Ukusuka Kwiimemo Zokubulela Amanqaku, iiBets zakho eziBhetele
Kwabaningi abantwana, usuku lwabo lokuzalwa yiholide yabo eyithandayo. Kutheni kungenjalo- ngumhla ozinikele ngokupheleleyo kubo, uzalise ngekhekhe, ibhaluni, ingoma kunye nezipho. Nangona abazali abaninzi begxininisa kwimbono yokucwangcisa umcimbi wokuzalwa, iminyaka yobudala impela yinto efanelekileyo yokuphosa enye. Nantsi indlela yokugcina ucoceko lwakho ngelixa uqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu unethuba elihle.
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Ubudala yiNombolo ebalulekileyoQinisekisa ukuba yonke into, ukusuka kwimisebenzi ukuya kwi-bag efanelekileyo, iyafaneleka ngokufanelekileyo kweendwendwe zakho. Ukuba kukho ububanzi obude bexesha, sebenzisa iminyaka yobudala bomntwana wokuzalwa njengesikhokelo. Ubudala bomntwana bubonakaliso obuhle bokuba bangaphi abantwana abamemayo, ukulawula kwesithupha kunomntwana omnye ngamnye kunyaka kunye no-2. Ukuba umntwana wakho ejika ezine, zama ukugcina uluhlu lwabathenjethi kubantwana abathandathu. Ubudala budlala indima ebalulekileyo ekumiseni umxholo kunye nokuthatha isigqibo sokuba kuphi na iqela lakho. Abantwana abancinci banakho ukukhululeka ekhaya kodwa baveze umntwana wakho ukuze afunde kakuhle imeko.
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Hlela U ku nwabisaUkungahambi kakuhle kuhlala kumnandi, kodwa ukuzalwa kwenyanga yokuzalwa, ukucwangcisa (kunye negumbi elithile eliqhelekileyo) yindlela yokuhamba. Zama imisebenzi yokucwangcisa ngexesha elifutshane elifutshane - 10 ukuya kweminye imizuzu eyi-15. Yaye ukuba unento ekhethekileyo ehleliweyo, yenze phambi kwekhekhe, uphawu oluqinisekisiweyo lokuba i-soiree iyahla. Khumbula, kulula ukuyisebenzisa xa ujongana nabantwana abancinci ngokufutshane, ngoko ufuna ukuzama ukuphepha imisebenzi apho abantwana kufuneka balinde ukujika kwabo, ingakumbi ukuba kukho ezinye ezininzi abantwana kwiqela. Cinga iibhubhu , iphepha lokubala, kunye neencwadi, umgca wokuqhayisa okanye isiteshini sobugcisa, uzaliswe ngodongwe, iphepha, i-glue kunye nezinye izinto ezifundwayo ezingenziwa ngabantwana. Zama ukuba nomncedi omdala omnye kumsebenzi ngamnye.
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Jonga i-ClockUkuba iqela lakho likhaya, kubalulekile ukuba nexesha lokuqala nelokugqibela. Musa ukushiya iqela elivulekileyo njengoko lingadibanisa iindwendwe kwaye ungabavumeli ukuba baceba yonke imihla. Kuba amaqela abantwana abangaphantsi kwe-5, qhafaza malunga nemizuzu engama-90, iipresho ezimbini zeeyure.
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Ulwazi loMemoIsimemo sifanele sihlanganise zonke iziseko-idilesi, umhla, ixesha kunye nesityezelo sembeko, kodwa kukho ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo abazali abangazibuza ngazo. Bonisa ukuba umntwana kufuneka ahlaselwe okanye okanye ukhetha umntu omdala ukuba ahlale. (Ukukhutshwa ngokuqhelekileyo kuqalisa ukuqala malunga no-5 okanye 6 ubudala, kodwa kusengumzekelo omuhle ukuvumela ukuba ukhetho lwakho lube nolwazi.) Ukuba abazali bayashiya abantwana babo, fumana inombolo yefowuni apho ingafumaneka khona ukuba kukho na iingxaki. Kwakhona, phawula ukuba ulungiselela ukutya ukuze abantu bazi ukuba kufuneka bakondle abantwana babo, kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka, bazise into esemenyu ukuze baqaphele abo bazali abanabantwana abanezifo. Faka incwadana ye-RSVP kwaye ungazizwa uhlekisayo malunga nokulandela ifowuni ukuba awuyi kubuya.
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Ukumisela indawoUkuba awunalo igumbi okanye ukuthambekela kokubamba iqela ekhaya, kukho indawo eninzi ongayenza kuyo, kodwa kufuneka ubhale lolu hlobo lweqela kwiinyanga eziliqela kwangaphambili ukuba kunokwenzeka. Iindawo ezilungileyo zizalise ngokukhawuleza, ingakumbi ezo zinokusingatha elinye iqela ngexesha. Ukuba ukhetha ukukhusela indlela yokuphambi kwenkqubo yangaphambili, njenge-Build-a-Bear okanye i-Bowling, cinga ngamagumbi okuzonwabisa okuzimeleyo (mhlawumbi unecawa okanye i-firehouse), ipaki (ibe nomhla wokuvula imvula) isikhungo sezempilo. Ezi ziindawo ezintle kuba zivaliwe kuvalwa ngeempelaveki, abazali banokuqeshisa abafundisi ukuba basebenze le nkampani kwaye abantwana bakhululekile kuba yindawo abazijwayele ngayo.
