Xa kufuneka abantwana baqalise ukuShukuma izifundo?

Impendulo emfutshane: Uninzi lwabantwana lukulungele ukuphucula izifundo xa beseneminyaka emine ubudala. Ngaphambi koko, ubuchopho babo kunye nemizimba ayinakukwazi ukulungelelanisa imiba yokubhukuda, ngoko ukubeka kwizifundo akusebenzi kakuhle. Kunokudinakalisa ukuba bazame ukwenza into engaphezu kwamandla abo.

Impendulo engapheliyo kukuba ezinye iintlobo zezifundo zokubhukuda zilungile kwaye zibanceda nabantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emine ubudala. Abantwana kunye nabantwana abafundela esikolweni, abaneminyaka eli-1 ukuya kweyithathu, banokuzuza ngokusuka kwiimfundo ezigxininisa ukulungiswa kwamanzi, ukhuseleko kunye nokufunda ukulungiselela ukubhada. Ezinye izifundo ezincinci zibonise ukuba abantwana abaneminyaka engama-40 ubudala abanomyalelo wokubhukuda ngokusemgangathweni abanakuncipha ukuba bancitshiswe, nangona kungaboni kakuhle ukuba zeziphi izifundo ezisebenza kakuhle. Ngoko kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba izifundo zokubhukuda azisoze zatshintshile ngokuthe ngqo xa umntwana wakho omncinci engaphakathi okanye kufuphi namanzi-nokuba ibhebha.

Izibhinqa zokuNtshontsha

Kwiintsana (iinyanga ezintandathu kunye phezulu), abaselula, kunye nabantwana abaselula bajonga iiklasi ezilandela izikhokelo ze-American Red Cross kunye ne-YMCA. Okubaluleke kakhulu kwezi zi:

Kwakhona kuncedo xa abaqeqeshi bafumana ukusebenzisana nabantwana abancinci, ngoko baqonda oko kuphuhliso olufanelekileyo kunye nento engekho. Qiniseka ukuba amanzi echibini ashushu okanye ashushu, kwaye agcinwe acocekile.

Gcina iklasi uze ubone ukuba ngaba abafundi babonakala ngathi bayonwabile. Ngaba badlala imidlalo kunye nokucula iingoma? Ngaba bayavunyelwa ukudlala ngeeysys? Ngaba umfundisi uyakhuthaza kwaye unomdla (engacaswanga xa abantwana abancinci benza njengabantwana abancinci)? Ukuba uvuyiswa yinto oyabonayo, banika ukuzama ukuzama ukuzama ukuzama ukuzama ukutshiza umntwana wakho. Ukuba akayithandi, thabatha iiveki ezimbalwa okanye iinyanga kwaye uzame kwakhona kamva. Inokuba ngumngeni ukuba umntwanakho uyamoyika i-echibi, kodwa ukhuseleko lwamanzi lubuchule obaluleke kakhulu ukuba afunde.

Ingxowa Yinyama Izifundo

Xa ubhalisa abantwana abadala xa bebhukuda, bajonge abaqeqeshi abaqinisekisiweyo bezokhuseleko kunye nenkqubo eqhubekayo evumela abantwana ukuba baqhube phambili kumgangatho ngamnye njengoko bekwazi izakhono ezintsha. Kwakhona, khangela ukuba unokugcina igumbi. Umqeqeshi uphatha njani abantwana abaneentloni, okanye ngubani na onokungaziphathi kakuhle? Ingaba abantwana bayasebenza kakhulu ixesha, okanye bachitha ixesha elide leklasi behlezi kwicala elilinde ukujika kwabo? Ufuna ukubona umxube omhle wemfundo kunye nemidlalo eyenziwa ngabantwana ukuba bayayivuyela kwaye bayiphendule. Ngaphezu koko, kufuneka kube njalo ukunyamekela ukhuseleko.

Ukunceda umntwana wakho afunde indlela yokudada angamgcina ekhuselekileyo xa ejikeleze amanzi.

Ukubhukuda kwakhona kuqhutywe kakhulu (kunye nemidlalo yokuphila ). Ukuba umntwana wakho ujoyina iqela okanye iqela, ukubhukuda kunika bobabini namava ezemidlalo .

Imithombo:

Inkcazo yomgaqo-nkqubo: Ukuthintela ukuGxothwa. I-American Academy yeKomiti yePediatrics yokuKhathala, uVimba kunye noTyhefu. Iingcali ze- 2010; 126 (1).

Ingxelo yePolisi. IiNkqubo zokuNgeza iintsana kunye nabantwana. I-American Academy ye-Pediatrics Komiti yeMpilo yezeMidlalo kunye nokuQinisekisa kunye neKomiti yokuLawakala kunye noThutho loThutho lwezilwanyana I- 2000; 105 (4) (yaqinisekiswa ngo-Oktobha 1, 2004).