Ezinye iintsana zilala ngaphambi kokuba uphume, kodwa abanye abayi kuchitha imizuzu emihlanu evuyayo kwiindawo zabo zeemoto. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kungenxa yokuba umntwana wakho usetyenziselwa inkululeko enkulu yokunyakaza kunye nokunyamekela okungakumbi kunokuba unako ukubonelela xa ephoswe esihlalweni sakhe.
Nangona kunzima ukujamelana nayo, khumbula ukuba ukhuseleko lwakho lolutsha lubaluleke kakhulu.
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali bathabatha umntwana okhalayo esihlalweni semoto , eyingozi kakhulu kwaye yenza kube nzima nakumntwana ukuba aqhele ukukhwela kwisihlalo semoto. Abanye abazali benza izigqibo zokuqhuba kakubi xa iintsana zabo zikhala, ezibeka bonke abantu emotweni. Nokuba udonsa kwaye unqabise umntwana wakho phantsi, okanye ugxininise ekuqhubeni kwakho. Ungazami ukwenza zombini.
Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba iingcamango ezimbalwa kunye nexesha elifutshane kunye nokukhula kuya kunceda umntwana wakho abe ngumhambi ovuyayo.
Uhambo oluya kwinqanaba lo lonwabo
Naliphi na (okanye ngaphezulu) kwezicwangciso ezilandelayo kunokunceda ukuxazulula ingxaki yakho yokuhlala emotweni. Ukuba okokuqala uzama ukusilela, khetha enye, ke enye; Ekugqibeleni, uya kutshitshiswa kwisisombululo esifanelekileyo sakho kwintsana yakho.
Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uphilile.
Ukuba ukuhlala kwesihlalo semoto kuyinto entsha, kwaye umntwana wakho uye wenyuka ekhaya, kwakhona, umntwana wakho unokufumana intsholongwane yindlebe okanye ezinye izifo.
Ukutyelela ugqirha ngokufanelekileyo.
Yizisa isihlalo semoto endlwini uze umntwana wakho ahlale kwaye adlale kuyo.
Xa sele eyaziwa kakhulu endlwini, unokuvuya ngakumbi ukuba ahlale apho kwimoto.
Gcina ibhokisi ekhethekileyo yamathoyizi emoto oyisebenzisayo kuphela kwimoto.
Ukuba ezi zinto zinomdla okwaneleyo, zinokubamba ingqalelo.
Tape okanye udibanise amathoyizi ekubukeni.
Unokwenza oku ngasemva kwesihlalo apho umntwana wakho ubhekene nayo okanye udibanisa uluhlu lweetekisi ezilula ezivela kwisillow usebenzisa i-tape enamandla kunye nentambo. Beka nje ekufikeleleni kwengalo ukuze umntwana wakho ahlasele kuwo esihlalweni sakhe.
Yenza imoto imoto.
Ukudibanisa umgca omude weplastiki emaketanga omntwana ukusuka kwelinye icala kwicala elingemuva ukuya kwelinye. Iimpawu ezintsha zeetayiti kwi-chain kwihambo nganye.
Hlanganisa iphosta yentsapho eyenziwe ngokusesikweni emva kwesihlalo esibhekene nosana lwakho.
Ezi ziqhelekileyo zimbala ezimnyama, ezimhlophe, ezibomvu kunye nesibindi; ezinye zize zibe neepaki ukuze uguqule imifanekiso. (Khumbula ukwenza oku, ekubeni utshintshe imvelo kunceda kakhulu.)
Zama ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zomculo kwimoto.
Ezinye iincwadana zizonwabela iillabies okanye amathoni omculo eyenziwe ikakhulu kubantwana abancinane; abanye bayamangalisa ngokuthoba phantsi ngokukhawuleza xa udlala enye yeentando zakho. Ezinye iintsapho ziyavuya ukuva uMama okanye uTata bebetha, ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye! (Ngesizathu esithile, i-chorus yokuvusa iRudolf i-Red-Nosed Reindeer isoloko ikhethwa kakuhle, nangaphandle kwexesha!)
Zama " ingxolo emhlophe " kwimoto.
Ungathenga iiCD zemisindo yendalo okanye uyenze ukurekhoda kwe-vacuum cleaner yakho!
Ziqhelana ngokufutshane, uhambo oluhle xa umntwana wakho enesimo esihle.
Kunceda ukuba umntu ahlale kufuphi naye aze amgcine.
Amava ambalwa amahle anokunceda ukusetha iphethini entsha.
Zama i-pacifier okanye umdlalo wokudlala.
Xa umntwana wakho enomdla okanye ahlafuna, unokuvuyisa.
Hlanganisa isibuko.
Ngaloo ndlela umntwana wakho unokukubona (kwaye unokubona umntwana wakho) ngelixa uqhuba. Izitishi zee-Baby zinika izibuko ezizodwa ezenzelwe le njongo. Xa esesihlalweni sakhe, unokucinga ukuba awukho, kwaye ukubona ubuso bakho kuya kumnceda ukuba azive engcono.
Faka i-sunshade ewindow.
Oku kunokuba luncedo ukuba uyakrokra ukuba ukukhanya kwelanga ebusweni bomntwana wakho kungabangela ingxaki.
Zama ukuhlanganisa iihambo.
Uhambo-ukhenketho lusebenza kakuhle, ingakumbi ukuba ugwema ukuhlala emotweni ixesha elide, kwaye unganinzi lokungena kunye nokuphuma.
Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho akazange agqibe isihlalo sakhe semoto.
Ukuba imilenze yakhe igqityiwe, okanye amabhande akhe anzima kakhulu, unokufumana isihlalo sakhe semoto singakhathazeki.
Zama uvula iwindi.
Umoya omtsha kunye nomoya omnandi unokuthobisa.