Ngaba Unyana Wakho Unenkinga Yomfanekiso WesiXeko kwaye Yintoni Okufanele Uyazi?
Umfanekiso womzimba wesilisa ngumxholo oza kukuva ngakumbi malunga nekamva. Njengoko umzekelo wesilinganiso somzila wesifazane uye wanciphisa, umlinganiselo wesiganeko se-Playgirl ufumene ungcono kwaye uninzi lwe-muscular. Abafana banomuva wokunyanzeliswa ukuba babonakale njengemifanekiso yeendaba abayibonayo, ngamanye amaxesha nemiphumo eyingozi.
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Yintoni umzimba womntu ogqibeleleyo?
Ukuba ubukela iTV okanye ufunde umagazini, kucacisa oko kuthathwa njengomzimba omele umntu. I-fat fat body kunye ne-muscle eninzi yenza ukuba ukhangele "usike" okanye "uqwengqele" -kuloo nto ibonakaliswa njengento ekhangayo. Phonsa kwinqani elincinci kunye namagxa amakhulu, unike umzimba umzimba owu-V-shaped torso. umzimba wesilisa.
Baphi abafana bethu bafumana ezi ngcamango? Nangona kungekho uphando olwaneleyo kulo mbandela, abanye abaphandi bahlola imiyalezo abafana bethu bayifumana. Imizimba yamadoda isetyenziswe kaninzi ukuthengisa iimveliso - iimveliso zihlala zihambelana nomzimba okanye ukunyamekela. Amakhwenkwe ethu amakhwenkwe ayenokubonakaliswa kwemifanekiso engenangqiqo yento yomzimba "wendoda" ekufuneka ibonakale. Kwiminyaka engama-20 edlulileyo, amanani amanyathelo afana ne-GI Joe ayenama-muscular ngaphezulu kwaye imisipha yabo ichazwe ngakumbi. Oku kuye kwaya kwinqanaba apho ukuba isenzo somntu sasingumntu wokwenene, bekungeke kwenzeke ukuba nabani na ukuba banani!
Ukuba ukhangele nawaphi na umagazini, izidumbu zeduna zixhomekeka kwaye, njengemizimba yamabhinqa, i-airbrushed kwaye iguqule ukuba ibonakale ibonakala ngokukhawuleza. Ukusuka kwiTV ukuya kumaphephancwadi kwiimidlalo ezithandekayo, kunzima oonyana bethu ukuba baphephe imifanekiso yento ekucingwa ukuba yinyani epheleleyo.
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Ukwahlukana kweendawo kunye neenkcubeko
Ngaba amajelo nakwiinkcubeko zethu zityholo? Kubonakala ngaloo ndlela. Inqaku kwiGazethi yeYunivesithi yaseHarvard ibhekiselele kwimibono yomzimba kumadoda avela eNtshona (iUnited States neYurophu) ngokumelene namadoda aseAsia. Kwafunyaniswa ukuba amadoda aseTaiwan anelisekile kakhulu ngemizimba yawo kwaye asebenzise kakubi i-anabolic steroids xa kuthelekiswa namadoda aseNtshona. Eli nqaku libonisa ukuba isiko laseTaiwan lixabisa amadoda ngenxa yeengqondo zabo neenkcubeko zabo, kungekhona nje imizimba yabo. Ukongezelela, ngokungafaniyo nase-US, kwakungekho amaphephancwadi eTaiwan ayenempilo okanye ukwakha umzimba. Kunengqiqo yokuba ukuba amadoda axabiswa ngezinto ezingabonakaliyo, kwaye ukuba azibonakalwanga imizimba enokuthi ayifumaneke, yokuba babeya kuba nemibono yokwamkela imizimba yabo.
Imidiya yokuncokola
Ukongeza kwimeko yesikolo kunye nemiboniso yeTV, i-media media iye yongezelela indlela entsha yokuba intsha ifumaneke kumfanekiso womzimba onobuhle ngexesha ngexesha elifanayo nokuxhalabisa ngokubonakala kwazo. Iingxelo ezimbi malunga nokubonakala kwentombazana ekuphenduleni ukuhlaziywa, umzekelo, kunokuphazamisa. Olunye uphando olujonge impembelelo yeendaba zoluntu kwimifanekiso yomzimba lufumene ukuba iindawo ezinomngcipheko zazibukela kwaye zilayishe iifoto kwaye zifuna impendulo engalunganga ngokuhlaziywa kohlobo lwabantombazana namakhwenkwe.
