Usuku lwabazali lukaMama kulabo bazama ukukhulelwa
Usuku lokuKhusela iNational unfertility yiholide efuna ukugubha kunye nokukhupha abo babenzima ukukhulelwa . Ayikho iholide eyaziwayo, kodwa kuyadingeka kakhulu. Usuku lusetyenziswa njengenye indlela yoMama kaNye.
Usuku lukaMama alulula kulabo bajamelana nokungazinzi . Kubuhlungu kakhulu. Ngomhla kaMama, umama onzima owenza umama kwiinkalo zawo uyaziwa.
Kodwa kuthekani ngabafazi abajongene nokungabi nabantwana? Basebenza nzima. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umzabalazo wabo awuthuli kwaye awubonakali .
Kodwa ngoku, sinomhla wethu - Usuku lokuSindisa iNational Unfertility Day!
Ukugxininiswa kwimihla kukuzinyamekela kunye nokubhiyozela into esinayo. Kwakhona usuku lwabahlobo kunye nosapho ukuba benze umgudu ongakumbi wokuxhasa umntu obathandayo ngokungenasifo.
Njengomhla kaMama, xa umsebenzi wonke onzima oya kumama ubhiyozelwa, kwiNational Surferability Day Day, sibhiyozela kwaye sibahlonele izibini ezizama ngamandla ukuba ngabazali.
Iholide yasungulwa ngo-2004 nguBeverly Barna, umbhali we- Infertility Sucks! Ukuzigcina Zonke Kanye Ngoxa i-Sperm ne-Egg Inkinga ihlala Ngaphandle (i-Xlibris Corporation, 2002). UBarna uchaza iholide efana nale:
"Ndiyathemba ukuba iNational Unfertility Survival Day iza kuphakamisa imimoya yabo kwaye ibanike umgudu wokubhiyozela ngokwabo kunye noko banako. Oku akuyikuba kukunyaniseki ukuphelelwa yithemba ngokwenene abajongene nayo. Kunoko, lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuyeka nokuvumba iChanel, kunye nokukhawuleza ukunyamezela okubangelwa ukuqhubela phambili, kwi-Day Day yoMama. Kwakhona iyisithuthi apho abo basondelene nawo banokunika inkxaso enokwenza izinto, ezinokwenza izinto, kunye nokuzonwabisa. "
Ngukuphi Usuku Lokusinda Lokungabikho Kwelizwe?
Iholide iwa ngeCawa yokuqala yenyanga kaMeyi.
Ngo-2016, iholide iya kubhiyozelwa ngoMeyi 1.
Kucwangciselwe ukuphela kweveki ngaphambi koSuku loMama, ixesha leeholide lizimisele. Ixesha liye laphazamisa ukudakumba nokukhungatheka abafazi abaninzi abavakalelwa kukuba uMama woSuku ufikelela.
Kutheni i-National Dayless Defence Survival Day?
U-Barna uyachaza: "Njengoko unomtsalane njengoSuku lukaMama unokuba ngowomama, kunokukhathazeka kakhulu kwaye kuphazamise abafazi abangenabantwana."
Omnye unokuziva ekhohlakele kwaye ekhutshwe. Kwaye, kwakudala ixesha lokuba yonke into yokudumala ngayo imeko yam idibeneyo kulo suku. "
Ieholide nayo yithuba lokujika kwaye ivelise into enokuthi yintoni eqhelekileyo imeko enzima.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, sigxininisa amandla ethu kunye neengcamango kwizinto esingazifumaniyo okanye ezingafumaniyo, nangona zonke iinzame zethu. Ngaloo mini, siyawuhlonela kwaye sibhiyozele konke esikwenzileyo ukuzama ukuba nomntwana.
Endaweni yokugxila kwilahleko zethu, sigxininisa ngamandla ethu.
Ngubani omele agubha iSuku lokuKhusela iNational unfertility?
Usuku loKhuseleko lokuNgenwa kweSizwe alukho kuphela kubafazi kunye nezibini ezijongene nokungabikho kwengqondo ngoku. Kwakhona ngumhla wabantu abaye bahamba phambili ebomini babo.
UBarna uyachaza, "Ndiyathemba ukuba iholide ikhuthaze [abo abangenako ukusebenzisana nokungabikho kwengqondo] ukuba bamkele ulwazi-nokuba bulumko-abaye bafumana kulo mzabalazo, kwaye bafumane iindlela zokuxhasa abo baqhubeka bejamelana neengxaki ngosuku -uku-suku, ngenyanga-ngenyanga, kwaye ngubani ongazi ukuba kuya kuba njani. "
Indlela yokugubha kunye nokuchitha iMini
Lo ngumhla nje kuwe. Kufuneka ugubha usuku kodwa uthanda!
Iimbono ezimbalwa ezinokwenzeka:
- Phuma uye kudla.
- Bona i-movie okanye umdlalo.
- Zithenge iintyatyambo.
- Hlangana nabahlobo, mhlawumbi ekhaya okanye ngaphandle kwedolophu.
- Zizenzele ngokutyelela i-spa, okanye ukuhlalisa.
- Thatha usuku oluthile lobugcisa - ubugcisa obubi, i-corny imbongi, nantoni na oyithandayo!
Abanye besetyhini banokuziva bebhiyozela ngobuqili xa beziva bengenanto yokubhiyozela.
Uluntu lwethu lugxininisa kakhulu ekubhiyozeni emva kokuba sifeze injongo. Akuqhelekanga kubafazi bajamelana nokungazinzi ukuba bazive bengaphumeleli.
Kodwa awuyikusilela.
Ngokungahambi, ukufezekiswa kwakho ngumzamo osuke ubeke kuwo ekubeni ngumzali.
Akunakukwazi ukubamba ezi ntlobo zeempumelelo esandleni sakho, kodwa zinyani kwaye zifanelwe ukugubha.
Indlela yokuxhasa umntu ongenalucalulo
Amaqabane, lo ngumhla wesipho esikhethekileyo. Into eyoyivuselela.
"Ii-chocolates - ngaphandle kokuba esondla, kwimeko apho, ubucwebe busoloko buhle," ucebisa uBarna. "Isiqhelo! Cards! Ukutya kwekhandlela! Isiselo somdiliya! Ishampeyini! Umbongo! Uhambo! "
Akukho sizathu, ngendlela, ukuba awukwazi ukubhiyozela imini kunye. Emva kwakho konke, usebenze nzima kwaye ubhekane nokungafumaneki. Mhlawumbi ukuxilwa kwesibini kuya kuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokuchitha imini.
Kwintsapho kunye nabahlobo, becinga ukuba isi sibini sikuvumele kule ndawo yangasese yobomi babo, nantoni na eyoyibuyisela ebusweni babo inkulu.
Ukuzisa ezinye iibhaluni. Thumela i-e-khadi ehlekisayo okanye ephakanyisayo. Maxa wambi nje umnxeba obazisa ukuba ukhona ukuba bafuna ukuthetha kuhle.
Nantoni na onokuyicinga ukuba uyenzele ukuzalwa kwayo, ezo ntlobo zengcamango zifanelwe ukugujwa kweSuku lokuSinda koKhuseleko lukazwelonke.