Iintlobo Eziphezulu Zeentshaba Zokuzizwa

Iingxelo ezixhalabileyo, Imibuzo kunye neNkcazo Ethiwa Abantu Kwiintlobo

Amawele aziva konke. Abantu bahlala bethetha iingxelo ezifanayo kunye namazwana, kwaye babuza imibuzo efanayo. Kuyakucasula emva kancinane. Abantu banokucinga ukuba bayayimvelaphi kwaye bayamangalisa, kodwa amathuba kukuba, amawele ayelivile ngaphambili. Nazi izinto amawele azizonda ukuva.

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"Ukuba Ndiyakukunqanda, Ngaba iWinwin yakho ivakalelwa?"
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Ngesizathu esithile, abantu bayifumana le ngcamango ekhangayo - ingcamango yokuba xa elinye iwele lifumana ivuselelo, elinye iwele liza kuthatha isenzo senyama. Abayikubuza kuphela lo mbuzo, kodwa bafuna ukuvavanya inkolelo ngokubetha okanye ukubetha. Ngelixa amawele ewabelana ngesondlo esomeleleyo, akuyona into ehambelanayo. Amanye amawele abika ingxelo ebonakalayo engavamile ngokomzimba kwisimo sefa lakhe. Ngokomzekelo, udade obizayo wabika ubuhlungu besisu xa udade wakhe ehambisa umntwana. Nangona kunjalo, amawele amaninzi awahlangabezekiyo loo meko. Ukuba bayakwenza, baya kukuxelela ngako. Akukho mfuneko yokubuza.

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"Ndiyakuthanda Ungcono Kulo Twin Yakho."
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Ndicinga ukuba oku kunomusa kunokuba utshele umntu, "Ndiyathanda amawele akho angcono kunawe." Kodwa lolu hlobo lwentetho lwenza amawele angakhululeki kakhulu. Abafuni ukuthelekiswa-ngokufanelekileyo okanye ngokungafanelekanga. Njengazo ukuba ziphi, kungekhona indlela abaxhamla ngayo.

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"Ngaba Unamawele?"
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Le yinye imibuzo abazali bamawele abaxhamla ngayo ngaphambi kokuba amawele aphendule. Akusiyo umbuzo ogqithisileyo, ongunaphakade. Ndiyicinga isizathu sokuba amawele awayithandi kuba luhlala luhamba kunye neenkwenkwezi ezininzi kunye nokuhlolisisa, kwaye kulandelelanisa ingxoxo engxolisayo ehlala iquka ezininzi iimbuzo ezikhathazayo kunye neengxelo eziluluhlu.

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"Ngubani na okhulile?"
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Umbuzo olandelayo ngokulandelelana ukuya ku-# 3 ngumzamo wokuhlukanisa amawele nge- order order . Akusebenzi nje nje. Kwimeko yamanye amawele, awaziyo okanye akhathalele umntu omdala. Yaye ukuba bayayazi, ukuphinda ukuphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuvelisa izinto ezinokukhathazeka okanye ezingafaniyo .

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"Ndiyathanda ukuba ndibe neTwin."
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Mhlawumbi wenza. Kodwa ngokwenene, awukwazi ukuba yintoni, kwaye xa wenza, awuyi kuyenza loo mazwi. Abantu bayamangaliswa ngcamango yamawele, kodwa into yokuba amawele ahlala elula kunokuba ucinge.

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"Ngaba Unokufunda Ngamanye Umqondo?"
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Enye imfihlelo yemilingo ehambelana nokuphindaphindiweyo kukuba baxhamla uxhulumaniso olukhethekileyo ngaphaya koonyana abaqhelekileyo. Nangona iimbopho eziphathekayo zibaluleke kakhulu ngobuhlobo babo obukhethekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha zinikwe iimpawu ezingavamile. Nangona kukho iziganeko ezininzi - kunye neziqu - apho amawele avela ukuba uyazi ukuba abanye bacinga ntoni, kukho ubungqina obuncinane besayensi bokuxhasa ukuba amawele anegunya eliphezulu le-telepathic . Ngokuqhelekileyo, bayazi nje kakuhle kwaye bavame ukuba neepatheni ezicinga ngolu hlobo, njengabantu ababini abachitha ixesha elininzi kunye.

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"Ngaba Uyenza Yonke Into?"
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Amawele amntu . Banobuqhetseba babo kunye neminqweno yabo. Kwiintsuku zokuqala zokukhulisa amawele, abaninzi abazali bayavuma ukuba kulula kakhulu ukugcina i-multiples kwishedyuli esifanayo , kwaye amawele amaninzi awenza yonke into kunye. Kodwa, njengoko bekhula kwaye bazikhethele bona, baninzi bafuna indlela yabo. Ihlambala amawele ukucinga ukuba yenza konke kunye nje ngokuba ngamawele; kunciphisa abantu ngabanye.

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"Ndacinga ukuba UyiPhakheji."
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"Andikwazi ukumema zombini, ngoko andiyi kumema omnye wenu." Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba amawele abe yi-packaged deal kwaye musa ukwenza umzamo wokubawazi njengabantu ngabanye. Xa kufika ixesha lokukhupha iimemo okanye ukwenza ukhetho, bakhetha ukushiya amawele amabini kunokuba babhale enye. Ukuthuka amawele xa abantu benqaba ukuwavuma njengabantu ngabanye baze bacinge ukuba bahlala nje ngebini.

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Ungubani na?
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Lo ngumbuzo ochaphazelayo ngamawele. Iyanciphisa njengabantu ngabanye. Akunjalo nje enye yeebini. Amawele amaninzi ayakuqonda ukuba udibanisa ubungqina babo , nje ngokuba wenza umzamo wokubona abantu ngabanye. Ngaphandle kokuthi, "Ungubani na?", Enye into ekhethiweyo yayiya kuthi, "Ndixolele ukungabi nolwazi." Ndididekile kuba ukhangeleka kakhulu.

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"Ufana Nokuba Njani I-Twin?"
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Amawele abuzwa lo mbuzo ngawo onke amaxesha . Kwaye abazi ukuba bangayiphendula njani. Unokuvakalelwa njani xa umntu ebuza kuwe, "Yintoni efana nokuba udade? Umzalwana? Umntwana kuphela?" Ngamanye amazwi, "Yintoni efana nokungabi yiwele?" Abazange babone ubomi ngokuthe ngenye indlela, ngoko abanakho isizathu sokuthelekisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo baya kuphendula ngokuthi "Hayi kumnandi" okanye "Kulungile," kodwa bazama nje ukuzama ukukususa emhlane. Enyanisweni, impendulo yinto ehambelana nemigca ye ... ukuba yindlela abazalelwe ngayo, ngamanye amaxesha bayayithanda, ngamanye amaxesha bayayithiya, kwaye abayikuyiqonda loo nto.