Ngomzuzu, umntakwabo unecala lakho njengoko uhamba ngeenqwelo zokutya kwinqwelo. Into elandelayo uyayazi, uchithe-kwaye uqala ukwethuka. Ingcamango eyoyikisayo kunoma yimuphi umzali.
Emva kwakho konke, ukuphazamiseka okungaphezu kwe-50 000 kwenzeka kwiindawo zokupaka kunye neegaraji ngonyaka, obangela ukulimala okungaphezu kwama-60,000 kunye nokufa kwama-500.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuphazamiseka akuyona ingozi kuphela kwindawo yokupaka okanye iigaraji.
Iimfumba kunye nokuqhekeka, i-debris, ukukhanya okungahambi kakuhle kunye neqhwa yingozi yonke yomzali nomntwana.
Ngenxa yokuba abantwana abanakho ukukhula ukuba baqonde ingozi kula maxesha, kuya kubazali ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wabo uhlala ekhuselekile.
Izingozi zokuPaka
Nabo baqhubi bezona ndlela zikhuselekile endleleni bangase banqabise ukulinda kwabo kwindawo yokupaka, becinga ukuba baqhuba ngokukhawuleza ukuba bahlanganyele ekuziphatheni okuyingozi.
I-National National Council yezoKhuseleko i-poll ifunyenwe ukuba xa uqhuba ngokupaka indawo yokupaka:
- Iipesenti ezingama-66 zabaqhubi zivakalelwa zikhululekile ukwenza iifowuni
- Amaphesenti angama-63 aya kuhlela i-GPS yabo
- Amaphesenti angama-56 aya kuthumela umyalezo wombhalo
- Amaphesenti ama-52 aya kusebenzisa imidiya yoluntu
- Ipesenti ezingama-49 zithatha iifoto okanye ubukele iividiyo
Ngako-ke, kucacile ukuba abaqhubi abaninzi abaqapheli ngqalelo kwiindawo ezizungezile, okwenza indawo yokupaka iimeko ezikhuselekileyo zokukhusela abantwana (kunye nabahamba ngeenyawo zabantu abadala).
Ukuseka iMigaqo ecacileyo
Abantwana abakucacanga ukuba kutheni ukulungele ukujikeleza kwindawo yokudlala kodwa kungenakulungile ukwenza okufanayo kwisitokethi sokutya. Ngoko kubalulekile ukubeka imithetho ecacileyo yokupaka.
Nazi ezinye iimpawu zempendulo onokufuna ukufundisa umntwana wakho:
- Ungalokothi udlale eduze neemoto ezimiweyo. Ubuncinane abantwana abangama-50 baxhaswa kwii-driveways kunye neendawo zokupaka ngeveki e-United States. Kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba akunakulungele ukudlala kufuphi neemoto, nangona zimi.
- Jonga iinqwelo zemoto. Abaqhubi banenkinga yokubona abantwana, kodwa abantwana bahlala becinga ukuba bayakwazi ukubona imoto, ngoko umqhubi uyazibona. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba akhangele ngeemoto. Yenza kucacise ukuba akukaze kulungile ukudlala imidlalo okanye ukwenza izinto ezinqabileyo kwiindawo zokupaka.
- Bamba isandla somdala. Tshela umntwana wakho ukuba abambe isandla sakho nanini na xa uhamba kwindawo yokupaka. Oku kuya kuba nzima nakakhulu ukuba unayo umntwana okanye xa uqhuba inqwelo yokutya. Kuloo matyala, fumana enye into yokuba umntwana wakho ayenze-njengokubamba kwinqwelo yakho.
- Sebenzisa ukuhamba ngeenyawo kwindawo yokupaka. Gxi ninisa ukubaluleka kokuhamba kwindawo yokupaka. Cacisa ukuba ukusebenza kungakhuselekanga ngenxa yokuba iimoto zingenakuzibona.
Hlola iimigaqo ngaphambi kokuba uphume emotweni. Yithi, "Sisevenkile, kodwa makhe sikhulume ngemigaqo yokuphepha yokupaka ngaphambi kokuphuma."
Qinisekisa ukuthetha ngemithetho ethile kwindawo yakho. Isikolo somntwana wakho sinokuba nemithetho yokulayisha okanye yokulayisha, umzekelo.
Yaye qiniseka ukuba ulandele imigaqo. Ukuba ivenkile zecrocery zikhokelo malunga nendawo apho umntwana wakho anokukhwela khona, landela imigaqo. Iinqwelana ziyakwazi ukuphosa phezulu okanye abantwana bawela xa bengasetyenziswanga kakuhle.
Fundisa i-STAR Method
Abantwana benza kakuhle ngokubhekiselele kwiibinzana ezikhunjulwe, ngoko ke ukuba umntwana wakho unokuqonda isiqu, ufundisa indlela ye-STAR:
- S: Yeka uze ume xa usuphuma emotweni.
- T: Thinta indawo ekhethiweyo kwimoto uze ulinde.
- A: Nika ingqalelo kwizinto ezikujikelezayo, kwaye umamele umzali wakho.
- R: Yilungele ukuthatha isandla somzali xa bekuxelela ixesha lokuba uhambe.
Ewe, kukho ukhuseleko lokuxhalaba malunga nokubuya kwakho emotweni. Thetha nomntanakho malunga noko ukulindele ukuba akwenze xa ushiya eso sakhiwo ukuze akwazi ukugcina ukhuseleko engqondweni endleleni eya emotweni.
