Izizathu ezili-10 zokuba ukukopela kulungile

Iingongoma Zokuba Abazali Bazisane Ngeentsha

Ukukopela kuye kwaba yubhubhane phakathi kwabaselula. Kuqhelekile kangangokuba abaninzi abatsha bacinga ukuba kuyinto evamile kwaye abayiqondi ukuba kutheni.

Ngo-2012, i-51 ekhulwini yabaselula bayavuma ukuba babekhohlise uvavanyo kunyaka odlulileyo kunye neepesenti ezingama-32 bavuma ukuba baye bakopisha umbhalo we-intanethi kwisabelo. Iipesenti ezongezelelweyo ezingama-55 zabafundi abahlolisweyo bathi baxoxe notitshala malunga nento ebalulekileyo kunyaka owedlule.

I-teknoloji yenza ukukopela lula kwaye kuba nzima ngabafundisi ukuba bafumane. Abafundi basebenzisa ii-smartphones zabo ukujonga iimpendulo kwiklasi-okanye ukuthumela iimpendulo kubahlobo babo.

Bangakwazi ukuthatha umsebenzi womnye umntu kwi-intanethi kwaye bazame ukuyidlulisa njengeyabo. Kukho iinguqulelo zokuguqulela umsebenzi wekhaya lwangaphandle, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kukho imisebenzi epheleleyo yasekhaya eposwe kwiwebhusayithi.

Abanye abatsha bacinga ukuba banceda abahlobo babo ngokwenza umsebenzi wabo. Abanye bathi baqhatha kuba baziva bephantsi koxinzelelo olukhulu lwezemfundo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, uxinzelelo lokuba "uncede" abanye abafundi bavela kwingcinezelo yintsholongwane yanamhlanje ivakalelwa ukuba iphumelele. Basenokucinga ukuba abazali babo baxabisa impumelelo ngaphezu kwayo yonke into okanye bacinga ukuba bangena ekholejini kuzo zonke iindleko zibaluleke ngaphezu kokunyaniseka.

I-Top 10 yokukopela Iingongoma zokuthetha

Enoba uyayikrokra ukuba umntwana wakho usebenzela umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo okanye uzama ukwenza inxaxheba ekukhuseleni nayiphi na ingxaki ngaphambi kokuba aqale, khuluma nentombazana yakho ngezinye zeengozi ezinxulumene nokukopela.

Ezi ngongoma ziza kukunika ingcamango yezinto onokufuna ukuzilungisa.

1. Ukukopela kuxoka . Enoba ukopisha iphepha lomnye umntu, okanye ubeka into enokuyifumana kwi-intanethi, ubiza ukuba unoxanduva lomsebenzi.
2. Ukukopela yindlela yokuba . Ukuthatha umsebenzi womntu kwaye ubiza ngokuba ngowakho kukuba.

1. Ukukopela kakubi kwabanye . Abafundi abasebenza nzima ukufumana amabakala amahle akufanele bafune ukukhuphisana nalabo abangenzi umsebenzi wabo. Kwakhona, abantu baya kukholelwa ngamanye amakho akho. Ukuba ubuchule bakho abuyiyo ngokwenene ngenxa yokuba ukhohlise, uya kubavumela abantu ukuba bahle.
2. Ukukopela kukuhlazola . Xa ukopela, uyazixelela ukuba awukholelwa ngokwamandla akho okwaneleyo ukwenza lo msebenzi.
3. Ukuqhatha kakubi kuwe . Ukufezekiswa kukuva kakuhle kwaye kunceda ukwakha ukuzithemba nokuzithemba. Ezi zinto zibini ezibaluleke kakhulu kumntu omdala ophumeleleyo.
4. Ukukopela kwenza isinyathelo esilandelayo sokufunda sibe nzima . Ukusebenzisa umzekelo olula: ukuba awufundanga izinto zakho kwiklasi yeKhemistry awuyi kuba nako ukwenza i-computing equations. Ngoko ke, ukuba udlulele uya kufuneka uphinde ukukopela okanye uqale ukususela ekuqaleni. Kulula ukuba nje ufunde izinto ezisisiseko okokuqala.
5. Ukukopela kubulala abathembekileyo . Banjwe ukukopela kanye kanye kunye namagunya amaphepha aya kuba nexesha elinzima ukuthemba wena-nangona ungazange uphinde ukopela.
6. Ukukopela kubangela uxinzelelo . Ukugqithisa umsebenzi womnye umntu njengento yakho kuthetha ukuba uya kuba ngongathembeki kwaye ukhohlisayo uqobo oluxinzelelekileyo. Ukugcina ezo mfihlelo zongeza uxinzelelo olongezelelweyo lokufunyanwa njengomcuphi.

1. Ukukopela kukugculela abo bakufundisayo. Ulwazi lunamandla kwaye xa umntu ekwabelana ngolwazi nawe isipho.
2. Ukukopela akupheli esikolweni esiphakeme. Ukukopela ngokuqhelekileyo kuba yindlela emfutshane. Iba ngumkhwa omubi onokukulandela kulo lonke elasekholeji kunye nekamva lakho elizayo. Esikhundleni sokuba 'ngumntu okhohlisayo,' mhlawumbi uya kuba 'ngumculi oqhubekayo.'

Ukuthetha Nomntwana Wakho

Ncokola rhoqo kunye nentsha yakho malunga nokukopela. Buza imibuzo enjengale, "Ngaba nawuphi na umhlobo wakho ophanga?" "Ngaba ukukhohlisa ingxaki enkulu esikolweni sakho?" okanye "Ngaba uziva unyanzelekile ukukopela kuwe ukuze uzame ukuya phambili?"

Mamela oko umntwana wakho ekuthethayo ngokukopela. Buza wakho umntwana ukuba ucinga ukuba yintoni ukukopela kweli hlabathi ledijithali namhlanje.

Ukukopela kunokuba nzima ukuchaza. Ngaba kulungile ukusebenzisa iwebhusayithi eguqulela amagama akho ngolwimi lwangaphandle? Ngaba ukukopela xa uthatha iphepha kwi-intanethi kodwa ufake ezinye zezivakalisi ngamagama akho? Bongoza imibono yakho yengane malunga nale miba yemibuzo uze wabelane ngeengcamango zakho.

Gcina ukhumbule ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ngumzekelo omhle . Ukuba ukhohlisa kwiirhafu okanye ungathembekanga xa ubuyisela izinto kwivenkile, wakho umntwana uya kufunda ukuba kulungile ukukopela inkqubo. Bonisa umntwana wakho ukubaluleka kokunyaniseka, nangona kunzima.

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