Umdlalo wokubambisana, owaziwayo njengomdlalo wezenlalo kunye nomdlalo wokubambisana, luhlobo lomdlalo oqala ngokubanzi malunga no-2 ubudala ubudala xa abantwana abasakhula ngokwaneleyo ukuba baqale ukutshintshana nabalingani bezemidlalo, babelane ngokudlala, imigaqo elandelayo, kunye nokuxoxisana nabanye - Ngokomzekelo, ukunikela umdlali wabo wokudlala i-Superman toy for Winnie yePooh yokudlala.
Ukudlala kunye nokudlala nabanye abantwana
Kuze kube yile ngongoma, abancinci baqala ukudlala ngokufanayo : xa abantwana bedlala ngokusondelana , kungekhona omnye nomnye. Iimpawu zokudlala ngokubambisana akuzona nje izinto ezibonisa ukuba umntwana uqala ukuqaphela ukuba akuyena kuphela umntu emhlabeni. Olu hlobo lomdlalo lufundisa izakhono ezibalulekileyo zentlalo eziza kubancedisa abantwana ukuba bakhule ngexesha lokudlala kwansuku zonke. Kwimidlalo yokusebenzisana, abantwana basombulula ingxaki ngokusebenza kunye ukuze bafikelele kwinjongo efanayo. Ngokungafani nomdlalo wokuncintisana obandakanya abaphumeleleyo abaphumeleleyo kunye nabalahlekileyo, wonke umntu uzuza ngokudlala ngokubambisana.
Udlala luyinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu yophuhliso. Ngendlela abantwana bafunda ngayo. Ukudlala kuphuhlisa izakhono zabantwana kufuneka ziqhubele phambili zabo zengqondo, ezentlalo, ezempilo, nezengqondo. Njengoko abantwana bekhula, basenokuthi bangaphumeleli kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokudlala ngendlela efanelekileyo. Enyanisweni, baya kuthatha inxaxheba xa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokudlala kuxhomekeke kubuntu babo kunye neendawo zokudlala.
Gcina ezi ngongoma engqondweni ukunceda umntwana enze utshintsho kwisigaba sophuhliso :
- Ukwabelana: Ukuze uncede ufundise umntwana wakho malunga nokwabelana, sebenzisa igama elithi "isabelo" kwinqanaba elibi kakhulu, elichanekileyo ngokuchanekileyo: oko kukuthi, ngokubambisana. Ukucela umntwana wakho ukuba "wabelane" ngecookie abo abayi kuphinda babone kwakhona kuya kubakhokelela ukuba bacinge ukuba xa babelana ngesitokisi, abayi kuphinda babuyiselwe.
- Ukuguquka: Kuthatha ulawulo olunzulu lokunyanzela umntwana omncinci ukuze akwazi ukuyeka into ayifunayo ngoku kwaye ulinde. Qala encinci ngokuguqula ibhola ngokukhawuleza, okuya kunceda umntwana wakho ukuba aqonde ukuba baya kufumana ithuba ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukuthobela imithetho: Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokufundisa abancinci malunga nemithetho kukungazivumeli ukuba ziphumelele lonke ixesha. Kungadakalisa umntwana wakho ngezinye ixesha kwaye kubonakala ngathi bukhohlakele, kodwa yindlela efanelekileyo yokuzisa ukuba zonke imidlalo zinemithetho kwaye wonke umntu kufuneka awalandele.
- Ukusebenzisana. Khuthaza ukubambisana ngokuncintisana ngokugxininisa inzuzo yeqela. Umncinci wakho akanako ukudala ngokwaneleyo ukunceda ngemisebenzi yasendlini, kodwa unokukhuthaza ukuziphatha ngokubambisana ngokuthatha amathoyizi ndawonye.
- Ukuxoxisana: Le yikhono elona lifundwa kakhulu ngokumisela. Nika umntwana wakho i-cracker uze ufikelele kwisiqwenga sesibini. Kuya kuthatha ixesha elithile ukuba umntwana aqonde ukunikezwa kwaye athathe, kodwa ekugqibeleni, uya kufakwa kwaye abe nokuvavanywa kwindawo yokudlala.