Mhlawumbi uye wabona imifanekiso emihle yeentsana ezifakwe kwi-wraps ebomvu okanye oomama ngokuziqhenya ngokubonisa imvula, iingubo, iimpahla kunye nezinye izikhumbuzo, kodwa abazange baqonde oko bakuthethayo. Yintoni ngokwenene " umntwana wobusuku ?"
Yisiphi i-Rainbow Baby?
Utolo lusetyenziswe ixesha lokuzalwa komntwana emva kokuba umama uye wafumana ukulahleka kokukhulelwa.
Ukulahleka kokukhulelwa kungabikho ukusalela okanye ukuzalwa komntwana (okuchazwa ngokuqhelekileyo njengomntwana oswele emva kweiveki ezingama-20). Usana abazali ababenalo emva kokukhulelwa olulahlekileyo lubizwa ngokuba ngumntwana wobuncwane. Njengoko ukukhanya komnkantsha kubonakala emva kobumnyama bezulu esibhakabhaka, umntwana obomvu uyenzeka emva kwentlungu yokulahleka.
Naliphi na umntwana ozalwa emva kokulahleka unokubhekwa njengomntwana wobuncwane, ngoko ezinye iintsapho zinokuba neentsana ezininzi zemvula xa zifumene ilahleko ezahlukileyo.
Yintoni onokuyilindela Ukuba Ulindele umntwana we-Rainbow
Ukuba ukhulelwe ngumntwana wobuncwane, mhlawumbi uya kuba nemvakalelo ehlukahlukeneyo. Abasetyhini abaninzi baya kuba noloyiko xa bekhulelwe emva kokulahlekelwa, kwaye banenkxalabo yokuba baya kuba nesinye isisu okanye nokuba kukho into engalunganga ngayo umntwana.
Ukuthetha nodokotela owaziyo imbali yakho kwaye ecela indawo yokuhlala ethile, njengokusebenza nge- techs ultrasound eya kuba neengxaki ukwesaba kwakho, inokunceda.
Oogqirha abaninzi kunye nezibhedlele kunye neenkqubo zoqeqesho ngoku benza umgudu ongakumbi ukuba babe neengxaki kwiimfuno ezikhethekileyo kunye namava ayenziwa ngumfazi ngokukhulelwa emva kokulahleka kwaye kukho indawo enokuthi inokuncedwa ngayo ngendlela exhasa kakhulu.
Abanye abafazi banokukhetha ukuba bangavezi ukukhulelwa kwabo ukukhusela iingxoxo ezinzima kunye nabanye abafazi bangathanda ukuvumela intsapho kunye nabahlobo bakhe bazi ngokukhawuleza ekukhuleleni kwakhe inkxaso yemoya kulo lonke uhambo.
Wonke umfazi uhlukile kwaye oko uxelela abanye malunga nokukhulelwa kwakho kuphelele kuwe.
Kwezinye iimeko, ukukhulelwa emva kwelahleko kunokubangela iimvakalelo ezinzima kunye nokuthetha nomqeqeshi oqeqeshiwe okanye omnye umboneleli wezempilo yengqondo unokukunceda ukulawula uxhala kunye noxinzelelo kulo lonke inkqubo. Umele uthethe ne-OB yakho ngenkonzo malunga nokuthunyelwa xa unengxaki yokuphatha okanye ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kukho nemibutho emininzi emininzi, kwi-intanethi nangomntu, ezinikele ekuncediseni abasetyhini ukuba bahambe ngokukhulelwa emva kokulahleka, njengokukhulelwa emva kokuNcedwa kweLifa okanye uDkt Jessica Zucker "I-website yokuba ndandwendwela".
Indlela Yokuxhasa Umhlobo Okulindelwe Ubuntwana Bombhobho
Ukuba unomhlobo olindele umntwana wobuncwane, unokuba uzibuza ukuba ungamxhasa njani xa ukhulelwe. Kukho iindlela ezininzi onokubonisa ngayo umhlobo wakho ukuba uyamxhasa kwaye uyamkhathalela. Abanye besetyhini banokukhathazeka ukuba ukuba abazange bafumane isisu okanye ilahleko, ukuba bafanele baphephe ukufikelela kumfazi obelindele umntwana wobuncwane, kodwa akunjalo.
Musa ukuxhalaba malunga nokuziva ukhululekile okanye ungakhululeki ukuthetha nomhlobo wakho ngokukhulelwa kwakhe. Kunoko, mbuze indlela ozive ngayo kwaye zeziphi ezinye iindlela ayeza kuziva ukuba axhaswe ngazo.
Ungathenga isipho esenza intlonelo yakhe inomntwana , njengombala womlobo okanye ikhadi yelungu lomntwana. Kwakhona unokucingisisa ngesipho sakhe ngento engayi kumnceda ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwaye amncede ukuxinezeleka, njengento yokutshatyalaliswa kokubeletha okanye ukuhamba nge-pedicure. Okanye, funani umfaki-zithombe oza kugxininisa imifanekiso yomsana wesibhakabhaka ngokutshatyalaliswa okhethekileyo emva kokuba umntwana azalwe. Abafaki-zithombe abanobuchule kwiintsapho ezinabantwana bamehlo banezakhono zokuhlonela iinkumbulo zabo zokulahleka kwazo ngendlela ezinentsingiselo kubo, ngelixa begubha uthando nothando lomntwana wobuncwane.
Uninzi lwazo zonke, ke, ungesabi ukuba ukhona kumhlobo wakho-kumtyelele, kumnxeba okanye kumbhalile, uze umxelele ukuba ucinga ngaye.
Indlela Yokuxhasa Umlingani Wakho
Ukuba iqabane lakho liye lahlekelwa yilahleko kwaye ngoku ukhulelwe ngumntwana wobuncwane, kubalulekile ukugcina umgca wokuxhumana phakathi kokukhulelwa kwakhe. Unokuba unakho ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili, kodwa ukulahlekelwa kwakho kusekho kwaye kunempilo ukuxoxa ngendlela ukulahleka kokukhulelwa kunokukuchaphazela ngayo-nendlela ovakalelwa ngayo ngoku.
Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive udidekile kukuba awukwazi ukufumana amava afanayo kunye neqabane lakho, nokuba ekujonganeni nokulahleka okanye kwiimvakalelo zokukhulelwa okulandelayo, kodwa zonke izibini zihluke. Into engcono ongayenzayo ukubonisa iimvakalelo zakho kwaye ubuze indlela umlingane wakho angathanda ngayo ukumnceda ukuba azive exhaswa naye. Akukho ndlela "eyiyo" okanye indlela engafanelekanga yokukhulelwa kwemvula kunye nosana, kodwa ngokuthetha ngeemvakalelo zakho kwaye ukhangele ukuze uqiniseke ukuba bobabini unomuva wokuxhaswa, kuba luncedo oluhle kubo bobabini.