Abazali abaninzi basebenzisa iindlela zokuthetha ukuqeqesha abantwana
Iingcali zempilo kunye nophuhliso lwezingane, kuquka i-American Academy of Pediatrics, baphume ngokumelene nokusebenzisa isijeziso somntu kubantwana. Uphando olunzulu luye lwabonisa ukuba isohlwayo esingasemngciphekweni kuphela ekuphuhliseni abantwana kunye nolwalamano lwabazali-abantwana, kodwa alusebenzi nakwixesha elide.
Abazali, kubonakala ngathi bebefumana umyalezo: Abazali abangakumbi babonakala bekhetha iintlobo ezingezizo zoqeqesho lwabantwana ezifana nokuphuma kwexesha kunye neendlela ezahlukeneyo zesigwebo, ngokutsho koNovemba, ngo-2016 uphando olupapashwe kwiphepha lePediatrics .
Ukuqonda iSifundo
Abaphandi bahlalutye ulwazi kwiinkalo ezine zelizwe zonyamekela abantwana abaneminyaka engama-enkulisa ezenziwe phakathi kuka-1988 no-2011. Bafumanisa ukuba isimo sengqondo sabazali ngokusebenzisa isijeziso somzimba ekufundiseni abantwana sele sitshintshile ngaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amabini, kuba abazali abambalwa bathi ukubetha kuyamkeleka kunye nabazali abaninzi abagweba izicwangciso zokuziphatha ezingezizo zokuziphatha njengokuba ngcono ekulungiseni ukuziphatha kwezingane.
Abaphandi bathi ukutshintsha kwimo sengqondo eyenzeka phakathi kwabo bonke abazali, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ingeniso okanye inqanaba lemfundo, mhlawumbi kuthetha ukuba abazali abancinci basebenzisa isijeziso somzimba ekufundiseni abantwana.
Ezinye iinkalo ezibalaseleyo zophando:
- Ukususela ngo-1988, inani labanina abafumana imali phakathi kwabo bathi bacinga ukuba isigwebo esifanelekileyo siphume sisuka kuma-46 ukuya kuma-21 ekhulwini.
- Kuyo yonke inqanaba lemali engenayo, ipesenteji yabamama abavakalisa ukuba bayakubetha okanye bathabathe umntwana wabo oneminyaka engama-100 ubudala ekuphenduleni ukuziphatha kakubi kwehlelwa ngama-20 ukuya kuma-26 ekhulwini phakathi kuka-1988 no-2011.
- Ngexesha elifanayo, ipesenti yabamama abathi baya kunika umntwana ixesha okanye baphumelele emagumbini abo ekuphenduleni ukuziphatha kakubi kwanda ngamaphesenti angama-26 ukuya kuma-40 kuwo wonke amanqanaba engeniso.
- Iipesenti zabamama abavakalise ukuba babethe okanye babethe umntwana wabo ngeveki edlulileyo bancipha kuwo wonke amanqanaba engeniso ngamaphesenti angama-26 ukuya kuma-40 phakathi ko-1998 no-2011.
Kodwa ngelixa lo mboniso ubonisa ukuba kukho inkqubela phambili eyenziwe ekufundiseni nasekukhokheni abantwana kwimilinganiselo emihle kunokuba bajezise ngokufundisa ukuba ubundlobongela buyimpumelelo, kusekho isidingo seengcali zempilo yabantwana, abacebisi kunye nabazali ukuqhubeka bethetha malunga iziphumo ezinobungozi zesohlwayo somntu, njengengozi enkulu yokwenza ulwaphulo kunye nokuziphatha okungafaniyo (ukuxoka, ukuba, ukukopela, ukuxhatshazwa, njl. njll) kwizingane kunye nomngcipheko ophezulu womzali olahlekelwa ngumlawuli nokuphatha kakubi umntwana.
Nangona kukho ukutshintsha, olu pho nonongo lufumanise ukuba phantse i-third-third of mothers in the lowest levels of income-the group that has traditionally favored coral corporation ngaphezu kwamanye amaqela e-socio-economically-asekela ukusetyenziswa kwe-spanking ekuphenduleni ukuziphatha kakubi ebantwaneni abaneminyaka yobudala. Kwaye amaninzi ama-25 ekhulwini ala ma mama athi basebenzisa isijeziso somzimba kubantwana babo ngeveki eledlule.
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Akucaci ngokucacileyo oko kulandelelaniswa nabazali abaninzi abasuka kwinqanaba le-corporal-kungabangela ukuba oogqirha kunye nezinye iingcali zempilo kunye neengcali zentlalo zisasaza ilizwi malunga nobubanzi obuphandekileyo kunye nophando oluphandwayo olubonisa uxhamlwano olucacileyo phakathi kwejelo iziphumo zezingane, okanye mhlawumbi ukuba le fomu yokusola abantwana ingamkelekanga emphakathini kunokuba ikhona, okanye ukuhlanganiswa kwezi zombini.
Injongo mayibe nokufikelela kwaye unikele ngolwazi kunye nenkxaso kunoma yimuphi umzali osakholelwa ukuba isijeziso senyama siyamkeleka okanye sisebenze.
Ngokukhuthaza abo basoloko bekhuthaza isigwebo sobuntu ukuba babone iinyani ngenxa yezizathu kubazali namhlanje bacinga ukuba izigwebo zesohlwayo zisebenza kwaye zidibanise ezi zizathu ukuba zibonwe ukuba zezizathu ziphi na izizathu kunye nokuhlolwa, sinokukhusela amalungu athathaka kakhulu kuluntu: abantwana, ngubani omele afundiswe indlela yokuziphatha ngokuchanekileyo kunye nokuphuhlisa izakhono zokulawula ukuziphatha kwabo ukuze bangabi nasoloko beqeqeshwa kwaye abamele bangabandezeleka ngokwenene ukuze balithobele ngeli xesha, ngaphandle ukufunda indlela yokuzilawula ngokuzayo.