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Ucoceko lomntu kunye nemikhwa enempilo kubalulekile ubomi bokuphila. Kwaye nangona ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho kufuneka azi ukuba uyayinyamekela njani umzimba wakhe kunye nengqondo yakhe ngelixa efika ebusheni, unokumangaliswa.
Uninzi ulutsha lufuna isikhokelo esincinane kwisebe lezempilo ngexesha elinye. Kwaye nangona kungenakunqikaza ukuphakamisa umba, kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana wakho ubomi bokubaluleka kokuba ngumntu omdala onoxanduva.
Kutheni le miSebenzi enempilo ibalulekile ukuba intsha ifunde?
Intsha ingacinga ukuba yinkcitho yexesha ukuxubha amazinyo. Kodwa ukuxubha kabini ngemini kuvimbela iintambo kunye nezinye iingxaki zempilo.
Okanye, umntwanakho akanakuboni ukubaluleka ekusebenzeni. Kodwa ukuhlala usebenza kunokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba aphelise uxinzelelo kwaye agcine umzimba wakhe uphilile.
Kulula kubaselula ukuba batshabalalise imisebenzi ebalulekileyo kunye nemisebenzi yobomi bemihla ngemihla kwaye kubalulekile ukuba abazali bawakhumbuze ukuba kutheni kubalulekile.
Ukuze umntwana wakho abe nolonwabo xa ehlala ngokuzimela, uya kufuneka azi indlela yokugcina umzimba wakhe uphilile kwaye ucocekile. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukumfundisa indlela yokugcina ikhaya elicocekileyo ngokwenza imisebenzi yendlu yasemakhaya eya kumgcina ephilileyo.
Imimiselo enobungqina bakho yobutsha kufuneka ufumane
Imilinganiselo yokucoceka ingabalulekanga kuphela kuba ngumntu omdala onoxanduva, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu njengoko umzimba womntwana ukhula.
Nalu uluhlu lweendlela eziqhelekileyo zokucoceka umntwana wakho kufuneka akwazi ukuzibandakanya:
- Gxobhoza amazinyo kabini imihla ngemihla.
- Floss kanye ngosuku.
- Ukuhlamba okanye ukuhlamba kanye rhoqo.
- Geza rhoqo iinwele.
- Geza izandla rhoqo.
- Shave rhoqo.
- Ukuhlamba iinwele zabo ubuncinane ngosuku kwaye ufumane unwele rhoqo.
- Isiqeshana kwaye ulungise iminwe kunye nezikhonkwane ngeveki.
- Unakekele nayiphi na inzakalo njengoko kwenzekayo kwaye ade aphiliswe.
- Sebenzisa iimveliso zokuhlambulula ngokufanelekileyo, kubandakanywa iimveliso ezihlambulukileyo, ukucoceka kwamabhinqa, ukuhlambuluka kwe-acne, njl njl.
- Gqoka iimpahla ezihlambulukileyo kwaye utshintshe ngaphantsi kwesikhombiso.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ubhinqa amabhonki okanye unokugcina, uya kufuneka uhlangabezane neziphakamiso ezithile ezimele azilandele.
Ngokufanayo, ukuba intombazana yakho igqoke ii-lens zokubambisana, kubalulekile ukuphonononga amanyathelo athatyathwayo ekunyamekeleni amehlo akhe. Uya kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyayinyamekela iilensi zakhe kwaye alandela amanyathelo atyiswa ngugqirha wakhe.
Impilo Yakho Yomntwana Kufanele Yenze
Siye sava zonke iingxelo malunga nokunyuka kokunyanya kuninzi phakathi kwabantwana base-Amerika nabasetyhini. Akuyinto emele ithathwe ngokulula kwaye ukuphucula imikhuba enempilo ebuncinci inokubangela ukuba ube nempilo enempilo.
Khangela umntanakho ebhedeni kwaye ubenze ngaphandle ukuze usebenzise kunye nabahlobo. Sifaka isiqabetho ngesantya esinempilo kwaye ungenzi ukutya okungafunekiyo ukuba ufumaneke xa loo nto intsha ishaya. Zininzi izenzo ezincinci onokuzenza ukuze uqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala enempilo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ngokukhawuleza, unokuqhelanisa ngokukhuthaza ezo zinguqulelo. Basenokungaqapheli ukungabikho kwama-pizza afriziwe kwifriji xa kunesimo esimnandi (kunye nempilweni) endaweni yaso.
- Fumana inani elaneleyo lokulala.
- Yidla ukutya okunempilo kwaye unciphise ukutya okungenamsoco kunye ne-sodas.
- Ukuzivocavoca rhoqo.
- Ukuphuhlisa iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokusingatha uxinzelelo.
- Jabulela ukusebenzisana kwentlalo kunye nexesha elilodwa.
- Qalisa ingqondo ngokuwenza iipuzzle okanye ukufunda.
Fundisa ulawulo lwezindlu oluyisiseko
Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana wakho afunde indlela yokwenza izinto ezungeze indlu ukuze anakekele impilo yakhe. Awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho abe ngumdala ongakhange ahlambe amaphepha akhe okanye umntu ongazi ukuba angcolise ikhitshi yakhe.
Yenza intsha yakho ithinteke ekwenzeni imisebenzi yasekhaya. Fundisa isinyathelo ngasinye ngeendlela zokupheka ukutya, ukucoca iikhikhini, ukuhlamba iimpahla kunye nokuhlambulula ikhaya.
Ukugcina Umntwana Wakho Ohamba Ngomkhondo
Kukulungele ukuvumela ucoceko olulungileyo kunye nemikhwa enempilo ngokukhawuleza kwimizuzu emincinci, kodwa khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba anamathele kwisimo ngokubanzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukuba uyakuvumela ukuba islayidi eside kakhulu singakwazi ukuhlakulela umkhuba omubi kwaye ulahlekelwe yimikhwa emihle owabafundisayo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho okhulayo unzima kakhulu kwiinkalo zokucoceka, cwangcisa ukuqeshwa kwegqirha. Intombazana enqaba ukuhlamba okanye umntu ongenomdla ekunyamekeleni umzimba wakhe unokuba nempilo ethile yengqondo okanye imiba yempilo efuna ukujongana nayo.
> Imithombo
> Amacandelo okuLawula nokuSithintela izifo: IiNyango zeMpilo.
> Amaziko okuLawula nokuSithintela izifo: Vikela amehlo akho.
> KidsHealth.org: I-Basic Basics.