Ukuhlakulela ukubulela kunokubanceda abantwana banqothule
Uphando olutsha lubonisa ukuba ukuhlamba umbulelo akukhuthazi kuphela ukunyusa impilo yansuku zonke nokwandisa ithemba kodwa kwakhona kuguqula ingqondo. Enyanisweni, uphando olutsha lwengqondo lwengqondo lufumene ukuba abantu abaninzi baqala ukubonga, ngakumbi kuba yindlela yokuphila kubo.
Ukongezelela, ukubulela kukukhuthaza uxolo kunye nokuwaneliseka. Kwakhona kunceda abantu bajonge izinto ezintle ebomini babo kunokuba bahlale behleli.
Ngenxa yoko, abanye abaphandi bakholelwa ukuba ukuhlalisana phakathi kwexhoba lokuxhatshazwa kunokubanceda bajongane ngokuthe ngcembe ngeemeko ezimbi ebomini babo njengokuxhatshazwa.
Malunga neSifundo
Abaphandi beYunivesithi yase-Indiana, eholwa nguPrathik Kini, baqeshwe abantu abangama-43 abaye baphathwa ngokuxhalabisa okanye ukuxinezeleka. Amashumi amabini anesibini kubo babelwa ukunyaniseka. Okwangoku, abanye abathathi-nxaxheba beqela lolawulo.
Kwiiseshoni ezimbalwa zokuqala, abo babelwe iqela lokubulela bachitha imizuzu engama-20 babhala ukubonga iincwadi. Ukuthumela iileta emva kokuba iiseshoni zishiywe kubo. Kwiinyanga ezintathu emva koko, abathathi-nxaxheba abangama-43 bathatha inxaxheba kwi-"Pay Pay Forward" umsebenzi wokubulela kwisicatshulwa sengqondo.
Ngethuba lolochopho lwabadlali batyhulwa ukuba umniki-mali wayebanikele imali. Emva koko, babuzwa ukuba bangathanda yini ukunikela ngengxenye yeemali kwizothando njengendlela yokubonga kwabo.
Abo bazinika imali babonisa uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi kwiibilini zabo ngexesha lokujonga. Abaphandi baziva ukuba le ndlela ihambelana ngqo nombulelo abavakalelwa ngayo.
Ngaphezu koko, abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba imali eyabandakanyekayo yabanikela, kwaye unamandla ngakumbi ukuvakalelwa, umsebenzi owenziwe ngexesha lokujonga.
Okuthakazelisayo kukuba, le patheni ibonakala ihluke kwezinye iipateni eziqhelekileyo zibonakala ngexesha leemvavanyo ezivavanya iimvakalelo ezifana novelwano . Le nyaniso ibonisa ukuba ukubulela kuyimvakalelo ekhethekileyo.
Isebenza Njani?
Yintoni abaphandi abafumene ngayo kukuba abo babesigqibile umsebenzi wokubulela bavakalisa ukuvakalelwa ngakumbi kwiiveki ezimbini emva komsebenzi kunezo zecandelo lolawulo. Abaphandi bachaza oku "njengalunzulu" kunye "nokuhlala ixesha elide."
Iziphumo zibonisa ukuba nangona inyanga emva kokubhala okulula, okuncoma ukubulela, ingqondo yomntu isachukumisekile ukuba uzive unombulelo ngakumbi. Oku kuphakamisa ukuba imisebenzi yokubulela yinto yokuzigcina yendalo kwaye inokuba nemiphumo engapheliyo kulabo abanobulelo .
Yintoni ekugqitywa ngayo kukuba abantwana abaninzi abaxhatshazwayo babonisa ukubulela ezinye izinto ebomini babo, ngakumbi ingqondo yabo iyavumelana nale ngcamango. Le ngxaki inokunciphisa ukucinga kwexhoba nokunceda abantwana bahlaziye iimeko zabo . Ukongezelela, ukubonga kunokuba luncedo ekubancedeni ukubeka uxhatshazo kwixesha elidlulileyo ngokugxila kwizinto ezintle ebomini babo. Kwakhona kunokukunceda ukuvula ingqondo yabo ekucingeni kakuhle nokuxazulula iingxaki .
Nangona ezi ziphumo ziphela nje, uninzi luya kuthetha ukuba iinzame ezenzelwa ukuxhatshazwa zenza umbulelo naphezu kweemeko zazo, ngakumbi ukuvakalelwa kuza kuza ngokuzayo ngokuzayo.
Ngamanye amazwi, xa besenza umbulelo, banamathela ngakumbi kunye nabo banokufumana uncedo olunzulu lwengqondo. Abanye banokuze baxubushe oku kunokunciphisa ubunzulu apho bafumana khona iziphumo zokuxhatshazwa .