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Oko kuzonwabisa!Xa uqeshisa umdlalo wengane yomntwana wakho - nokuba unayo kwikhaya lakho okanye kwindawo engaphandle , cela imibuzo ephakamileyo njengokuba kusebenze ixesha elide kangakanani, ingaba baninzi kangakanani indawo abayidingayo kwaye ukuba baya kuba seengubo ngexesha lonke. (Ezinye iinkampani ziye zenza iingubo zabo zokutshintsha iimpahla eziphakathi kweqela ezingadideka kubantwana abancinci.) Ukuba ixabiso liyinto kunye nokuqeshelwa kobuchule akuhambisani nokuhlahlo lwabiwo-mali, jonga kwisikolo sakho esiphakamileyo sasekhaya. Unokufumana amanye amalungu eklabhu yomdlalo oza kukulungele ukwenza okanye abanye abafundi bezobugcisa onokuqesha ukuba wenze umzobo obusweni.
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Yintoni kwiMenyu?I-pizza ifumaneka ngokubanzi kwimenyu yamaqela amaninzi asekuqaleni, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akuyiyo yodwa inketho. Izinkukhu zeenkukhu, i-sandwiches amancinci, izinja ezishushu, iigels, imifuno kunye nokudibanisa kunye neziqhamo kwi-skewers zizo zonke izinto ezikhethileyo kunye neentando-ntliziyo. Bakhawuleza ukulungiselela kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo bayokukholisa iindwendwe zakho abadala. Inyani le nto, le yindawo enye ekufuneka ungayi kuba nexhala malunga nokuchitha imali eninzi. Amathuba abo batyebileyo abayi-food-size angeze badle okuninzi-banokuhlala benalo lonke uvuyo lwaloo mini.
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Cinga NgeengongomaIngaba i-school school iyakuthanda i-Dora, i-Handy Manny, okanye i-Backyardigans, amathuba okufumana imicimbi yokuzalwa yamaxesha ovulekileyo, ukusuka kumacwecwe ukuya kwindwangu zodonga. Kwaye akunjalo nje ngemihlobiso. Abalingiswa abadumileyo bayazibophelela kwezinye iindidi zemibhiyozo, njengemidlalo, ukutya kunye nemisebenzi. Kwiqela leDora, umzekelo, unokwenza ikhosi ye-adventure kwaye wenze isilwanyana semfuyo. Ncedisa iiswitswitshi ozinqamle kwiinqunki ze-cookie ezifake isitimela kwi-Thomas Tank Engine party. Kwaye ukuba uthe tye, i-final finale ingaba yintoni umntu ozithandayo womntwana wokuzalwa ebonisa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubambaphi iqela, umxholo yinto ethile umntwana uya kufuna ukubandakanyeka nayo, ngoko qi ni sekise ukuba ufake igalelo lakhe.
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Ukuphela Okumnandi - IkhekheThetha kumntwana wakho malunga noko angathanda. Ikhekhe yinto efanelekileyo, kodwa kunjalo ke iibheke, i-ice cream sundaes okanye i-cookies ezinkulu. Unokufaka umxholo (ukuba unayo) okanye ngokubhaka ikhekhe yakho kunye nokuhlobisa ngamathoyizana amancinci okanye nokuba uzame isandla sakho ekudwebeni into ethile. Iibhaki zendawo, izitolo zokutya kunye nabathengisi abaninzi bebhokisi (cinga iClubs ka-Sam okanye i-BJ) nako ukwenza iinqebengwana zemixholo. Usenokufuna ukuvumela iindwendwe zakho ukuba zifikelele kwisenzo - bhaka i-cupcake, ubeke icing, ufefe kunye nezinye iintambo ezinjengama-candies kwaye uvumele ukuba baye emsebenzini ekudaleni ubugcisa.
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Ngo kweneneNika izikhwama ezintle ekupheleni, njengoko abantwana behamba, ngoko unciphise kakhulu amathuba okulahleka okanye ukungaboni kakuhle. Kukho ininzi yokukhetha - ukuba unomcimbi weMickey Mouse Clubhouse, umzekelo, ukuthenga izinto ezinxulumene naloo mxholo - izikhonkwane, iimpepha, ipenki, kunye nokunye kumaxabiso amanqaku ahlukeneyo. Uthando oluthandwayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba luphi uhlobo lomcimbi wakho umntwana onokuba nalo, basela izindebe. Bakhonza ngenjongo-ungayisebenzisa kwiqela uze ubathumele ekhaya kunye neendwendwe. Ukuba awuvuywanga ngcamango yokuthenga isiqwenga samathoyizi amancinci, cinga ukuthenga into eyodwa - ifosholo kunye ne-pail, incwadi okanye imibala kunye neekrayoni. Qinisekisa ukuba nayiphi na into oyikhethayo ibhalwe ngokucacileyo negama lomntwana.
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Akukho Isihlandlo NjengoNjeMhlawumbi inxalenye engcono kumntwana wakho, izipho zingabonakalisa ukugqwesa kwimihla ekhethekileyo, nangona, kunye nabantwana abancinci, kungaba ngcono ukuwahlutha emva kokuba iqela liphelile. Ukuba unquma ukuyivula ngexesha lemikhosi, unokufuna ukuba umqeqeshi wakho umncinci - ukuba ufumana impinda okanye into ayithandayo, qiniseka ukuba uyazi ukuba akayikumemezela kwihlabathi. Qinisekisa ukuba amathoyizi ahlala kwiibhokisi zabo ukuphepha ukulahlekelwa. Kwaye xa kuthethwa konke kwaye kwenziwe, qiniseka ukuba uthumele i-imeyili (akukho-imeyile). Lo msebenzi uzakuwela kuwe, kodwa umntwana wakho unako ukudweba umfanekiso okanye ubhale igama lakhe (ukuba le nto inako ukwenza).