Ukukhulelwa okwesibini kunemibono. Nangona kunjalo ukuba ungumlindi, uya kuba neengxaki ezithile, zombilini kunye nengqondo. Ukungathethi, uya kufuna ukulungiselela abanye abantwana bakho olutsha .
Ukwahluka koMzimba kwiNgqumbo yesiBini
Ngokwenyama, uya kufumana ukuba uninzi lweemvakalelo zokudonsa, ukudonsa, nokwandisa malunga nenyanga kungekuqaleni kokukhulelwa kwakho kokuqala.
Oku kungenxa yokuba isisu asikwazi ukuvelisa, esilula ngaphambili, kodwa nangenxa yokuba uyazi ngakumbi oko uvakalelwa. Nangona oku kuzwakala ngathi ukuwa, kunezibonelelo ezongeziweyo ezifana nokwazisa ukunyuka komntwana ukusuka kwintsana yakho malunga neenyanga ngaphambili.
Unonophelo lwakho lokubeletha luya kufana nokunyamekela ofumanayo ekukhulelweni kwakho kokuqala. Ukukhulelwa ngamnye kuyingqayizivele kwaye idinga inqanaba elifanayo lokunyamekela. Oku kuthetha ukuba uzakufuneka uhambe ngokutshekisha kwakho kokubeleka ngexesha elifanayo oyenzayo ngokukhulelwa kwakho kwangaphambili. Uya kuba neenkcukacha ezifanayo ezisisiseko owakunayo ekukhulelweni kwakho kokuqala. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha kunesidingo sokongamela ukwandisa ukukhulelwa kwesibili ngenxa yezinto ezenzeke ekukhulelweni kokuqala. Umzekelo uya kuba ngaba uvelise isifo sikashukela kwisifo sokukhulelwa kokuqala, unakho ukubeka esweni xa ukhulelwe.
Ukuba uninzi okanye i-multipara (ithetha ukuba sele unomntwana) yenza ukuba kube lula ukuba unamava amaninzi kwaye mhlawumbi unobungozi obugqithisileyo beBroxton-Hicks , ngakumbi ekupheleni kokukhulelwa. Nangona ezi ziinguqu zinokubonakala ziphazamiseka, zithintela ukuba umzimba wakho uyazi ukuba wenza ntoni.
Ukwahlukana ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo kwiBesual pregnancy
Ngokukhulelwa kwakho kokuqala, mhlawumbi uchithe amandla amaninzi yengqondo kunye nomoya xa ukhulelwa. Ngoku ukuba unabanye abantwana ekunyamekeleni unokuziva uzive ukhululekile ekukhulekeni. Oku kuyindlela eqhelekileyo yokusabela kwaye akukho nto ibonisa ukuba uya kumthanda lo mntwana ngaphantsi. Umlingani wakho uya kuba nomdla ongaphantsi kule khulelwe.
Oomama banokukhathazeka ngokuba kukho uthando olwaneleyo komnye umntwana. Ngayiphi na ihlabathi apho umntu ohlala ehlala khona ukuya kumangaliso wakho wokuqala? Hayi, khumbula lo mntwana ungumntwana ohlukileyo kwaye uya kuba neetalente ezikhethekileyo kunye neempawu zakhe. Uthando lwenu aluyena nombolo ogqityiweyo, ukunikezelwa kwemizwa engapheliyo. Ngoko thabatha ixesha lakho. Kufuneka uthabathe ixesha lokuthandana nosana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa, kodwa oko kuyafana nokuba neentsana zokuqala.
Iingcamango malunga nomsebenzi wesiBini kunye nokuzalwa
Ndisoloko ndihleka ngokunyameko ukuba oomama bokuqala banenkxalabo malunga nokuzalwa kuba bengayazi into engayilindela, kodwa oomama abanesibini banenkxalabo kuba bayazi ukuba balindele ntoni. Ukuxhalabisa malunga nokuzalwa kwakho okuzayo kuya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo. Nangona ukwenze oko ngaphambili, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukubuza ukuba kuya kuba njani ngeli xesha.
Oku kungabandakanya ukuzama ukuphepha ezinye zezinto ezenzeka ngaphambili okanye ukuqinisekisa ukuba iyahamba kakhulu njengowokuqala.
Enye into endiyiphakamisayo ukuncedisa ukubandakanyeka komoya kunye nokuqhotyoshelweyo kukuya kwelinye uluhlu lweeklasi zokubeletha . Uninzi lwesibini umama unokuba nexhala malunga nokusebenza nokuzalwa ngenxa yezinto abazi. Uya kumangaliswa oko uza kukuva kwiklasi okwesibini. Amanqaku amaninzi am okwesibili athi bathe bafunda ngakumbi ngenxa yokuba bevuleleke amathuba amaninzi, beyazi ukuba umsebenzi wawungeyona inkambo eqikelelweyo. Oku kukunika ithuba lokuchitha ixesha kunye neqabane lakho kwaye ugxininise ukukhulelwa.
Ngoko, nwabele ukukhulelwa uze uzame "ukulala xa umntwana elele." Nangona "umntwana" uneminyaka emithathu okanye emine ubudala!