Le nqubo yengqondo idlalwa ngexesha lesantya
Ukucinga ngemagqirha kubantwana okanye abantu abadala kubhekisela kwinkqubo yengqondo apho umntu axhapha isenzo okanye isiganeko kwisinye isenzo okanye umcimbi ongenakuthetha. Iingcali zengqondo zambi zidibanisa abantu kunye nezinkolelo zokucinga ngemilingo kuba ezi zithethe zibonisa ukuba izenzo zabantu zikhokelela kwiziphumo ezithile, nokuba ngaba eso siphumo asizange sithatyathwe yintlanganiso yokuqala.
Izwi elithi "nyathela ekuqhekekeni, uphule umama wakho" ngumzekelo oyintloko wohlobo lokucinga.
Ukucinga Ngomlingo Kwabantwana KuyiNqanaba EliQhubayo Lophuhliso
Nangona ukucinga ngomlingo kubonwa ngokuqhelekileyo kubantwana. Kubantu abadala, ukucinga ngemilingo ngamanye amaxesha kudibaniswa neengxaki zokunyanzelisa.
Abantwana baqala ukusebenzisa ukucinga ngemilingo ngexesha leminyaka encinane. Olu hlobo lokucinga lukhokelela abanye abantwana ukuba bakholelwe ukuba isenzo esithile esithathayo siya kuba nefuthe kwihlabathi elibangqongileyo. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana unokucinga ukuba ukutya kukuthandayo kuphela ukuba uyidla ngepinki epinki okanye ukuba ubambelele ngokungqongqo kwengubo yakhe kuya kugcina izilo zihambe ngexesha lokulala.
Ekubeni abantwana ekule nqanaba lokuphuhliswa be-egocentric, sele bakholelwa ukuba izenzo zabo zichaphazela ngqo iziganeko ezibangqongileyo. Ukucinga ngemilingo kungaqinisa ngakumbi le ngcamango. Umntwana wakho unokucinga, umzekelo, ukuba ukujikeleza kwimijikelezo kuya kwenza ukuba umboniso owenziwe ngumabonwakude awuthandayo kuba xa efunyenwe kwiisangqa kanye ngaphambi kokuba umboniso ufike.
Imiba
Ukucinga ngengqondo kungakhokelela nabantwana ukuba banqande iimeko ezithile okanye baxhathise imiqathango emitsha. Ukuba umntu wakho ongeyena ongasese-toilet oqeqeshwe ngasese, umzekelo, wenqaba ukusebenzisa i-potty ekunakekeleni kwamasango , unokujonga iinkcukacha zokuthi unxulumene nobumbulu esikolweni ngento engathandekiyo, nangona kungekho nxu lumano phakathi kwezi zibini.
Kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuphula le mibutho kwingqondo yomntwana wakho kuba engakwazi ukucinga ngolu hlobo. Ngako oko, unokwenza ukuba ulinde nje ukuba umntwana wakho akhohlwe "umgaqo" awakucinga phakathi kokubini okanye ude ukhangele iindlela zokudibanisa. Ukuncintisana kufuneka kunikeze iinguqu ezingafanelanga ukuba zivumelane nomthetho womlingo umntwana odale engqondweni yakhe, njengokungenisa ibhodlo ukusuka ekhaya ukuya kusetyenziselwa ukunakekelwa kwamasango.
Ukuqhawula phezulu
Ukuba umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-1000 ubudala uqala ukucinga ngomlingo, akufanele kube yimbangela yokukhathazeka okukhulu. Ukubhekiselele njengento eqhelekileyo yokuphuhliswa komntwana. Ukuba iipatheni zokucinga zomntwana zaqala ukuphazamisa iinkqubo - ixesha lokutya, ixesha lesikole, ixesha lokulala - kuya kufuneka ufike ngeendlela ezithile zokulwa nokucinga okunjalo.
Ngokomzekelo, ungabonisa umntwana okholelwa ukuba ukujikeleza kwimijikelezo kuya kwenza ukuba umboniso wakhe weTV ukhangele ukuba le nkqubo ihlala ihamba ngemini ngoMgqibelo. Unokwenza izinto zokungcebeleka ezivumela umntwana ukuba enze imisebenzi yansuku zonke nangona ucinga lwakhe lomlingo.