Ziyolise iindlela zokugcina umntwana wakho efanelekileyo kwaye enempilo
Indlela yokubandakanya umsebenzi womzimba wabantwana besikolo esikolweni ngokuxakeka, kunye neengcebiso ezivela kwi-SPARK.
Nabani na oye wahlala ekhuselekileyo kwiminyaka emihlanu nje eyazi ukuba bayasebenza, izidalwa ezixakekile. Ixesha eliqhubekayo lijikeleza i-dervishes yokugijima, ukunqabana, ukuxumla, nokugxotha (ukungakhangeli ukuthetha kunye nomlomo ohamba iimitha ngomzuzu), kunzima ukucinga ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-15 ubudala engenakho umsebenzi owenziwe ngokwaneleyo ngexesha lomhla.
Kodwa ngokubuhlungu kukuba, kuyinyaniso kwaye iziphumo ziyatshiswa. Cinga ngala manani:
- NgokweZiko leSizwe leNgcaciso ye-Biotechnology, iqikelelwa ukuba izigidi ezingama-43 zezikolo zasenkulisa zikhulile okanye zikhulu kunabo bonke ngo-2010. Oku kukunyuka kwama-60 ekhulwini ukususela ngo-1990.
- I-White House Task Force kwi-Childhood Ubukhulu besigxina sokuba abantwana abangaphezu kwesigama sabantwana abakhulu kunabantwana abaneminyaka engama-2 ubudala, ngelixa abantwana abantlanu bebandezelekile xa behamba ezintandathu.
- "Namhlanje, malunga neepesenti ezili-10 zeentsana kunye nabantwana abaselula banomthwalo obunzima obuninzi, kwaye i-20% ephakamileyo yabantwana abaneminyaka engama-2 ukuya kweyesihlanu sele ikhuluphele okanye ikhuluphele," bathetha abaphandi kwiziko lezeMpilo.
Ngenhlanhla, isisombululo sokusombulula le ngxaki esichukumisayo sinomdla kwaye kulula ukuyenza. Dlala . Ngokukodwa, umdlalo owenziweyo kunye ongeyilwanga-umsebenzi owenzela abantwana abasesikolweni ababenza bahambe.
Kodwa yintoni na kwaye yintoni umehluko?
Dlala ngeNjongo
Umdlalo ohleliweyo uquka imisebenzi ekhokelwa ngabafundi, nokuba ngaba ngumzali, utitshala, nawuphi na umntu omdala. Ziyimisebenzi enenjongo ethile yokufunda, umxholo othize, okanye iqhinga lokufundisa elikhethiweyo, "kusho u-Faith Grinder, ekuqaleni Umqeqeshi okhulayo wabantwana kwi-SPARK, esekelwe uphando, umbutho wezempilo kawonkewonke ozinikele ekudaleni, ekuphunyezweni nasekuvavanyeni iinkqubo ezikhuthaza impilo yonke.
Kwaye ngoxa unako ukusayinela umntwana wakho kwiklasi yezemfundo (i-SPARK inikezela ngeenkqubo ezininzi kuwo wonke amazwe), ukwandiswa komsebenzi wokwenyama kungenziwa ekhaya. Ngokomzekelo, i-Grinder ibonisa ukuba umntwana wakho akenzanga ukuphulaphula umsebenzi omva kungekudala, zibandakanye kumdlalo osebenza kwizakhono zokuphulaphula.
"Yenza umdlalo osebenzayo 'uqale' kwaye 'uyeke,'" watsho. "Yithi 'hamba' kwaye 'iqhwa' esikhundleni sokuthi 'Yeka ukuhamba !,' kuba igama lokugcina umntwana eliva 'liyasebenza.'" Ngeemidlalo ezinjengalezi, kungekhona kuphela ukukhuthaza umdlalo osebenzayo, kodwa ufundisa umntwana wakho kubalulekile izifundo - kule ngxaki inzululwazi yentlalo.
NgokweMbutho kaZwelonke wezeMidlalo kunye neMfundo yezeMzimba, abantwana besikolo abasesikolweni kufuneka baqoke ubuncinane iyure enye yomsebenzi owenziwe ngomsebenzi imihla ngemihla. Oku kunokuba nzima, kwanabantu abadala, ngoko i-Grinder ibonisa ukuphula ixesha lokusebenza ngokomzimba ngexesha losuku zibe ngamacandelo amancinci.
