizwe soLwazi lwabantu abalahlekileyo
- ukubeka "ukhangelelwano lwangaphandle" uluhlu lwebhengezo
Kufuneka unokubiza neZiko leSizwe laBantwana abalahlekileyo kunye nabaxhatshaziweyo kwi-1-800-THE-LOST (1-800-843-5678) ngoncedo olungakumbi kunye neengcebiso.
Isikhokelo soKhuseleko lweNtsapho esivela kwi-US Dept of Justice esinye isixhobo esinceda abazali kwaye sinokubanceda bazi ukuba benzani kwaye balindele, ngokukodwa ngeeyure ezingama-48 zokuqala ezifumanisa ukuba umntwana wabo ulahlekile.
Khumbula ukuba akudingeki ulinde iiyure ezingama-24 okanye nayiphi na ubude bexesha ukuba umntwana wakho ulahlekile, nokuba nokuba ngumntwana oselula oseleyo. Musa ukulinda ixesha elide ukubika umntwana wakho olahlekileyo ukuba enze umthetho. Abantu abaninzi bafuna umntwana wakho, ngakumbi abaqeqeshi, bebhetele.
Ukugcina Umkhondo Wezingane Zakho
Ngethamsanqa, abaninzi 'abantwana abalahlekileyo' baphela 'ilahlekile' imizuzu embalwa kwaye akukho siphelo esibuhlungu njengathi ngamanye amaxesha sibona kwiindaba. Sekunjalo, ekubeni imiphumo ingaba buhlungu kangaka, abazali kufuneka bathathe amanyathelo okuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana babo abakwazi ukuhamba nabo kwaye balahlekelwa kwaye kulula ukuba bahlangane kwakhona xa benza.
Ezi zibandakanya, kodwa azithethi:
- Ukukhusela umntwana wakho ekhaya ukuze abantwana bakho abancinci bangakwazi ukuphuma ngaphandle. Kanye ngokubaluleka, qinisekisa ukuba nayiphi na ikhaya eliya kutyelela likhuselekiswa ngabantwana, ngaphandle koko gcina iliso elisondeleyo kubantwana bakho.
- Yiba 'umlindi' otyunjwe umntwana ngamnye omncinci, ngakumbi kwimibutho, xa babo banokuba baninzi abantwana abagijima bejikeleze kwaye abaninzi abantu beza bephuma endlwini. Umlindi okanye u-buddy unokuba nombono omuhle kumatasa, kwiindawo zoluntu.
- Yazi apho iindawo ezinobungozi eziphezulu zingaphakathi kwaye zijikeleze ikhaya lakho ukuze wazi apho ukujonga ukuba umntwana wakho ulahlekile.
- Yiba nomfanekiso osandul 'umva wakho womntwana onokunika ukuthotyelwa komthetho ukukunceda ekukhangekeni ukuba oko kuyimfuneko.
- Fundisa abantwana bakho igama elipheleleyo, inombolo yefowuni, kunye namanani ambalwa xa kunokwenzeka, kunye nedilesi yakho. Abaninzi banokufunda ubuncinane inombolo yabo yefowuni ngexesha abaneminyaka emine okanye emihlanu ubudala. Ukuba azinjalo, qwalasela ukubanika itekethi yokukhusela okanye isongo ngelo lwazi xa uphume kwindawo kawonkewonke.
- Khetha indawo yentlanganiso ekhethiweyo naluphi na xa uphakathi koluntu kunye nezingane zakho xa uthe wahlukana.
Ukuba unomntwana ongu-autistic, ngubani osenokwenzeka ukuba uyazulazula, ukuba nesicwangciso sokumgcina ukhuselekile kubaluleke nakakhulu. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuba malunga nesiqingatha sabantwana abane-autism abangenakuzibophezela "bazibeka engozini ngokushiya indawo ephephile, ekhuselekileyo okanye kunyamekelwa ngumntu onoxanduva."
Oko Ukwenza Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Ulahlekile okanye Ulahlekile
Ukuba umntwana wakho ulahlekile okanye ulahlekile, biza uncedo uze uhlolisise iindawo ezibeka phambili ingozi kumntwana wakho kuqala, ingakumbi nayiphi na imizimba yamanzi (amachibi, amachibi, namachibi, njl.) Kunye nemoto evuliwe.
> Imithombo:
> Anderson, uConnie et al. Isiganeko kunye nefuthe leNtsapho yokuThuthukiswa kwabantwana abane-Autism Disecters Spectrum. Iimfuno zePediatrics Umqulu 130, Inani le-5, ngoNovemba 2012