Iikhadi Zemivuzo kunye neCash ziNdlela Ezinkulu Zokubonga!
Ukugxotha kuyindlela eyaziwayo yokubonga ngababoneleli benkonzo njengabanakekeli babantwana, ootitshala, abashayeli bamabhasi kunye nabaqeqeshi okanye iinkokeli zokuzithandela. Umkhwa wokutshintshisa ikhefu ngexesha leeholide kunye nasekupheleni konyaka wesikolo okanye ixesha.
Ngoko, uyayifumana njani ukuba ubani omele uxoxe naye kwaye ungakanani? Akulungele, kuba ngubani othotyelwayo kunye nemali, uhluka kakhulu kummandla.
Uphando lubonisa ukuba abantu baseNyakatho-ntshona bangabanikazi abanomdla kakhulu, ngelixa abantu baseMzantsi basemncinci. Nangona kunjalo, akunjalo kakuhle kuba iziphakamiso zaseMzantsi zisoloko zihamba kunye (okanye zinikezelwe esikhundleni) isipho esikhethiweyo okanye esakhethwe ngesandla kwisichukumiso somntu.
Khangela isihokelo sethu seeholide somntwana kunye neebhonasi ze-nanny .
Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ngaba ufanele uthethe okanye awukho, kwaye ufuna ukuhambelana nantoni na ezinye iintsapho (ukuba unenyameko ngamasiko okanye kwizenzo zendawo), cela umakhelwane, abanye abazali okanye osebenza nabo kuqala. Emva koko, qiniseka ukuba ufumanise nayiphi na imingcipheko engayigcina ummkeli ukuba agcine isicatshulwa, kubangela ukuba yinto efunekayo ukuba yinto ebhiyozelayo ukuba ibe nzima. Ukuba ufumana ukukhanya okuluhlaza ukuba iziqhelo ziqhelekileyo kwaye ufuna ukunika isipho, ngoko zonke iindlela, yenza njalo.
Ukuba uthintela umnakekeli womntwana wakho, utitshala okanye umqhubi webhasi, qwalasela oku kulandelayo:
- Ukuqhathanisa iveki enye / iseshoni kuthathwa njengesiqhelo. Ukuba ummkeli wakho unika inkonzo ngeveki, unike okulinganayo kwintlawulo yeveki enye. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oko kungenakwenzeka okanye kunokwenzeka kwiimeko ezininzi (njengomntu osebenzisa i-nanny kwi-$ 300 nganye iveki), kodwa ube nesisa kwaye uqikelele njengokuba uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lwenu luyakwazi ukufikelela.
- Yazi naziphi na izikhokelo zemali kunye nezipho ezingekhokheshi. Abanye abaqeshi banqandekile kwizipho zemali ezingenakho okanye ezingenakusebenza kumakhadi wesipho. Amanye amaziko angakwazi "ukuhlamba" naziphi na izipho zemali ezinikezelwe ukuba zihlukane phakathi kwabasebenzi bonke, ngoko ukuba ungeyena loo nto, yazi oku kwangaphambili kwaye ukhethe uhlobo oluthile lokuxabisa.
- Ukuba unike ikhadi lesipho kwisitye okanye kwindawo yokutyela, qiniseka ukuba ihambelana nokuthanda kunye nohlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Unganiki ikhadi lesipho le-$ 50 kwindawo yokutyela eya kuba yindleko engenani i-$ 150 kwiqela lababini ukuba badle khona. I-efanayo ifana neendawo zokuthengisa ezibiza ngexabiso, ukuba akukho nto engaphantsi kwama-$ 100 kwaye unikezela ummkeli ngekhadi lesipho se-$ 20. Okanye, unganiki ikhadi lesipho kwivenkile yevidiyo, kuphela ukufumanisa ukuba umntu akanalo i-akhawunti apho. Ufumana iphuzu! Khumbula ukuba awuhambisani neentlobo zakho kunye nezinto ozikhethayo, kodwa lowo owamkelayo. Awufuni ukwenza uxinzelelo olongezelelweyo okanye ukuhlazeka kumntu ozama ukubonisa ukubonga okanye ukubulela kuye!
- Qaphela ukuba unike amakhadi wesipho ngeemali okanye iintsuku zokuphela. Ezinye iikhadi lesipho ziqala ukunciphisa ibhalansi emva kwexesha elifutshane okanye ukuhlawula imali ekufuneka isetyenziswe. Oku kuhambelana nokubuyiselwa kombuyiselo, ngoko gcina ukuba ikhadi lesipho liza kukhululeka kummkeli!
- Iphulo ngokufanelekileyo , okanye ungathandi nhlobo. Ukugxotha akufanele kuthathwe njengokuba uzama ukuthandwa, ukwandisa ukuthandwa komntwana wakho eklasini, okanye uzuze oko kuthiwa ngumama onobubele okanye ubaba wonikezelo wonyaka. Akukho konke ngawe. Ukupha kufanele kube yintliziyo. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ukhangele indlela yokwenza isicatshulwa ngokugqithiseleyo okanye ukuvelisa, okanye unethemba lokuba isipho sivulwe xa abanye bekhona, unika isizathu esichasayo. Ukubonelela ngenyameko ummkeli wakho ngesiphakamiso uze uwenze ngokuphana, ukunyaniseka nokuxabisa ngokwenene. Naliphi na umboneleli wenkonzo unokuxelela isipho esisuka entliziyweni evela kumntu onika into ngenxa yokuba beziva ukuba kufuneka.
- Ukuhambelana nesicatshulwa (imali okanye engekho imali) ngegama elibhalwa ngesandla -kubonga okanye ukudweba kumntwana. Amakhadi eziphoso kunye nekheshi, ngelixa zenzekile, zisabonwa njengabantu abangabonakaliyo, kwaye abaphili bezithethe zendabuko basoloko bekhukisana ngokucinga ukuba lesi sipho esamkelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, abafumanayo abavumelaniyo, kwaye nangona kungengabonakali kwisandi se-cranky, ootitshala kunye nabaniki-nkathalo bakhala ukuba abayidingi imifuno yekhofi, i-paperweights, okanye "Ndiyayithanda ootitshala" nantoni na. Ewe! Ukudibanisa isipho esicacileyo nesingasesekiyo samatekithi, ikhadi lesipho okanye imali ngemali okanye umzobo onobuchule ngokucacileyo.