Iingcebiso zokufumana ulungelelaniso lomntwana kunye nolutsha lwakho
Ukulungiselela abantwana ukwenzela ukuhlinzwa - njengabazali, into esithemba ukuba asinakuyenza. Ngokwemvelo, sonke sifuna ukukhusela abantwana bethu kwiintlungu kunye neentlungu. Ngelishwa, ngamanye amaxesha ukuhlinzwa kuyimfuneko ukunyanga isifo esibi okanye imeko yezokwelapha, kwaye ngokwayo inokuba yintlungu kwaye ingakhathazeki.
Indlela eyona ndlela yokunciphisa ukuphazamiseka kunye noyiko (ukuba wena kunye nomntwana wakho) ukuzifundisa oko kuza kwenzeka kwaye ukulungele ukulawula nayiphi na ingxaki yomzimba kunye nefuthe elibangelwa ngumntwana wakho.
Uncedo kuMama noTata
Ukulungiselela abantwana ukwenzela utyando kuqala ngokuzilungiselela. Nazi ezinye zezinto ezibalulekileyo omele wazi ngaphambi kokuba uthathe umntwana wakho kwigumbi lokusebenza.
- Kutheni kubalulekile ukusebenza?
- Ngaba ingaba lilibazisekile kude kube umntwana wakho ekhulile?
- Kuya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani le nqubo?
- Ingakanani umntwana wam esiya esibhedlele emva kwenkqubo?
- Umntwana wam unokunyamekela njani ukuhlinzwa (izibazi, naluphi na utshintsho olusisigxina okanye olusigxina)?
- Iintlungu zilawulwa njani (i- anesthesia yendawo okanye jikelele , ababulali buhlungu emva kwenkqubo)?
- Luhlobo luni lokunyamekela umntwana wam olufuna ekhaya kunye nokuba lide kangakanani?
Ukongeza, qiniseka ukuba unayo yonke imininingwane yezimali kunye ne-inshurensi oyifunayo. Hlola iinzuzo zakho zezempilo ukuze ubone ukuba ufuna ukugunyazwa kwangaphambili kwenkqubo, kwaye uqinisekise ukuba kuya kufuneka uhlawule i-copay okanye uhlangabezane ne-deductible.
Ugqirha mhlawumbi uya kubiza okanye ukhangele esibhedlele iintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa.
Ngelo xesha, qiniseka ukuba ufumana ixesha elichanekileyo elifunekayo ukufika kwaye, ukuba kunyanzelekile, izikhokelo esibhedlele. Kwakhona oku xa unokuqinisekisa ubungqina bokutya kunye nokusela, okubandakanya:
- Ukungadli iiyure ezisibhozo ukuya kwi-12 phambi kokuhlinzwa
- Ukuyeka ubisi lwezorhwebo emva kweeyure ezintandathu ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa
- Ukunika isiphuzo sokugqibela sesibisi sesisu ngaphambi kweeyure ezine ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa
- Ukuvumela ukucoca kwamanzi (amanzi, i-apple juice, i-Pedialyte okanye i-electrolyte isiselo sokutshintshwa) kuze kube seyure ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba ufike esibhedlele
Ngaphandle kokunyamekela zonke iinkcukacha zomntwana wakho, qiniseka ukuba uthathe ixesha. Oku kungaba yinkxalabo kakhulu kubazali. Thola ubuthongo obukhulu njengoko ubona ubusuku ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa, kwaye udle ngokufanelekileyo - khumbula ukuba kufuneka uqiniswe ngumntwana wakho. Unokulinda ixesha elide ngelixa umntwana wakho egumbini lokusebenza, ngoko ukupakisha into ekunceda ugcine ingqondo yakho nezandla zixakekile. Yigcine ilula kwaye ilula: umdlalo kwifowuni yakho, i-movie kwi-iPad yakho (khumbula i-headphone), amaphephancwadi awunakufumana ithuba lokufunda, ukubopha, njl.
