Xa kuziwa kumajelo asekuhlaleni, kukho iinkalo ezintle. Ngokomzekelo, intsha ingakwazi ukuhlala kunye nabahlobo abahambayo baze badibanise nabanye abanomdla ofanayo. Bangakwazi nokunyusa amajelo ezentlalo ukwakha idumela elihle kwi-intanethi - enye iikholeji kunye nabaqeshi abaza kubafumana umdla.
Kodwa kukho ezinye iinkalo ezimbi kwimidiya yoluntu.
Ngaphandle kwe- cyberbullying , ngokugqithiseleyo kunye nemiba yokuthumela imiyalezo ye- post , i-media media nayo inokubeka uxinzelelo olubi kubangane, ngakumbi xa omnye umhlobo ekhuthele kakhulu ngokuthumela imifanekiso, ukuhlaziywa kwesimo kunye nezimvo ezilimaza abanye. Nazi iindlela ezine zokuxelela ukuba i-media media iyabangela ubuhlobo bakho kubantwana bakho.
Umntwana Wakho Uvalelwa Ngaphandle
Xa umhlobo ubhala imifanekiso yamaqela, imihla yekhofi kunye neminye imicimbi yentlalo engabamenywanga ngumntwana wakho, oku kungabangela ubuhlungu obukhulu kunye nentlungu. Umntwana wakho akavakalelwa nje kuphela, kodwa naye unokuzibuza ukuba kutheni engabandakanywa.
Ngamanye amaxesha i-teen post imifanekiso yezo ziganeko ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba omnye umntu angalimazeka ngabo. Khumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba angamenywa kuyo yonke into. Akunto umntu, kwaye ukuba wayishiywe ngaphandle akuthethi ukuba umhlobo wakhe wayenentsingiselo. Ngaphambi kweendaba zentlalo, intsha yayingayiva emva kwento kwaye ingacingi nto malunga nayo.
Ngoku ukuba amaqela "avakaliswe kwihlabathi" kwiimidiya zentlalo, kunokubangela ukuba intsha ivakalelwe ngaphandle xa ingafaneleki.
Gcina engqondweni nangona ngamanye amaxesha ulutsha luba lukhuni xa luthumela imifanekiso yenkampani ekhethekileyo kuphela abamenywayo. Oku kuqhelekileyo phakathi kweenkcazo kunye namantombazana athetha .
Ukuba oku kwenzeka rhoqo, unokufuna ukuthetha nentombazana yakho ngokufumana abahlobo abatsha. Ukongezelela, ukuhlala kwiimidiya zentlalo xa kungekho nto icebayo ngeveki yinto efanelekileyo. Ukubona ubuso obonwabileyo obubonakala ngathi bafumana ixesha elininzi kunzima kwintsha ekhuphayo ekhaya.
Ukungavumelani kwabantwana bakho kuluntu
Ukuba umhlobo wakho we-adolescents uthumela rhoqo malunga nokungahambisani nabo okanye ii- subtweets zibhekisela kumbono , akusiyo ubuhlobo obuhle . Akukuphela nje oku kuphulwa kwethemba, kodwa ukuthungela ukuhlamba okungahlambulukanga kunika kuphela umfanekiso omncinane wento eyenzeka ngokwenene. Khumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba abahlobo abalungileyo abafaki izinto ezifana nale. Endaweni yoko, lo luhlobo lweendlela zokuziphatha abahlobo abaqhambileyo kunye neentshaba ezibandakanyekayo.
Mkhumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba akafanele angenise ecaleni lakhe ibali kwi-intanethi. Kunoko, mkhuthaze ukuba umbize umhlobo wakhe kwaye asebenze ukungavumelani. Mxelele ukuba ukuhlonela umhlobo wakhe kubalulekile kwaye oku kulungelelaniswa ngxoxo.
Kwakhona, mdimaze ukuthumela imiyalezo okanye usebenzisa imiyalezo ngokuthe ngqo. Izimvo azenzayo azikwazi ukukhishwa kuphela kumxholo kodwa ziyakunikelwa kwaye zifakwe xa umhlobo evakalelwa.
Umntwana Wakho Uyakwazi Ukuthetha Nge-Intanethi
Ininzi intsha namhlanje inokukhetha ukubhalela abahlobo babo kunokuthetha.
Ukongezelela, abanako ukuchitha ixesha kunye kunye nabanokuthetha nabo kwi-intanethi. Khumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba akukho nto ithatha indawo yokuthintana ubuso nobuso nomhlobo.
Ingakumbi, abanye abahlobo bakhetha incoko yomntu. Ixesha elininzi lokuthetha nge-intanethi alenzi ubuhlobo obuhle. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba athathe ixesha kubahlobo bakhe, ukufikelela kunye nokuchitha ixesha kunye.
Ngokufanelekileyo, umntwana wakho kufuneka atshintshe iindlela zakhe zokunxibelelana. Nangona ukuthumela imiyalezo, ukuthanda izithuba kunye nokuthumela imiyalezo kuyakunceda, qiniseka ukuba wakho umntwana ubeka inzame ebusweni bakhe.
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Ukuba wakho umntwana usemngeni othumela izimvo ezihlaselayo, uxela amahlebezi kunye nokuhleba okanye enze amazwana angabonakaliyo kwi-intanethi, oku kunokubeka ubunzima kubusano.
Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba akaze athande okanye abeke ingxelo malunga nomxholo ongafanelekanga womhlobo.
Kunoko, khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba amkhumbuze ngomnene umhlobo wakhe ukuba ezi ntlobo zithuba zingonakalisa idumela lakhe kwi-intanethi. Ingakumbi, umntwana wakho kufuneka athembeke ngendlela izithuba ezenza azive ngayo. Ukuba umhlobo uyaqhubeka nokuthumela izinto ezingafanelekanga, khumbuza wakho umntwana ukuba ngenxa yobuhlobo bakhe nalo mntu, izikhundla zomngane wakhe zibonisa ngaye.
Umngeni wakhe ukuba acinge malunga nokuba lo mhlobo uhlobo lomntu afuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye naye. Ukuba abanalo ixabiso elifanayo, ekugqibeleni ubuhlobo buya kuba bunzima. Ukongezelela, lo mhlobo usenokubandakanya uxinzelelo lwaontanga . Ngoko qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi iingxolo.