Izinto Ozenzayo Nsuku Zonke Ukunceda Omnye Wakho Hlalani Ulungele
Khumbula unyaka okanye ezimbini (okanye ezintathu!) Edlulileyo xa uzama ukufumana i- early school child ? Ngoku ukuba umntwana wakho uye esikolweni esikolweni kwaye (ethemba) uyachuma, lixesha lokubhenca ingqalelo kwisinyathelo esilandelayo kwindlela yokufundela yengane yomntwana.
Ukunceda umntwana wakho alungiselele inkulisa akufani nokuthenga ukubuyela kwimpahla yesikolo, okanye ukhangele uhlolisise uluhlu lokutshekisha.
Kunoko yinto edelele, eqhubekayo idinga ixesha kunye nomonde.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, luncedo ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ezinye izinto ezisisiseko ngaphambi kokuba angene kwi-kindergarten-amanani ukusuka kwelinye ukuya kweshumi, iilfabhethi, imilo, imibala, njl., Kodwa mhlawumbi ukuba utitshala wontanga uya kukuxelela ukuba abafundi babo abaphumeleleyo abo bazi kakhulu. Baya kwenza kakuhle, kodwa ngabantwana abalungele uluntu kwaye banomdla ngokufunda ukuba bafumane impumelelo. Lawa a bantwana baziyo ukuhambelana kakuhle nabanye, banokulinda ithuba labo, kwaye banokuguquka ngokulula kwinto ethile ukuya kwesinye.
Ngoko unceda njani umntwana wakho ukuba alungiselele inkulisa ? Landela nje amanyathelo.
Phendula iMbuzo Yakho Yokufunda
Uyayazi indlela inkolo yakho yokufunda esikolweni ifisa ukubuza imibuzo? Isixa esingapheli sokuba kutheni kwaye njani kwaye liza njani usuku lonke? Yenza okusemandleni akho ukuphendula. Sebenzisa umbuzo ngamnye njengethuba lokufundisa nje into encinane into afuna ukuyifunda ngayo kodwa ukubenza bajabule ngokufunda nokufumana inyaniso.
Unokwenza umbuzo omncinci wakho, ucele umntwana wakho wokufundela ukuba kungani ecinga into ethile yindlela - "Kutheni ucinga ukuba iintyatyambo zikhula kakuhle ngaphandle?" - kwaye kumnceda ukuba athole impendulo. Yaye ukuba i-school schooler ikugxotha into ongeke ukwazi ukuyifumana, ungesabi ukusho njalo uze uyibuke kunye.
Funda Umntwana Wakho
Funda, ufunde, ufunde. Ukufunda ngokuzwakalayo kumntwana wakho unikezela ngeenzuzo ezininzi kuquka:
- Nceda ukuphuhlisa izakhono zokuphulaphula
- Ukwandisa isigama
- Unceda abantwana bafunde ukuchithwa kwamagama okuchanekileyo
- Ibonisa abantwana kwiimeko ezingenakuze zihlangane nazo kwaye zibafundisa indlela yokusingatha ngayo
- Inika ixesha lokubambisana
- Ukubonisa igrama kunye nesakhiwo sesigwebo
- Ikhuthaza ukucinga kunye nezihlunu zokudala
- Ukhuthaza uthando olupheleleyo lokufunda
- Ukwakha ingqwalasela
Qiniseka ukuba ufundela umntwana wakho nsuku zonke. Yaye xa ufunda, zama ukuphucula inkqubo ngakumbi nangokuba ucele umntwana wakho oko akucinga malunga nencwadi okanye into ayayiyenza kwimeko ethile. Imibuzo efana nale ncedisa ukunceda izakhono ezibalulekileyo zokucinga kwaye zinkulu zokwakha ukuqonda ukuqonda. Ukuze ujabule ngakumbi, zama ukufunda usebenzisa amazwi ahlekisayo, okanye ukuba ufunda ibrhyming book umzekelo, ukukhuthaza abantwana ukuba bafike ngeemvumi zabo ezingenangqondo okanye benze izinto ezenzeka kwali bali.
Khuthaza ukuzimela.
Xa ubona umfundi wakho oneminyaka eyi-15 ubudala elwa nomsebenzi othile-edonsa ibhulukhwe yakhe emva kokusebenzisa indlu yokuhlambela, okanye aze azame ukuvula ibhokisi layo le-juice - kulula ukuyilungisa nokulungisa imeko.
Kodwa ngokwenza isenzo somntwana wakho omncinci ungamfundisi nto ngaphandle kokuba eze kuwe xa engafuni ukwenza into ngokwayo. (Kwaye kunye nabantwana abangama-20 eklasini, kuya kuba nzima kunotitshala wontanga ukuba ancede wonke umntu emva kokuhlambela!) Ngexesha elizayo xa ubona umntwana wakho elwa nomsebenzi wokunyamekela , mnike umzuzu okanye ezimbini. Ukuba umntwana usenenkathazo, mncede, kodwa ungenzi. Into enhle kakhulu enokuyenza kumntwana wakho kukumnika izixhobo azifunayo ukwenza into ethile.
Dlala (Emahle) kunye nomntwana wakho
Mhlawumbi uyazi ngoku ukuba ungumfundisi wakho ongcono kunye nompembelelo omkhulu.
Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba azibonele izakhono zentlalo (njengokutshintshana, ukwabelana kunye nezinye izinto ezinobuntu) ngokumisela umntanakho indlela yokusebenza. Umzekelo, ukuba udlala umdlalo kunye, unokubonisa ukuba ngumsebenzi omhle umntwana wakho owenzayo elinde ithuba lakhe lokuhamba (okanye ulungise kakuhle ukuba unenkathazo ngale ndlela). Xa umntwana wakho edlala nabanye abantwana, musa ukunyanzela, kodwa gcina indlebe malunga noko bathethayo komnye nomnye kunye nendlela abadibana ngayo. Kamva, khankanya indlela enza ngayo umsebenzi omhle odlala nomhlobo wakhe kunye nendlela oziqhayisa ngayo ngokuziphatha okuthile.