Iimbumba ezinzima zingabangela umba woqobo ekukhulelweni, kodwa yinto engenzekayo ekunceliseni. Oku kunokuba ngumthombo omkhulu weentlungu zokuncelisa unina. Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba imbangela yesibindi sokunyamezela ngokuqhelekileyo ibonakala kalula. Ngokuqhelekileyo kubangelwa isikhundla esifanelekileyo somntwana, kubangele ukuxhamla okungafanelekanga okanye kukho ingxaki ngokusana komntwana.
Ngamanye amabini yimbangela yengxaki. Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba ngolunye uncedo, wena kunye nosana unokukhawuleza ukuqhubela phambili kunye nolwalamano lwakho lwebele .
Isikhundla seNtsana?
Xa unesisu esihle sokuncelisa , umntwana usenokukwazi ukukhanda kwibele kwaye unakekele kakuhle. Ukuba umntwana akasesikhundleni esifanelekileyo, ukulungelelaniswa kwayo kungase kuphele kunye neengxaki zokukhathazeka zingaba ngumba. Le yenye yezo ndawo apho utshintsho oluncinci lwenza umehluko omkhulu. Yingakho enye i-eyeballs ibaluleke kakhulu.
Esi sizathu esinye sokuba kubalulekile ukufunda ngeendawo ezifanelekileyo kunye nokuba yintoni eyenza i-latch enhle, mhlawumbi ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana wakho . Xa unesimboli esingenasici, kungekhona nje ukuba ufumana iingono ezinzima, kodwa umntwana wakho unokufumana ubunzima beengxaki zegesi kunye nobutyebi obubi. Ngokukhawuleza ufumana uncedo, ngokukhawuleza unokuthi udibanise intlungu.
Umntwana Wakho Unamathela Kanjani?
Ukuqhotyoshela umntwana malunga nokubeka ngokufanelekileyo umlomo kunye nolwimi lomntwana.
Ngoxa iindawo ezifanelekileyo ziza kunceda unxibelelwano oluhle, akuyena nto kuphela. Ukuze ufumane unxibelelwano olungileyo, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba yonke ixesha umntwana ufika kwibele ukuba ikhululekile. Ukuba kukho ncinane intlungu, qiniseka ukuba uthathe umnwe wakho ococekileyo uze uyifake kumda womlomo womntwana ukuphula intshe.
Emva koko zama kwakhona. Unokudinga ukwenza oku amaxesha amaninzi ngaphambi kokuba i-latch ikhululekile kuwe.
Ukuba unayo nayiphi na intlungu yentlungu, kuyimfuneko ukuba ufune uncedo kunye nenkxaso ngokukhawuleza xa uziva uhlungu. Ngokufanelekileyo, ukuxhaswa ngumntu kukuhle. Ungazama ukubuyela kwindawo ozalele kuyo. Izibhedlele ezininzi sele zineeklinikhi zokulahla eziza kubona izigulane zabo. Ukuba oku akunjalo, unokuzama i-ofisi yombeletha wakho okanye ugqirha ukuba ubone ukuba ngaba unomcebisi we-lactation onokukunceda. Kukho nabacebisi bamacandelo abucala, abanye basebenza ezitolo, abanye baya kuhamba kwikhaya lakho. Unokuzama kwakhona ukuhlangana nomntu kunye neLa Leche League International (LLLI).
Yiba neengxaki zokulungisa ngokukhawuleza okanye abantu abazama ukukunika iingcebiso xa bengenazo iziqinisekiso zokuncedisa. Khumbula, i-lactation yenzululwazi ekhethekileyo engafundiswanga kakuhle kwisikolo sezonyango okanye esikolweni. Ngoko qiniseka ukuba ubuze umntu oqeqeshwe ngokuthe ngqo. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba ungazimeli izinto ezifana neengxowa zamachule. Ezi azikhuthazelwanga kule ngxaki. Basenokunciphisa ukubonelela ubisi kwaye benze izinto zibe zibi nakakhulu.
Amanyathelo okuXhobisa ubuhlungu besisu
- Hlola ukuma
- Khangela i-latch
- Ukuba oko akuncedi, fumana inkxaso yobuchwepheshe
Izibilini ezinzima zidla ngokuba yinto enokuqala njengengxaki encinci. Omnye ukondla kwaye ucinga, "Ndiyakwazi ukuxhoma nale ..." ngokutya okulandelayo, konke kuphazamisayo. Ngokukhawuleza ufumana uncedo, ngokukhawuleza uza kufumana yonke into eqondiswe.
Ukuba uncelise ikhefu kwithuba elikhawulezileyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza kunezikhwebu ezinzima, ezingabangelwa ngokubeka indawo okanye i-latch kwaye zinokuba nezinye izizathu. Kufuneka ufune inkxaso yenkxaso. Oku kunokuqhelekileyo xa umntwana wakho sele ekhulile kwaye uya kuba nezizathu ezahlukileyo kakhulu, ngoko ke, unyango oluhlukeneyo.
> Imithombo:
> Lawrence, RA, Lawrence, RM. Ukuncelisa: Isikhokelo soPhando lwezeMpilo, ngomhla we-7. 2011.
> Mohrbacher, N. Iimpendulo zokubeleka zilula. Ukushicilelwa kweHale. 2010.