Umama Osebenzayo, Ngaba Unesaba Ukubuyela Esikolweni?

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Yakha 'Kutheni INgxelo' Yokunceda Ukulwa Nokwesaba Ngokubuyela KwiSikolo

Uvakalelwa njani ngokubuyela esikolweni? Ngaba uphupha apho kungathatha khona umsebenzi wakho? Ukuba uloyiko lokuba ungumama osebenzayo awuyi kuba nexesha okanye amandla okubuyela esikolweni ndiyifumana. Kodwa ukwesaba kunendlela emnandi yokusibamba kwizinto ezinokuba zikhetheke kuthi. Unokucinga ngezizathu ezininzi zokungayithathi kule mngeni njengomthwalo womthwalo owongezelelweyo, ixesha kunye namandla oza kuthatha, kwaye, eyona nto inkulu kukuba ukwesaba ukungaphumeleli.

Ungayifaka njani le ngcamango eyoyikisayo kwaye ugwebe ngokwenene ukuba lixesha lokuba ubuyele esikolweni?

Isikolo kufuneka sikunike into ongekhoyo. Kutheni ufuna ukubuyela esikolweni? Yintoni elahlekileyo ebomini bakho ngoku ukuba isikolo sinokubonelela? Yintoni eya kuqhubela phambili imfundo yakho? Ukuphakanyiswa, ukwandisa ubuchule bakho malunga nomsebenzi owenzayo, okanye mhlawumbi uguqula umkhondo wakho womsebenzi?

Xa unokwazi ukuchaza isizathu sakho okanye sakho "Kutheni utsho" ungayisebenzisa ukulwa noloyiko lwakho. Ngokomzekelo, isizathu sokuba isitatimende singabikho, "Ukufunda isakhono esitsha isinyathelo sokuqala ekutshintsheni kwam ngoku ndiyifuna." Le nkulumo ilula, kulula ukuyikhumbula kwaye inokunceda utshintshe ingqondo yakho. Xa uqala ukungathandabuzeki, khumbula ukuba "kutheni isitatimende" ukushiya ingcamango yakho eyikisayo.

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Fumana iNkqubo Yenkxaso Yakho Kukubuyisela

Kuya kubakho amaxesha apho ufuna uncedo ngemisebenzi yakho yasekhaya. Ukuze ugweme ukuxatyiswa ngumthwalo owongezelelweyo womsebenzi ucinge ngantoni xa uya kufuna uncedo kunye nento oyakufuna uncedo ngayo. Ngaba uya kwenza umsebenzi wasekhaya ebusuku, kusasa kusasa, okanye ngeempela-veki elayibrari?

Emva koko, fumana inkqubo yakho yenkxaso ebhodini. Abantu abakwinkxaso yakho yindlela abantu abathanda umyeni wakho, abazali, abamelwane, abantwana kunye nabahlobo. Yabelana nabo ngesizathu sokuba ubuya esikolweni. Emva koko wabelane xa ucinga ukuba uya kufuna uncedo kunye noko. Uzoziva ungesabi ngakumbi ukuba inkqubo yakho yenkxaso ibuyele emva kwakho.

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Fumana iipokethi ezingakumbi kwixesha lakho

Ngaba uvakalelwa kukuba awuyi kuba nexesha elaneleyo okanye amandla ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo? Emva koko zama lokhu. Kulo lonke usuku lwakho kusasa ukwenza kube yinto ephambili ukujonga iipokotshi ezincinane zexesha lokukhulula. Ngaba uchithe ixesha elininzi ixesha lokususa umnatha ngexesha lesidlo sasemini? Unokwenza ke ngoko. Ngaba ufunda incwadi kwisitimela okanye ulalele incwadi yomsindo kwimoto? Unokwenza ke ngoko.

Hlalani nijonge iipokethi zexesha apho unokwenza into enokuyenza indawo yokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo. Isikolo asiyi kuhlala ngonaphakade kwaye ukwenza imibingelelo inokubaluleka. Xa uziva ukwesaba awuyi kukwazi ukufakela isikolo kuwe uya kuziva ukuba uzilungiselele ukuba uyazi iipokethi zegolide zokuxhomekeka.

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Mbonise ukuba Uyakwazi Ukubuyela KwiSikolo

Esinye sezizathu eziphezulu zokusebenzela umama kuba kukuba bafuna imali. Ukuba uloyiko lokuba awukwazi ukubuyela esikolweni uphando ngeenketho zakho. Ukuba inkampani yakho inikezela ukuhlawulelwa kweemfundo zeziphi iimfuno?

Ukuba abayena inyathelo lokuqala lokufumana uncedo lwezemfundo kukuzalisa ifom yeF FAFSA. Emva koko, ngoncedo lesebe lonyango lwezemali, unokufaka isicelo se-Federal Pell Grant evela kurhulumente wase-US okanye ukuba ufuna isicelo se-intanethi ukufaka isicelo sokunikezelwa kwe-"Mom Return to School".

Ngaphandle kwenkxaso yoncedo, unokufaka isicelo semirhumo yeerhafu xa wenza iirhafu ezifana ne-American Opportunity Tax Tax okanye i-Lifetime Learning Tax tax.

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Ungakhathazeki Ngexesha lokugqibela

Inomdla iyakwazi ukufumana okusemandleni ethu kwaye isishukumisele ukuba senze isicelo sokugqibela sithuba. Kodwa ukuba awunayo amadada akho emgceni, kuba lula kuwe. Isikolo sakho siya kuhlala silapho! Akuvali ukuvala ngomso.

Unokulinda enye semester kwaye uzive ulungelekile kwaye ukwazi ukuqala i-adventure yakho entsha. Ungavumeli ukuba ukwesaba ukuhamba emva kwexesha kukukrakra ukuba ungabikho ukuzibophezela.

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Awusayineli kwiRace

Nangona kunokuvakalelwa kukuba uthayipha umqhudelwano awukho. Ungaya esikolweni ngesantya sakho. Zama ukuthatha ikhosi enye ngexesha. Ukuba ubomi abuxakekile kwaye ulambile ukugqiba idigri yakho, thabatha iklasi enye okanye ezimbini. Awuncintisana nabani na ke ngoko ungesabi ukuba uya kulahlekelwa umncintiswano.

Kunzima ukudibanisa umdla kunye nokuxhalaba malunga nento eya kwenzeka xa ufumana idigri okanye isatifiketi. Kodwa zonke izinto ezilungileyo ziza kubalindelwe okanye basebenze nzima.

Uloyiko lunokumelana nokulindeleka kobuxoki (ukuba). Xa iingcinga eziyikayo xa zicinga ngokubuyela esikolweni, zithinte umoya kwaye uzibeke eceleni. Unako ukhetho oluninzi lokwenza ukuba lusebenzele wena kwaye unako ukuvuna ezinye iinzuzo ezinkulu xa uhamba kuyo.