Amanqwanqwa agqithisa ukuziphatha okubi
Umntwana onesimo esibi kakhulu uhlala ebonakala engqondweni. Izikhalazo eziqhubekayo, ukungonwabi okubonakalayo kunye nezinye izinto ezingathandekiyo zinokugqoka lula kunoma yimuphi umzali. Kulula kubazali kunye nabantwana ukuba bangene kumzekelo wokusebenzisana okungahambiyo, kodwa inguqu yokuziphatha ingenzeka.
Njengomzali, kufuneka uhlakulele izicwangciso zokuziphatha ezikusebenzela wena nomntwana wakho.
Indlela efanelekileyo yokujongana nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kukuba uthathe iindlela ezine. Ezi zicwangciso ziyakunceda ukulawula isimo sengqondo somntwana wakho ukuze ungabafundisa indlela yokuxabisa ubuncwane obuncinane kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla.
1. Ungayithobeli iMimoya emibi
Musa ukuyihoxisa umntwana wakho xa ephosakeleyo . Ungayihoyi imeko. Xa ungaphenduli ngokungahambi komntwana wakho, uthatha inyathelo elilodwa ekugqibeleni ukucima ukuziphatha okubi. Isimo sengqondo esibonisa ukwamukelwa komntwana wakho, isimo sengqondo esingathandekiyo kunye nazo zonke, kuya kuhlala kugcinwe ubudlelwane bakho kwaye kukuvumela ukuba uqhubeke nokuchaphazela uphuhliso oluhle.
2. Ukuchonga izidingo ezingezantsi
Ngokukhawuleza uza kukwazi ukubona iipatheni zomntwana wakho zemiba engalunganga. Mhlawumbi kukubi kakhulu kusasa, okanye emva nje kwesikolo. Njengabantu, sisengozini yokugwenxa nokuziphatha kancanky ngokuqhelekileyo xa sikhathele okanye silambile.
Iimeko ezintsha nazo zibophelelwe ukuba ziphendule kakubi.
Ukusebenzisana kwezentlalo esikolweni kunye namaqela okudlala kunokunyanzeliswa okanye aphikisana, kwaye kubonakala ngathi kunzima xa umntwana wakho ekhula. Umntwana wakho unokufuna ukunakwa kwakho, kunye nokugcoba isicwangciso sabo sokufumana.
Xa ukhankanya iimfuno zomntwana wakho eziphathekayo zokuphila kakuhle, ukucwangciswa nokuhlala rhoqo kwimihla ngemihla, ukucwangciswa kweemeko ezintsha, ukuphuhliswa kwentlalo kunye nokukhathazeka okulungileyo , umntwana wakho uya kukhulisa ulawulo oluqinileyo malunga neemvakalelo zakhe kunye nokukwazi ukulungelelanisa imizwa engalunganga .
3. Ukumelana nokungahambi kakuhle
Musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlakulele imvakalelo yabo okanye alawulwe yonke imimoya yentsapho ngokuziphatha kwabo okukhalazayo nokuziphatha kakubi. Ukujongana neengxelo ezingenangqondo okanye ukubonisa iinkalo ezintle zengxaki. Ukuba abafikeleli, into elula "Kwanele. Ndiyaqonda ukuba uvakalelwa ngaloo ndlela, kodwa ..." yanele. Hambisa kunye nemisebenzi yakho kwaye vumela umntwana wakho ukuba umxholo uvaliwe.
4. Fundisa ukuziphatha okuhle
Ukubuza umntwana ngengqondo engathandekiyo ngokukhula ngokukhawuleza, isimo sengqondo esilungileyo sinomyalelo omude, kodwa unokubanceda bafunde ukwenza izinto kakuhle nangona bengakuvuyo. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba enze umgudu omhle xa ukusabela kwabo kokuqala kukubi. Khokela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlaziye ukuba awonakalise ubudlelwane boluntu kunye nesimo sengqondo esibi.
Bancede bahlakulele izinto zokuzonwabisa kunye neminqweno yokuba 1) bayayonwabela, kwaye 2) inokukhupha okanye idibanise isimo sengqondo esibi. Nika umntwana wakho ukhetho phakathi kokukhethwa kwembini, nangona bengenakuvuyela. Ba bonise uthando kunye nothando ukuze bafunde ukwabelana ngokufanayo. Ukwabelana ngolonwabo lwakho kunye nokubulela kunika umzekelo wokuphila oya kuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba anqobe ubunzima bawo.