Ingaba umntwana wakho akakunakunaki xa ubiza? Ngaba kufuneka uphinde uzenze kwakhona? Ngaba uxelela umntwana wakho ukuba alungele ukuya kwindawo ethile aze abone ukuba usekhona kwiipjama? Iibhokhwe ezifuthiweyo zivame ukubonakala zikhona kwiindawo zabo ezincinane. Basenokungxininisa kwimisebenzi okanye becinga ukuba babonakala bengenalo ihlabathi elibajikelezile.
Ukuba oku kungathi ufana nomntwana wakho, akungabazeki ukuba udidekile. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iindlela ezintathu ezilula ongazisebenzisa ukukunceda umntakwabo ukuba anike ingqalelo kwaye akugcine udidekile.
Yenza uqhagamshelwano lomzimba
Zama ukumchukumisa umntwana wakho kwiphepha okanye ingalo njengoko ubiza igama lakhe. Ukuthinteka komzimba kunceda ukuzisa umntwana onomsebenzi oxakeke kumsebenzi okanye ucinga kwakhona kwihlabathi. Cinga nje ngeyona nto ibhuloho evela kwihlabathi langaphakathi umntwana wakho ungaphakathi kunye nehlabathi langaphandle. Xa ubuyela emhlabeni, umntwana wakho uya kufumana lula ukugxila kwizinto othethayo.
Nika izilumkiso zangaphambili
Ezi zizaziso ezikunceda ukulungiselela umntwana ngengqondo ukuhamba ukusuka komnye umsebenzi ukuya kwenye. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho alungiselele ukulala, ungalindi de kube yilexesha ukuba ulungele ukulala. Kunoko, qalisa imizuzu elishumi okanye ngokukhawuleza. Nika isaziso sokuqala kwaye uvumele umntwana wakho azi ukuba unemizuzu eyishumi eseleyo ukugqiba umsebenzi okhoyo okanye ingcinga.
Ungadinga ukudibanisa nomntwana wakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyakuva.
Nangona kunjalo, ungalindeli ukuba umntwana wakho alungele eminye imizuzu elishumi, ngakumbi xa uqale usebenzise le ndlela. Kufuneka unike esinye isibonakaliso kwenye imizuzu emibini. Kwaye omnye uqaphile kwenye emibini imizuzu.
Musa ukulinda kude kube nemizuzu elishumi kwaye ulindele ukuba yena alungele emva kokulumkisa nje. Inxalenye yembono emva kwenkqubo yokulumkisa kukunceda abantwana bahambe kwilizwe labo engqondweni baze bahlale apho.
Sebenzisa iixesha
Ukuba umntwana wakho unengqiqo yexesha, unokukwazi ukusebenzisa i-timer ukukunceda umntwana wakho agcine ixesha lokulandelela. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukunika umntwana wakho imizuzu elineshumi umsebenzi, misela i-timer kwaye mvumele umntwana wakho azi ukuba unemizuzu elishumi kuphela eshiywe ukuyidlala, ukuba xa i-alamu ihamba, ixesha lokuyeka. Ukuba umntwana wakho akanako ukuqonda kakuhle ixesha, le nqubo ayinakusebenza kakuhle. Nangona kunjalo, inokusetyenziswa ngokubambisana neenkqubo zakuqala zokulumkisa de kube umntwana wakho akhuphe ixesha.
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali baxhalaba xa abantwana babo babonakala bebandakanyeka kakhulu kwiindawo zabo ezincinane. Nangona kunjalo, akuyiyo into enokukhathazeka ngayo, ngaphandle kokuba ihlala ihlala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana abanikezelweyo banokubanjwa nje kwiingcamango zabo baze balahleke into eyenziwa ngabo. Oku akuyona into embi nokuba kunjalo. Ibonisa ukuba banako ukugxininisa ngokujulile kumsebenzi. Ukukwazi ukugxila kumsebenzi kuthetha ukuba bafikelele kwiimeko "zokuhamba."