Ekugqibeleni, ukulungelelaniswa kunokukunceda ugweme uxinzelelo olungadingekile. Ukuseta ifolda okanye ukuthintela ngolwazi lwakho lwezonyango kunye nolwazi lwakho lwe-inshurensi. Gcina incwadana okanye iphepha elingenanto kwi-binder apho ungongeza khona amanqaku nemiyalelo oyifumanayo ngosuku lotyando. Ngaloo ndlela, awuyi kuzama ukukhangela ulwazi logada okanye ubize ugqirha emva kokuhlwa xa ufuna ukwazi ukuba iTylenol ininzi kangakanani ukunika umntwana wakho.
Ukufumana Umntwana Wakho Okulungeleyo
Abantwana abaneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-3 ubudala baya kunzima ukuqonda nayiphi na inkcazo ozama ukuyinika malunga nokuhlinzwa, kodwa usenokuthetha ngayo kwaye uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba into eyenzekayo-kwaye wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukuba ujikeleze ingcamango " umcimbi "ngolwimi oluhle.
Ngaphambi kwenkqubo, bhinqa umntwana wakho ngamanyathelo ayeza kuhamba ngawo ngosuku lokuhlinzwa:
- "Okokuqala sidlala." Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana bayiswa kwindawo yokudlala ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa. Ngoko unokuzenza ngathi uqale kwindawo yokudlala.
- "Kulapha kuza umongikazi." Umongikazi uya kufaka ukuza imibuzo aze athathe ii-vitals. Yiba yincwadana nemibandela (umzekelo, buza ukuba ufuna i-tickle yeyeza). Zizenza uzilinganise, uthathe iqondo lokushisa (kunye ne-thermometer yeendlebe), kwaye uthathe uxinzelelo lwegazi.
- "UDkt. Elmo ulapha." Sebenzisa isilwanyana esithandayo ngokudlala ugqirha. Ngomhla wokuhlinzwa, unokukrazula isilwanyana esikhonywe ngaphandle kwesikhwama ngexesha elifanayo ugqirha angena, oku kunokukunceda ukulalisa umntwana osele ekulindele ukuba ugqirha ulapha ukuze ahlasele kwaye amxhase.
- "Nantsi imithi yummy!" Kwezinye iimeko, umntwana oya kufakwa phantsi kwe-anesthesia jikelele ufumana iyeza eliyilwelo kuqala ukuyikhulula. Buza ugqirha wakho ukuba ngaba kuya kuba yimeko kumntwana wakho; ukuba kunjalo, yongeza kwidlali yakho.
- "Masifake kwiingubo zethu zesibhedlele." Sebenzisa enye yeempahla zakho zangaphambili ukuzenza ngathi ubeka isambatho esibhedlele kumntwana wakho.
- "Umama uletha kwigumbi elikhanyayo." Buza ukuba uya kukwazi ukuthatha umntwana wakho kwigumbi lokusebenza. Ukuba kunjalo, unokuthuthuzela umntwana wakho ukuba uya kuba khona ade alele. Ukuba umntwana wakho uza kuthathwa liqela lezonyango, cela indlela abaceba ngayo ukwenza oko ukuze uzame ukuyenza phambi kwentsapho yakho nomntwana wakho.
- "Musa ukulibala uthando lwakho." Abantwana basoloko bephethe i-toy, umcamelo okanye ingubo yokugqoka, kwaye umongikazi uya kubuyisela kuwe ngexesha lotyando. Kukho umngcipheko wokuba amathoyizi alahleke kwiingxabano, nangona kunjalo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, yisela umdlalo onokuyithatha indawo, okanye enye eyintandokazi yesibini (kwaye ube neyona nto ilungele ukulinda encinane emva kwenkqubo).
Unokuzama ukufunda amabali nomntwana wakho ngokuya esibhedlele njengale:
- I-Critter encinci: Uhambo lwam oluya esibhedlele nguMeyile weMercer
- UChris ufumana iiphuphu zendlebe nge-Betty Pace
- Tonsils Good-bye by Craig Hatkoff
- Ufuna uGeorge uya kwiSibhedlele ngo-HA Rey no-Margret Rey
Izibhengezo ezininzi zesibhedlele nazo zinika iincwadi ezingabonakaliyo zokubala imibala ongayisebenzisa kunye nomntwana wakho ukuba uchaze oko kuza kwenzeka ngosuku lwenkqubo.