Khuthaza kwiBasebenzi
Ngamazwi ngokubanzi okukhuthazwa kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo bangenza umehluko omkhulu. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uthatha elinye inyathelo kwaye ucinga malunga noko kuthetha ntoni kubasebenzi - unomfanekiso omkhulu. Ukukhulelwa kukude, kodwa ukusebenza, ngelixa elifutshane, likhulu kakhulu kwaye amagama owasebenzisayo aya kwenza ukubahluko ocacileyo.
Induduzo kuMsebenzi
Induduzo ekubambeni ivela kwiintlobo ezininzi, nangona ininzi yexesha sithatha ukucinga ngemilinganiselo yendlela yokududuza kunye nentlungu yokuphuza amayeza .
Indlela elula kakhulu malunga nabani na ukunceda intuthuzelo ngumfazi osebenzayo ukuthetha naye. La mazwi anomnene ayamnceda aze asebenze kunye naye onokuzalwa okungenakuzalwa okanye ukuzalwa nge- epidural . Amagama kunye nendlela athetha ngayo angenza umehluko omkhulu ngendlela akhumbula ngayo amava akhe omsebenzi kunye nokuzalwa.
Izinto Ezilishumi Zokuthetha Ngomsebenzi
- Bambelela apho!
Eli binzana libonelela ngenqaku lenkxaso ngaphandle kokunyanzeliswa okukhulu, eli binzana liyi-generic, kodwa linokukukhupha xa ungaqinisekanga ukuba yintoni enye into ongayithethayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyayisebenzisa ngokugqithiseleyo, qaphela, inokuphinda ibuyele kuwe. - Wenza umsebenzi omkhulu.
Akunakukholwa, nokuba yinyaniso. Amava akhe okwenzekayo kubasebenzi azivahluke kakhulu kunokuba ubona. Oku kuthetha ukuba unokuziva engekho kulawulo ngelixa ekhangelekile kwaye eqokelelwe. Zama ukumkhumbuza oko akwenzayo nokuba kutheni le nto inokukunceda. - Ndiyakuthanda.
Oku kubonakala kukhangelekile, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukubonakaliswa kobuthathaka kwimizalwane yakhe kuthetha okungakumbi ngeli xesha. Khumbula ukumxelela oku rhoqo. UDoulas uhlala ekhumbuza iintsapho zabaxhasi babo ukuba baxelele umntu osebenzayo oku njengentsebenzo yabasebenzi. Abanye abaxhamli bavakalisa ukuba banomdla wothando xa bebukela inkqubela phambili yabasebenzi.
- Cinga ngomntwana ...
Ngomama ofuna ukukhunjulwa ngentsana ekubambeni , okulula kunokuba ucinga ukulibala, oku kunokuba luncedo. Ungasebenzisa kwakhona ibinzana elifanayo elivunyelwene ngalo emsebenzini. Unokumkhuthaza ukuba umfanekise umntwana, ngaba oko kuyamkeleka kuye. Yindlela enhle yokusebenza ekubonweni kwenduduzo. Unokumbuza nje ngezinto ezithile ezinokubaluleka kuye okanye ngokubaluleka ngokubanzi. Umzekelo uza kubuza: Ingaba ucinga ukuba lo mntwana uya kuba neenwele ezininzi xa bezalwa?
- Uya kuba ngumama omkhulu .
Ngamanye amaxesha abafazi abasebenzayo bayesaba, kubandakanywa uhlobo lwenina abaza kuba nalo. Ukuba ukhathazekile ngale nto, qiniseka ukuba ubuze ngaphambi kwexesha ukufumanisa ukuba uloyiko oluthile lwakhe kwaye usebenzise ukuqinisekiswa ukukunceda ukwenze ukwesaba. Umzekelo unokukhathazeka ukuba akayi kukwazi ukuba wenzeni: Wena kunye nosana lwakho kuya kusebenza kunye ukuze nifunde omnye nomnye. - Kuhle!
Igama elihle elikhawulezayo lokumemeza kwindlebe yakhe xa kunamazinga okuxinwa kakhulu. Ungasebenzisa phantse nawaphi na elinye igama elinentsingiselo efanayo. Cinga: inkulu, ilungile, yunjalo ... Se benzisa naliphi igama elivakalelwa ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Oku kuyingxenye yengxenye yenguqu yezabasebenzi xa izichaso ziza ngokukhawuleza kwaye ingqwalasela yakhe iyancipha. - Qhubeka uhamba...
Ukugqwesa kwemvume ngexesha lomsebenzi omdala, njengokuba "Ndiyazi ukuba ukhathele, kodwa wenza into enhle, ngoko qhubeka uhamba ..." Unokucinga kwakhona ukuthetha into ekhuthazayo, njengokuthi: "Unalo. .. "okanye" U ______! " Faka nayiphi na isichazi esifanelekileyo ixesha elide legama. Oku kucacile ukuba ngumntu osebenzayo ngalo mzuzu. - Ndilapha ngenxa yenu.
Awuyi kumshiya, qiniseka ukuba uyazi loo nto. Ngamanye amaxesha ungazihlukaniswa ngokusesikweni ngelabhu yokuzalwa okanye abasebenzi bezonyango, maye ilizwi lakho libe yisikhumbuzo kuye ukuba usaphila khona. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuthetha oku kubandakanywa: Andiyi ndawo kwaye ndilapha.
- Ncinane nje ...
Sebenzisa le nto kuphela xa uqinisekile ukuba uyinyaniso. Ngaphandle koko, ulahlekelwe ukuthembeka kwakho. Cela ubuchwephesha obusondeleyo uncedo apha kwaye wazi ukuba baqaphela. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha unokuqiniseka ukuba umntwana uya kuzalwa, ngumdlalo wokuqagela. Igama lokulumkisa, ungakhange ubuye emva kwendlela ofikile ngayo. Oku kunokuba kunzima kumntu osebenzayo. Yenza nje ukukhawuleza kwezinto ezizayo: Ngobusuku uya kukhwela umntwana wakho omtsha! - Uyenza!
Oku kungakhuthaza kakhulu xa ephosa. Inokwenene idlulisele amandla kunye nezovuyo. Unokumnceda ukuba abone umntwana ngekhredithi, okanye uthinte intloko yesana njengoko ivela ukuba ufuna. Oku kunokukunceda ukuba aqonde oko ubona ngokubhekiselele kwinto aziva ngayo emsebenzini
Oko uthetha kubaluleke kakhulu. Kukho izinto ezimbalwa onokuthi ungathethi kumfazi osebenzayo . Ukukhumbula engqondweni ukuba, kunye nale miba embalwa, unokwenza okunene kakhulu.