Ngaba ucinga ukuba intlupheko yokulwa nodlova ayikwazi kwenzeka ntoni kwindodana okanye intombi yakho? Cinga ukuba usemncinci ukuba akwenze oko, okanye ukuba akuyi kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba uyinkwenkwe? Amanqaku kazwelonke avela kumaziko ase-United States okuLawula kunye nokukhusela kwiintsholongwane zobundlobongela obuselula athetha ibali elithile.
Uhlala Unomdla Kangakanani Umtshato Wokuxhaphazwa?
Iimanani zamanje malunga nolwaphulo olutsha olutsha lubalisa ibali elikrakra:
- Omnye kwimantombazana engama-10 kunye nomntwana oneminyaka engama-11 ubudala ovuma ukuba unobundlobongela obunobundlobongela kubuhlobo obusondeleyo kulo nyaka odlulileyo. Omnye abathathu abatsha bathi bayazi umntu oye wahlaselwa okanye ahlaselwe ngumlingane othasene naye.
- Omnye kwabathathu abaneminyaka engama-13 no-14 abaye bebudlelwane bathi bayazi umntu oye wavutha ngumsindo ngumfana okanye intombi.
- Omnye oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala uyavuma ukuba uxhatshazwe ngokomzwelo kunyaka owedlule.
- Phakathi kwabantwana abaneminyaka eli-11 ukuya kwe-14 abaye bahlala bebudlelwane, abangama-62% bawaziyo abahlobo ababethathwe kakubi ngumfana okanye intombi.
- Phantse omnye kumantombazana amantombazana asetshenziselwa ukuphathwa kakubi ngokomzimba okanye ahlukunyezwe ngokwesondo.
- Ama-70% amantombazana asetsheni ahlaselwe ngokwesondo awazi ukubahlasela. Umhlaseli wayengumhlobo, isithandwa okanye umhlobo ongaqhelekanga.
- Ingaphezu kwesigamu samantombazana ahlolisweyo axela uxhatshazo phakathi kwabo-kuthetha ukuba bobabini kunye nomlingane wakhe babecala.
Ngaphandle kwezoBundlobongela kunye noTywala
Ukongeza kwindlobongela emzimbeni, intsha eninzi ilawula ubudlelwane okanye ulwalamano. Ukuqhaqha kunye nokutyunjwa kukubonakaliso olunye, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqaphele iimpawu zokuxhalaba okanye ukuxinezeleka.
Ukuxhaphazwa kwentsha kunye nodlova kuyenzeka yonke indawo kwiqela elincinci labaselula.
Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bazi i-statistics, imiqondiso yokuba iqabane lakho lixhaphaza , yintoni umjikelezo wokuxhaphaza olwalamano olubukeka ngathi, kunye nento ongayibheka ngayo ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho usetshatshazwa. Abazali abafundisayo banokukunceda ukuyeka le ntsholongwane yobundlobongela kubuselula.
Imithombo:
Khetha Inhlonipho: Ukutshatyalaliswa kokuSetyenziswa kakubi. Amaziko okuLawula izifo. http://chooserespect.engagethecrowd.com/scripts/teens/statistics.asp
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwentlobano. ICandelo leZiko loKhuselo loLutsha loLutsha. http://www.safeyouth.org/scripts/faq/dateviolfacts.asp#9
Ubundlobongela obutsha: Ukuqwalasela ngokugqithiseleyo ulwalamano olusenyongweni. ISebe lezoBulungisa, i-Ofisi yezoBulungisa. https://www.nij.gov/journals/261/pages/teen-dating-violence.aspx
Isifundo sobudlelwano bobudlelwane. I-National Teen Dating Abuse Hotline. http://www.loveisrespect.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/tru-tween-teen-study-feb-081.pdf