Qala lo mkhuba onempilo ngokukhawuleza, kwaye wenze kube mnandi!
Ukufundisa abantwana malunga nokuzivocavoca kungomnye wezinto ezininzi abazali abazenzayo ukuze abantwana baqale ukuqala. Iya kuluhlu kunye neentshukumo zokufumana umntwana, ukutya ukutya okunempilo, ukufunda kunye kunye nokunika izibilini, ukuwanga, kunye nokudumisa ngokukhululekile.
Isinyathelo sokuqala sinceda abancinci benze umsebenzi wokuzilolonga umcimbi wansuku zonke, ngoku kwaye njengoko bekhula. "Ukuhamba kunye nokuzilolonga kubantwana kufuneka kube ngumkhwa omkhulu njengokutshiza amazinyo imihla ngemihla-kodwa kumnandi ngakumbi!" Utsho uRae Pica, inzululwazi yezemfundo kunye nomlobi we- A Running Start: Udlala njani, Umsebenzi wePhysical and Free Time Udale umntwana ophumelelayo (Marlowe & Inkampani).
Kutheni ukufundisa abantwana malunga nokuzivocavoca kubalulekile
"Abantwana bazalwa ukuba bahambe," u-Pica uthi, ukunyanzelisa ukuba intshukumo ibancedisa abantwana ukuba bangaphumeleli kuphela imizimba yabo, kodwa kunye nobuchopho babo, amandla abo okufunda kunye nezakhono zabo zentlalo. "Akuchaphazeli kuphela ukuphuhliswa komzimba , kodwa ukukhula kwengqondo, yentlalo, kunye nentlalo-ngumntwana wonke."
Ubuntwana bokuqala nakoxesha elihle lokuseka imikhwa emihle ukwenzela ukuba abantwana bafune kwaye banandiphe umzimba kunokusiphepha. Kwaye ke, ukuqala kwindlela yokuqala ukuvuna izibonelelo kwangaphambili! "Ukuziqhelanisa nokuzikhandla komzimba kwondla ingqondo ngamanzi, i-glucose, ne-oksijeni, sonke esiyidingayo ukuze sisebenze ngokufanelekileyo," kusho uPica. "Kwaye ke loo ma-endorphins aya kuhamba, ngoko siziva siziba ngcono." Oko kuya kubazali kunye nezingane. "
Indlela Yokufumana Umndeni Wakho Ukuhamba
Abantwana banokuthi "bazelwe ukuhamba," kodwa ukuba bengaboni abazali babo benza impilo ibe yinto ephambili, bayakujika ngokukhawuleza ekugqibeleni ubhontshisi kwiibhekile zethebhu.
"Yintoni ebalulekileyo kubantu abadala kubomi babantwana kubaluleke kubo," kusho uPaca. Ngoko-ke thina abadala kufuneka sibe yimizekelo emihle. Abantwana bayagxininisa (nangona kubonakala ngathi abanakuze bathethe ukuba bazithabathe amathoyizi abo!). Ngoko qiniseka ukuba ubona abazali abasebenzisa, kwaye bayonwabele.
Ngaphandle kokuba ngumzekelo omhle, kukuya kukukhuthaza ukuzilolonga kubantwana ngokuqinisekisa ukuba banexesha, indawo kunye namathuba okuhambisa nokudlala. Kulula, kwaye kunzima, njengaye. Ukuba unomngeni ngokuhlala kwindawo yasezidolophini okanye kwindawo ephosakeleyo, ungadinga ukuba ube nobuchule bokufumana ezo ndawo kunye namathuba. Kwaye sonke sijamngeni ngethuba-ngubani onokumelana nayo yonke into esiyifunayo kwaye kufuneka siyenze? Yingakho ukwenza umthambo umkhwa unceda. Sonke sifumana ixesha lokubhukuqa loo mazinyo; sifuna ukufumana ixesha lokuba namandla.
Dlala kunye, Dlala ngaphandle
Ukudlala nabantwana bakho kunika abantwana abadlala nabo, kubonisa ukuba ucinga umdlalo kubalulekile, kwaye kukunika ithuba lokuhamba. Kodwa abantwana banako, kwaye bafanele, badlale ngokuzimela. "Abantwana baya kufunda kakhulu xa bedlala ngokwabo: ukuxazulula iingxaki, ukulungiswa kwemibambano, ukuzithemba," kusho u-Pica.
I-Pica icetyisa le midlalo emithathu ngokulula, ukuzonwabisa kwentsapho esebenzayo. Abazali banokukhonza njengabacebisi kunye nabaxhasi, okanye bajoyine-nokuba nantoni na enomntu namhlanje.
- Phambili, hamba! Yiba nombukiso ojikeleze indlu (ngaphakathi okanye ngaphandle). Ukuxhobisa wonke umntu ngeetayiti zomculo zokudlala, okanye izimbiza, ipaneli, izitya zeplastiki kunye neepuni. Ukutshintshana ukuhamba ngokukhokela kunye nokubeka isantya. Yenza amanyathelo okuhamba ngokungahambiyo kunye neentlanzi.
- Kuze kubekho ukubetha izibhulu: Uyayazi imigaqo yalo. Omnye umntu uphupha iibhubhu, kwaye wonke umntu uyabaxosha!
- Yiza ukudansa: Beka iingoma zakho ozithandayo kunye ne-boogie phantsi.