Ixesha lokudlala elihlelekile lixesha elihle, "i-Grinder yathi, ukongeza ukuba unokufumana umdlalo ukulingana nayo yonke into, nokuba ufuna ukukunceda umntwana wakho asebenze ngokukulungelelwa kwesikolo, izakhono zezithuthi, izixhobo zomzimba kunye nokunye.
"Ukuba udlala ibhola enye enezingane ezingaphezulu komnye, kufuneka bafunde indlela yokusebenzisana kunye nokujika," watsho.
Ukucima iyure yomdlalo ohleliweyo kwimini esele ixakekile kungabonakala kuwumsebenzi onzima kubazali, abahlala bebenokuluhlu lwexesha elide lokwenza izinto, kodwa ukufumana ixesha lokwenza umsebenzi okwenziwe ngokwenene kucinga ngokucinga ngokubaluleka. Ucebisa ukwenza ukuzonwabisa okuqhelekileyo:
- ukujika umculo ngelixa uhlambulula indlu
- xelela umntwana wakho ukuba agxume ngelixa abashiya amathoyizi abo
- ukudansa ekhitshini ngelixa upheka isidlo sakusihlwa
"Abazali bahlala becinga ukuba akukho xesha, kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho uhleli phambi komabonwakude okanye ukudlala umdlalo okanye into, kukho ixesha. Siyafunda amabali kubantwana bethu, kutheni ungathathi loo ncwadi uze ubenze ? " Izintando zakhe zolu hlobo lomsebenzi ziquka uBarardard Dance nguSandra Boynton, Siya kwi-Bear Hunting nguMichael Rosen, okanye nayiphi na incwadi ngu-Eric Carle, ngokukodwa iibhere "zebhere."
"Zonke ezi zihlandlo ezincinane ngosuku - yenza imidlalo ngaphandle kwayo!"
Ukukhuthaza Ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo, umsebenzi, kunye nemfundo yemvelo
Kwakhona kubalulekile umdlalo ongaqulunqwayo - ukudlala ngaphandle kwenjongo yangempela okanye ukunyanzela injongo. I-NASPE isincoma ubuncinane iyure - ukuya kwiiyure eziliqela ngosuku - "nje ukudlala." Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbuza ukuba akufanele kuthathe ukuba umntwana wakho uhleli ehleli kwaye ebukele umabonwakude okanye phambi kwesikrini sekhompyutha.
Ngomdlalo ongaqulunqiweyo kunye nomsebenzi wokwenzela abafundi base-schooling, i-Grinder ithi abantwana bangakwazi ukuhlola, ukuphucula kunye nokudala. Basenokukhetha ukuqhubeka nemisebenzi yokudlala, ngaphandle kwenkokeli. Kwaye nangona eli xesha lijolise kumdlalo ongaqulunqwayo, akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukuqhubeka nokuba ngumntwana wakho. Umdlalo uhlukile nje ngokuba awukhokelwa nguwe.
Ukuze uncede umntwana wakho athole ixesha elide lokudlala ngexesha elingadalwanga, i-Grinder iphakamisa ukushiya amathoyizi angabonakaliyo, izinto ezithambileyo, okanye ezinkulu kunezinye eziqhelekileyo.
"Iingqungquthela ze-juggling okanye i-headcarcar ezindala zinkulu." Hula hoops! Abancinci abakwaziyo ukuhlambalala, kodwa bayazama! " Ukwacebisa kwakhona umtya wendlela okanye iibhakethi zamanzi ngeepongi ezingabantwana "abanako".
I-Grinder ithetha kwakhona ukuba ukhumbule ukuba nangona umdlalo ongaqulunqwa ungabandakanya umntwana odlala yodwa, abantwana ababandakanya umsebenzi wokusebenza kufuneka bahlale behlolwe ngumntu omdala.