Umvuzo Wokuziphatha
Xa ubona umncinci wakho uthatha amanyathelo okukhusela kwindawo yokupaka okanye ngeenxa zonke iimoto, zinikezele kakhulu indumiso . Abantwana basabela kakuhle ngokubongwa ngokukwenza into enhle, kwaye indumiso iya kubambelela engqondweni yabo kwaye iqinisekise le miqathango yokukhusela.
Yithi izinto ezinjengalezi, "Umsebenzi omkhulu ukukhumbula ukumbamba isandla sam namhlanje," okanye "Ndiyathanda indlela obukele ngayo indlela zombini xa sasizocima indlela."
Ukuba umntwana wakho unobunzima obuninzi lokukhusela indawo yokupaka, umvuzo womvuzo unokunceda. Yakha isatidi esitila uze uyizise nawe kwimoto ukuze ubeke isitaki kwitshati ngokukhawuleza xa ubuya.
Ngaphambi kokuba uphume emotweni, tshela, "Unokufumana isitikha ukuba usebenzise iinyawo zokuhamba kwaye ubambe isandla sam namhlanje." Kubafundi besikolo, ama-stickers athobile ngokwaneleyo ukuba bawalandele ukulandela imigaqo. Kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho usemncinci, okanye akanakuchukunyiswa ngama-stickers, unokuba unika umvuzo ophezulu -jonga njengethuba lokudlala umdlalo xa ufika ekhaya.
Nika iziphumo zokuziphatha kakubi
Ukuba umntanakho uya kuphuma kwindawo yokupaka okanye uyala ukuyeka ukudlala kwiimpuddles, umnike umphumo. Yithi, "Akukhuselekile kwindawo yokupaka."
Unokwenza isigqibo sokubuyela emotweni ixesha elifutshane. Emva koko, umntwana wakho uya kuba nelinye ithuba lokuzama kwakhona.
Okanye, unokususa ilungelo-njengento yokudlala yakhe ixesha elifutshane. Qhubeka uhambelana nokuqeqeshwa kwakho ukuze umntwana wakho azi ukuba ukhuseleko lokupaka ixabiso elikhulu.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uqhubela phambili okanye ukuziphatha kwakhe kube yinkxalabo ekhuselekileyo yokhuseleko, unokufuna ukucutha ukuhamba kwakhe xa kubandakanywa iindawo zokupaka. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, musa ukumthabatha kwiindawo zokuthengisa ukuba uza kuthwala izinto kwi-car. Oku kungenza ukubeka esweni iimeko zakhe kunzima kakhulu.
Kunoko, unokumthabatha uhambo lwakhe xa iingalo zakho zingenanto kwaye uninzi ixesha lokumbeka ngexesha xa kudingekile. Fumana indawo yokupaka engenakunzima kwaye ihlaziywe imigaqo ngaphambi kokuba uphume.
Ukunceda umntwana wakho athathe uhambo oluthile oluyimpumelelo emva kwakhe kunokumnika ithemba lokuba unokukwazi ukuziphatha ngexesha elizayo xa uphuma kwimoto kwindawo yokupaka.
Yiba Umzekelo Olungileyo
Kubalulekile kwizakhono zohlobo olukhuselekileyo njengezithuthi. Gwema ukuthetha kwifowuni ngelixa uhamba ngeendawo zokupaka. Futhi ungathumeli imiyalezo. Ngaphandle koko, umntwana wakho uya kukhetha kwimikhwa yakho. Mbonise ukuba ubeka ingqwalasela ngokukhawuleza kwizinto ezikujikelezayo kwaye uziqhelanisa ukuhlala ukhuselekile kunye.
Iingcebiso zokuhamba ngokukhuselekileyo kwiindawo zokupaka
Njengomqhubi, udlala indima ebalulekileyo ekukhuselweni kweendawo zokupaka, kwakhona. IBhunga lezoKhuseleko likaZwelonke lichaza ukuba ngaphezu kweyesithathu kwabasebenzi abahamba ngeenyawo zokupaka ngenxa yeziganeko zokulondoloza.
Ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwisihlalo somqhubi, yenza isangqa esheshayo malunga nomoto ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho nto kwaye akukho mntu uhambayo endleleni. Nokuba unayo ikhamera yokulondoloza, gcinani engqondweni ukuba iikhamera zenkxaso-mpahla azikwazi ukufumana abantwana abancinci.
Xa usesemotweni, jonga phezu kwegxala lakho kwaye usebenzise izibuko zakho njengoko uphakamisa. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uqhuba isithuthi esinjengeSUV okanye i-minivane, kuba ukubonakala kunzima kwaye iindawo eziyimfama zixhalaba ngakumbi. Hambisa ngokukhawuleza njengoko uqala uhambo lwakho lwemoto.
Xa ushiya indawo yokupaka, gcizelela ukuba usalugxile kwikhuseleko. Yithetha izinto kumntanakho onjengaye, "Ndibeka amehlo kubantu abahambayo kuba ndifuna ukuba ngumqhubi okhuselekileyo."
Unokubonisa abanye abantu abakhuselekileyo. Yithi izinto ezinje, "Ndiyayeka kwaye ndivumele le ntsapho ihambe. Ndiyonwabile ukubona ukuba le nkwenkwana ibambe isandla sikayise xa ihamba ngaphaya kwebala lokupaka. "
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