Umzobo Wezithuthi zabafana nabaMantombazana
Impendulo yokuba ngaba amakhwenkwe okanye amantombazana abangenelisekanga ngemifanekiso yomzimba kukuba akukho mntu oqinisekileyo. Oko sikwaziyo kukuba kukho ubungqina bokuba amakhwenkwe namadoda aqala ukuva uxinzelelo lokuba "nomzimba ophelileyo." Olunye uphando lubonisa ukuba amadoda ayenganelisekanga kakhulu ngemizimba yawo, azibona nje enamafutha amaninzi kunokuba ayenawo. Okumangalisa kukuba, nangona babecinga ukuba "batyebile" kunokuba bekunjalo ngokwenene, amadoda eleso sifundo azibonela njengama-muscular more than they really.
Olunye uhlolisiso lufumene ukuba amadoda ayenganelisekanga ngomzimba wabo njengabafazi.
Abafazi babengenelisekile ngesisindo sabo kuba babeziva benzima kakhulu. La madoda ayehlukeneyo phakathi kweenkampu ezimbini. Elinye iqela lamadoda lavakalelwa kukuba likhulu kakhulu. Elinye iqela lamadoda lacinga ukuba likhulu kakhulu. Olu pho nonongo lubonisa ukuba amadoda aneengcinezelo ezimbini-ingcinezelo yokuxhomekeka kunye neengcinezelo zokwakha izihlunu ezinkulu.
Akucaci ngeli xesha ukuba ngubani onganelisekanga ngemizimba yawo okanye ukuba umzimba womzimba uhlahloka. Uphando lubhekisela kuzo zombini kwezo zikhokelo, ngokukodwa njengoko imiphumo yomzimba ohluphekileyo iphakama kwiintlobo zokutya kwabantu, kunye nokuphazamiseka komzimba kumadoda.
Iziphumo zezinto ezilindelekileyo
Amadoda ayichitha ixesha elide, imali kunye namandla ekujongeni "okulungileyo." Basebenzisa imali ethe xaxa kwizinto eziqhumayo, izikrini zobuso, iimveliso zeenwele, ukutshintsha kweenwele, kunye nokuhlinzwa kweplastiki. Ukuba unyana wakho uhlalutya kwi-cologne encinane, mhlawumbi umkhwa wokuzilungisa. Ukuba umntwana wakho uthetha ngesidlo sokutya okanye i-liposuction, kunokubakho ngaphezulu kwengxaki.
Olunye uphando olunzulu lukhangelelene nolwaneliseko lomzimba lwabantu kunye nendlela oluhlobene ngayo nokudakumba, ukutya ukuphazamiseka, ukusetyenziswa kwezixhobo zokuphucula ukusebenza kunye nokuzithoba . Akumangalisi ukuba abantu abangenelisekanga ngemizimba yabo babe nezinga eliphezulu lokudandatheka kunye neengxaki zokutya. Amadoda anganelisekanga asebenzisa izinto ezinokubangela ukuqhuba izinto ezinjenge-supplementary counter-supplements okanye i-anabolic steroids kwaye babe ne-self-esteem. Iziphumo zesifundo zibonakalisa oko kubonakala ngathi kunengqiqo. Ukuba umntu unesimo somzimba ompofu, unokuthatha amanyathelo okutshintsha umzimba wakhe, nokuba uthetha ukukhawulela ukutya kwinqanaba eliyingozi okanye ukuthatha izinto ezinobungozi.
Nini ukukhathazeka
Ingqikelelo ye-10 ekhulwini yabantu abafumana uncedo kwisifo sokutya bayabantu, kodwa abanye bacinga ukuba le nombolo iphantsi. Ukuba unyana wakho ubonakala egxininisekile ekubonakaleni kwakhe, uyazikhusela oko akudlayo, usebenzisa izibonelelo, okanye asebenzise ngokugqithiseleyo, ixesha lokuxoxa ngomzimba nomzimba. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba ukuziphatha kwakhe kunobungozi, xubusha iingxaki zakho neengcali zakho. Unokukunceda ukusingatha le ngxaki enzima, okanye ukubhekisela kwingcali onokukunceda.
Funda amaqiniso kunye namanani malunga ne- anabolic steroid esebenzisekayo e -United States, kunye nendlela yokuchonga ukuba unyana wakho unokusebenzisa i-anabolic steroids ngabazali abaninzi abaqapheli ukuba abatsha babo basebenzisa ezi zinto.
Indlela yokukhuthaza umfanekiso weBhunga elihle
Nangona unyana wakho engabonakali ukukhathazeka ngokubonakala kwakhe okanye ukubonisa iimpawu ezikukhathazayo, unokuqiniseka ukuba ubuncinane wayecinga ngomfanekiso wakhe womzimba. Uvavanyo lwe-2016 lwase-Australia malunga nabantwana abaneminyaka eli-12 ukuya kwe-18 lubonise ukuba phantse ama-50 ekhulwini ala ma-teens avunyelwe kwiinkxalabo malunga nokubonakala kwawo. Hlola ezi ngcebiso malunga nendlela yokukhuthaza nokukhuthaza umfanekiso omzimba owenzayo kwiminyaka yakho yeshumi .
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