Akukho nqongophala yeengcaphephe zophuhliso lwabantwana, kodwa akukho nto ivumelanisa ngayo into eyenza umntwana . Ngokungafani nemigama enjengokuthi "usana," okanye " intombazana ," eli gama alinanto engqinelanayo. Le nto yathi, nangona kunjalo, malunga nayo yonke incwadi, i-website, kunye neentetho malunga nokuphuhliswa kwasekuqaleni komntwana kubandakanya igama elithi "encinci" kwaye lifumana ingqiqo yenkcubeko yeli gama lithetha ntoni.
Imvelaphi yekota 'Intsana'
Ibinzana elisuka kumntwana livela kwindlela abantwana abahamba ngayo kuqala, okokuqala ekungaqinisekanga kwaye banjenge "toddle" ngaphezu kokuhamba kwangoku. Ngenxa yoko, abanye abantu bachaza umntwana njengomntwana onokukwazi ukuhamba. Enyanisweni, ngokuqhelekileyo ukukhula kwabantwana bahamba ngeminyaka eyahlukeneyo, abanye ngaphambi kokuba baphendule iminyaka engama-1 ubudala kunye nabanye emva kweminyaka engama-2 ubudala. Abantwana abaninzi banokukhawuleza bafumane ukukwazi ukuhamba kunye nokusebenza ngokufanelekileyo, kanti abanye bathatha ixesha elide ukuze bafumane izakhono zamandla. Ngoko ke, iingcali zihluke, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ziphikisana, iingcamango malunga nokuba umntwana usemva njani kwaye uphelile.
Ukuchaza iNkqutyana 'yeToydler'
I-American Academy ye-Pediatrics ethi, "Ukunyamekela Umntwana Wakho Oyingane Nengane," ibonisa ukuba umntwana usemncinane ngomnyaka wesibini wobomi, emva kokuzalwa komntwana wokuqala.
"Ingane yakho ingena kunyaka wakhe wesibini ibe yinto encinane, iqhuba ngamandla, iqala ukuhamba, idibanise encinci," incwadi ithi.
"Ukunyamekela Ingane Yakho" ichaza ukuba abantwana abaselula banabantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka emi-2 kunye ne-3 ubudala.
"Nangona isantya sokukhula komntwana wakho siya kuphuza phakathi kwesibini kunye nosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa, kodwa uyaqhubeka nokuguquka kwakhe okubonakalayo kumntwana kumntwana," ngokutsho kwe-American Academy of Pediatrics.
Xa uneminyaka eyi-3, le ncwadi ithi, umntwana omncinci "akasekho mntwana." Esikhundleni saloo nto, umntwana walo nyaka uthathwa njengesikolo sokufunda esikolweni, nangona abantwana abangaphantsi kwe-3 bavame ukuya esikolweni (kwaye abantwana abaninzi abanakuze bafunde esikolweni.
Lo mbono ngokusemncinci uphakanyiswa ngamaziko okuLawula nokuLawula (i-CDC), ethi abantwana abaselula "abaneminyaka eli-1 ukuya kweyimi-2 ubudala." Othandekayo, "Yintoni onokuyilindela Ngethuba leMinyaka emithathu," kwakhona uthi ukuhlala umntwana kubandakanya iminyaka yesibini neyesithathu yobomi bomntwana.
Yintoni onokuyilindela kwiNtsapho yakho
Iintsana zikhula kwaye zitshintsha ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba bahlangabezana nezikhokelo zophuhliso ngokufanelekileyo, baya kufumana ubuninzi bezakhono ezintsha. Ngokutsho kweCDC:
Ngethuba lonyaka wesibini, abantwana abaselula bahamba ngokubanzi kwaye bazi ngokwabo kunye neendawo ezikuzo. Umnqweno wabo wokuphanda izinto ezintsha kunye nabantu banyukile. Ngeli nqanaba, abancinci baya kubonisa ukuzimela okukhulu, baqale ukubonisa ukuziphatha okungcolileyo, bazibonele kwimifanekiso okanye kwisibuko, kwaye baxelise ukuziphatha kwabanye, ngakumbi abantu abadala kunye nabantwana abadala. Iintsana nazo kufuneka zikwazi ukuqaphela amagama abantu abaqhelekileyo kunye nezinto, yenza iifayile ezilula kunye nezivakalisi, kwaye ulandele imiyalelo elula kunye nesikhokelo s.
Kukho ububanzi obude obukhulu kwixesha apho abancinci banokuhlangabezana nemigangatho ethile. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala ephucutha kunabantwana abaselula ukuba bafumane iintlobo zezakhono ezichazwe ngasentla, banokuthi bavele bephuhlisa ngokwabo. Kananjalo banokuthi, nangona kunjalo, banemiqobo yokuphuhliswa ekufuneka iqwalaselwe ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nophuhliso lomntwana wakho, thetha nomntwana wakho.
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