Ukuqonda Iingxelo zeKomiti yeeNgxelo
Iingxelo zamakhadi ezichazayo ziye zide ukusuka iintsuku apho bonke abazali babetshelwe ukuba uJohnny wayengasebenzi kumandla akhe okanye uJane wayefuna ukuzama kanzima. Ootitshala banamhlanje bayasebenza kanzima ukuqinisekisa ukuba izimvo zekhadi lokunika ingxelo zihloniphekileyo kodwa iinkcazelo ezichanileyo zentsebenzo yomntwana nobuntu.
Ngokufanelekileyo, utitshala womntwana wakho uya kuthetha into athetha ngayo, kodwa ukuzithemba ngamanye amaxesha kubonisa intsingiselo yokwenene, okwenza kube nzima ukwazi ukuba ngaba bathetha ngantoni izimvo zamakhadi.
Nazi ezinye iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ezisetyenziswayo.
Ziyintoni na ezi ziNgcaciso zeKhadi leKhadi?
Iingcamango: Imisebenzi ye-_______ iyaphucula.
Ukuguqulelwa: Nangona umntwana wakho wenza ngcono ekulandeleni izikhokelo kunye nokugqiba umsebenzi wakhe, mhlawumbi uye waya kwindawo eqaqambileyo ngokucwangcisa ixesha lakhe lomsebenzi okanye ukuphazamiseka kwabanye abantwana. Utitshala ubona ukuphucula, kodwa ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho usenendlela yokuhamba ngaphambi kokuba asebenze kwiklasi yokufundela.
Iingcamango: Uninzi ukunikela kwiingxoxo zeklasi kwaye unomdla wokuxelela ulwazi lwakhe nalo lonke iqela.
Ukuguqulelwa: Umntwana wakho unomdla wokufunda ngezihloko ezintsha kunye nxaxheba osebenzayo kwimfundo yakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ukulangazelela kwakhe kunokufumana indlela yokuthabatha ingxoxo yakhe, elinde ukubizwa okanye ukukhumbula ukuphakamisa isandla sakhe.
Ingxelo: Ngaba unomdla wokugqiba izabelo ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha ngexabiso lokuchaneka.
Ukuguqulelwa: Umntwana wakho ugqiba umsebenzi wakhe ngokukhawuleza apho, nangona kunjalo kungeyona nto ingxaki, kunokubangela ukuba enze iimpazamo ezingakhathaliyo. Ufuna ukunciphisa kwaye ahlole umsebenzi wakhe.
Iingcamango: Ngaba kulungile xa ugxininisa umsebenzi owenziwe .
Ukuguqulelwa: Oku kukho ukuchazwa kwegama elithi "linakho ukuthetha", oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho uyakwazi kakhulu kwaye wenza kakuhle kakhulu, kodwa ubonakala enenkathazo egxile emsebenzini wakhe.
(Le ngxelo ingadinga ukulandelelana okuyingxenye yakho.) Unokufuna ukubuza uthisha ukuba le nto iphelelwe kwizifundo ezithile okanye ingaba umntwana wakho ubonisa ukungabikho kokugxininisa okudinga ukuhlola okungakumbi .)
Igalelo: Ngaba uyaqiniseka ngakumbi ngamakhono akhe.
Ukuguqulelwa: Umntwana wakho uqala ukuthatha inxaxheba ngakumbi kwaye uzive kakuhle ngemisebenzi yakhe. Ukuba umntwana wakho unamahloni, kusenokuthetha ukuba uqala ukufikelela kwintlalo.
Igalelo: Ngokukhuthazwa, _________ idibana kakuhle nabanye abafundi.
Ukuguqulelwa: Umntwana wakho uyanqikaza ukuqala ukusebenzisana nabanye abantwana okanye usebenzisana nezindlela ezingalunganga. Iindaba ezilungileyo ngutitshala akayikubona oku njengembambano enzima kakhulu, njengokuba kukho umkhombandlela omdala okanye uhamba phambili, umntwana wakho usadlala nabanye abantwana.
Ingxelo: Ingaba yinkokeli yentlalo.
Ukuguqulelwa: Umntwana wakho uthandwa kakhulu kwabanye abafundi kwaye uhlala efanelekileyo phakathi kwezinto. Eli gqabaza lithetha ukuba umntwana wakho unomntu omncinane kwaye uyathanda ukuba nabanye abantwana bamlandele.
Iingxelo: Ngaba kunzima ukuguquka kwimisebenzi engaphandle.
Ukuguqulelwa: Xa abafundi bebuya kwi-recess, isidlo sasemini okanye i-specials (njengeMculo okanye i-Art), umntwana wakho unenkathazo yokulungisa phantsi kwaye abuyele kwiklasi yokufundela.
Iingcamango: Kubonakala kunzima ukulungelelanisa kwimigaqo kunye nemizila yeklasi.
Ukuguqulelwa: Le ngxelo iyinto echanekileyo, kodwa idinga ukulandelelwa kwinqanaba lakho. Umntwana wakho akawulandeli imithetho kunye neendlela ezifana nabanye abafundi, kodwa kufuneka ufumane ukuba oko kuthetha ukuba uyangcola okanye unenkathazo enxulumene nokufunda .
Iingcamango: Ngaba unokufumana inzuzo yakho kwinkalo yokufunda / yokuqhuba ___________.
Ukuguqulelwa: Umntwana wakho akanako ukugqiba umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo, usebenzise amagama akhe opelo okanye enze ukufunda okwaneleyo ngaphandle kwesikolo. Awunayo inkathazo eyaneleyo yokuqinisekisa ukuba kungenelela ngoncedo lwezikolo , kodwa kufuneka uchithe ixesha elithile efunda ekhaya.