Amama amawele: uyazi imeko. Uphume kwisitolo / ivenkile / I-Target / i-Home Depot / ipostile. Ukujikeleza iisisisi kunye namawele akho kwi-stroller yabo ehambileyo, uzama ngamandla ukufezekisa izinto ezithile ezibalulekileyo kwixesha elincinci elithi "ihora legolide" phakathi kwexesha le-nap, ukuxhaswa kunye nokudibanisa (kwabo kunye neyakho). Kwaye unyaniswa nentsingiselo efanelekileyo-kodwa nangona kunjalo uyacaphukisa - umntu ofuna ukuphanda imibuzo.
Ngaba amawele ? Ngaba zifana ? Ngubani omdala ? Imibuzo eqhelekileyo yemibuzo abantu bayabuza malunga namawele .
Incoko ihlala iqukumbela ngenye yee-anecdotes ezimbini. Baya kuzama ukunxibelelana nawe ngokuxelela ukuba umalume womntakwabo womntakwabo womntakwabo wayephethe amawele. Okanye, baya kwenza isitatimenti esiya kubeka amazinyo akho. Ufuna ukubona umama wegazi lomama? Jonga ukuphendula kwakhe xa umntu ongekho (okanye ngakumbi, umhlobo!) Wenza ibango lokuba nabantwana ababini abasondeleyo "banjengamawele."
Kutheni le nto ikhupha umama wamamawele ngamaxuku? Ngenxa yokuba akunjalo.
Unokuba ucinga ukuba sizimisele ukukhusela kwaye sifuna ukugcina ukholo lwethu njengamaMom ngomsebenzi onzima kakhulu. Kodwa uya kuphosakela. Ukuba namawele okanye ukuphindaphinda kunzima. Kodwa kunjalo unina ngokubanzi. Ukuba nabantwana abahlanu kunzima. Ukuba neemfuno ezikhethekileyo zomntwana kunzima.
Ukuba nomntwana ongatshatanga ophelelekanga akukho picnic. Umama ugcwele ixesha elinzima.
Ngokuchasene noko, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuba kuba namawele ngokulula kunokuba nezingane ezibini ezahlukeneyo. Andifuni ukunikela nayiphi na imfihlelo, kodwa kukho ukusebenza ngokufanelekileyo kwimilinganiselo yabazali - ukwenza into efanayo kwintsana nganye ngexesha elifanayo./p>
Akungxaki. Ukwahlukana. Ukuba nabantwana babini bevaliwe ubudala, kwadalelwa amawele ase-Ireland (ngaphantsi komnyaka omnye), akafani nawa mawele. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba amama amawele aziva ecaphukile xa uzama ukwenza okufanayo.
Ukwahlukana kwamawele kunye nabantwana abazalwa bezawonye
- Akukho zandla-zam. Akukho kuphinda kusetyenziswe izixhobo zentsana, iimpahla, amathoyizi, izinto zebhokhwe. Akukho. Udinga ezimbini zezinto zonke ngexesha elifanayo. Amawele asebenzisana kakhulu, kodwa ngamnye ufuna ihlalo yakhe yemoto ukuze afike ekhaya esibhedlele. Ukususela kwiSuku lokuqala. Ingaba kunjalo nawabantwana bakho ababini abazalwa ngeenyanga ezilishumi elinesithathu?
- Ngama-singletons, ubuncinane ubuncinane kwiinyanga ezilisithoba-inxalenye engcono yonyaka! - ukulungelelanisa umntwana ngamnye. Ewe, ndiyaqonda ukuba kukho iimeko ezikhethekileyo eziza kwenza umncinci wamanxweme phakathi kwama-singletons amabini. Ukukhulelwa ngeveki emva kokubeleka. (Kutheni?) Ukuba ne-preemie ezalwa ekuqaleni. Kukho okungafaniyo. Kodwa kunjalo, ii-sletleton zakho zazizalwe ziinyanga-kungekhona imizuzu.
- Ukukhulelwa ezimbini kunye kanye . Akukho fanayo nokukhulelwa ezimbini. Kuthiweyo.
- Imiba emibili. Abantwana ababini beeminyaka ezahlukileyo, nokuba besondele kwiminyaka, abanakufumana iinkcukacha ezifanayo kunye nawa mawele. Akuqhelekanga ukuthelekisa abantwana (Owe, umntakwenu wenza into efanayo ngexesha lakho.) Ukhangeleka nje ngoodadewabo xa wayeneminyaka leyo.) Kodwa xa abantwana beamawele, ukuthelekiswa kuhamba ngokukhawuleza.
- Akukho ikhefu lokufunda kumamawele omzali. Ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo , ukukhwela ibhayisikili, ukufunda ukuqhuba, ukuqala iikholeji. Amawele amenza konke ngexesha elinye. Abazali bawakhokela ngelo xesha. Ngama-singleton, abazali banenzuzo yokufunda kumntwana omdala kwaye basebenzise ulwazi lwabo kumncinci.
- Nangona kukho ukungafani, ama-singleton aqhelekanga kwibanga elifanayo. Unamawele amaninzi. Ukuba nezingane ezisondeleyo kumabakala ahlukeneyo akufani nababantwana ababini kwibanga elifanayo. Imiba yesikolo yeewele ihlukile. Ngaba kufuneka babe kwiklasi efanayo okanye bahlukane ? Yaye uzama ukuxoxisana nobusuku beNdlu evulekileyo esikolweni kunye nezingane ezimbini kwibanga elifanayo.
Ngoko siye sakha: ayifani. Akunzima kakhulu. Okanye kulula. Uhluke. Ukuba ufunda oku kuba ungumama wamawele, uzive uvumelekile. Ngelishwa, abantu baya kusenza ibango, kwaye kuya kufuneka uqhube kwaye uyithwale.