Imidlalo onokuyidlala nayo isikolo sakho esikolweni
Igrinder inikezela ngeendlela ezininzi zokuguqula umdlalo ube ngumsebenzi wokwenzela abafundi abasesikolweni:
- Sebenzisa umculo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukuqhawula umdaniso uhlala ujabulela abantwana, kodwa i-Grinder ithi unako ukwandisa umdlalo ngokubakhuthaza ukuba benze umsebenzi othile, njengokugqithisa njengamahashe. Nangona imoto ungayidlala ngokuba nezingane zihamba ezihlalweni zazo - zitshangise izandla okanye zitshintshe kwisihlalo saloo moto. Kwaye ngelixa bahlekisa, basebenza kwizakhono zabo zokuphulaphula, nokuba bayayiqonda okanye bayayiqonda.
- Elula kulungile. Umsebenzi awufanele ube nzima ukuba ube yinxalenye yokuphila okusebenzayo okanye kwanceda umntu omncinci angene kwimfundo yenyama. Zama i "jolise ukuphosa" ngebhayisiki yokuhlamba. Nababancinane biphonsa ibhola elithambileyo okanye iilwanyana ezincinci zibe yinqwelo yokuhlamba.
- Khuthaza ubuchule babo. Buza ukuba umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-15 ubudala enze izinto ezingenangqondo ezifana nokuhamba njenge-noodle ephekwe. Emva koko ubacele ukuba bahambe njengemithi yokupheka.
- Zama "switcheroo." I-Grinder ithi unokusebenza kumsebenzi wokwenzela abantwana abasesikolweni nangona unemizuzu embalwa ekupheleni kosuku - ngokuqhelekileyo ixesha lokuhlala. Nangona wonk 'ubani ephazamisekile kwaye ephumayo, unomntu othi "Switcheroo!" ngoko wonke umntu uyaliva. Umntu ngamnye kufuneka ahambe kwindawo entsha egumbini. "Ukuba udlala xa akudingeki ukuba uhlale uphelile, mhlawumbi unako abantwana ukuba bahambe besuka kwindawo baze babone ngokusebenzisa indlela eyahlukileyo - ukugxuma, ukuxuma okanye Ukukrazula iifoto zezilwanyana uze uxelele abantwana ukuba bahambe ngendlela iilwanyana eza kufikelela kwindawo entsha.
- Thatha uhambo. Kwaye xa uphumayo, yenza umdlalo kuwo, ucele abantwana ukuba bafikelele emthini omkhulu okanye baphunyule kwiintsikelelo.
- Fumana abantwana abadala ababandakanyekayo. Abantwana abancinci bajonga ngokwenene kubantwana bakhulileyo kunye nabadala bahlala benandipha ukuba "ngutitshala." Khuthaza umntakwabo omdala ukuba aqalise inkambo yokukhusela umntwana omncinci aze abone ngubani ongakwenza ngokukhawuleza.
- Balloon fun. Ukuqhayisa i-latex ye-allergies, hlola indlela iibhaluni ezonwabileyo ezinokuba nazo. Phakamisa iqela (iibhola zasebhantshini zisebenza kakuhle) kwaye ubone ukuba umntwana wakho unokuzigcina ephezulu usebenzisa izixhobo zomzimba ozibizayo.
Ukufumana iingcamango ezingakumbi zokunyusa imfundo yomzimba wakho kunye nemisebenzi yomzimba, tyelela i-SPARK kwiSampula yamahhala eSebenzi yabantwana abaselula. Iphepha ngalinye eliprintiweyo liquka umdlalo wezemidlalo, izikhokelo, ukulungelelanisa, iinjongo, iziphakamiso ezongezelelweyo zokufunda, iingcebiso ezivela kootitshala, kunye neendlela zokufumana intsapho yakho yonke inxaxheba.
Imithombo:
U-Onis M, uBlössner M, uBorghi E. "UkuHlaba kweMhlaba kunye nemiThamo yokuPhulukisa nokunyaniseka phakathi kwabantwana baseSchools." Icandelo loVavanyo loPhuhliso kunye neCandelo loPhando, iSebe leZondlo zeMpilo kunye noPhuhliso, iNational Health Organization, iGeneva, eSwitzerland. Epub 2010 Septemba 22
Udliwano-ndlebe kunye ne-Faith Grinder, INKQUBO YOKUPHATHWA KWABANTU ABASEBENZINI Epreli 17, 2013.
Ingxelo Yonyaka Yonyaka. I-White House Task Force kwi-Childhood Ubukhulu.
Iingxaki zokuthintela ukuThengiswa koBuntwangu. ISikole seMida yeeNgcaciso zeSizwe.