Ukuya kusana lomntwana kungabangela ubuhlungu emva kokuphuphuma kwesisu
Emva kokuba uhluphekile, ukucinga ukuthenga isipho kumntwana womnye kwaye uye kwiqela apho umama okhulelweyo, onomdla ofumana umvuzo wesipho somntwana angabonakala engenakunzima.
Ngokuxhomekeke kwindawo ohlala kuyo intlungu yakho kunye nolwalamano lwakho nomntu ohlonishwayo kwisitya, unokukhetha ukuphuma okanye unokugqiba isigqibo sokuba uzenzele kwaye uzenze nxamnye nosizi lwakho.
Ukuba ukuza kusana kubantwana kunokukwenza ube nemvakalelo kwaye ungacingi ukuba ungayifumana ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo , ungahambi. Ukuba isitya sisomntu ongekho kumntu ongazi kakuhle ilahleko lakho, yithi nje unamanye amacebo ngaloo mini. Thumela ikhadi kunye / okanye isipho ngovuyo lwakho endaweni yoko.
Ukuba umntwana washawa ngumhlobo othandekayo okanye isondlo esondeleyo, kunokuba nzima ukuba ungahambi. Unokukhetha ukuhamba nje njengomqondiso wokuxhasa umntu, kodwa ukuba uyayiva ukuba awukwazi ukuyisebenzisa, yehla - kodwa uthetha kumntu lowo kwangaphambili malunga nokuba awuhambi. Nika ukubonga kwakho kunye nesipho ngasese, kodwa uchaza ukuba usadabuka ukukhulelwa kwakho kwaye uloyiko lokuba iqela liza kuba likhulu kakhulu. Naliphi na umhlobo osondeleyo uya kuqonda ngokupheleleyo ukuba kutheni ungasayi kuhlamba umntwana phantsi kweemeko.
Ukuba nabani na ongavumiyo ukungahambi kwakho kwaye ubeka izimvo ezinje "Ndicinga ukuba uya kuba ngaphaya kwelo xesha," ke akuyena umntu ofanelwe nkampani yakho.
Zama ukuvumela abanye ukungabi nesikhubekiso kukuthukuthelise okanye kukuhlazisile ukuya kwi
Unokwenza isigqibo sokuya kwisitya somntwana mhlawumbi ukuba isitya singomnye umntu oziva ufuphi kakhulu. Kule meko, inyathelo lokuqala kukuzivuma ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuba isiganeko sibe kuwe. Ungesabi ukunyuka ukuya kwindawo yokuhlambela ukuba ufanele ukhale isikhashana, kwaye ungesabi ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukutywala intloko ukuba awukwazi ukuyisebenzisa.
Ukuba abanye abaya kwilawa bayazi ngokukhulelwa kwakho, qulunqa imibuzo malunga nezicwangciso zakho zexesha elizayo. Ukukhulelwa kuya kuba sengqondo yomntu wonke, ngoko abantu bangakubuza xa uceba ukuzama kwakhona okanye wenze ezinye izimvo malunga nokukhulelwa kwakho . Yenza impendulo ekulungele ingqondo ukuze ungabanjwa. Ungaziveki ukuba unyanzelekile intlungu yakho kunoma ubani.
Ukuba ubonakala uhlungu, ungazami ukufihla isizathu. Abantu mhlawumbi bacinga ukuba kunzima xa uthe udixekile ngenxa yokuba unesisu esandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa kungekudala kwaye kusenokuba kunzima ukuba uzame ukuzenza izizathu malunga nokuba uhamba ntoni ukuze usule iinyembezi zakho. Tshela nabani na ocela ukuba ufike ngenxa yokuba ufuna ukuxhasa umhlobo wakho onentsana kodwa ukuba kunzima ukuba ube neenxa yokuhlangana kwezingane.
Xa ubuya kwisiganeko, zinike ixesha lokuhlaziya. Thatha ixesha elithile ukuba uphinde uphinde uphume kwaye uphinde ukhulule.
Enoba uya kuhlamba okanye awukho, unokuvakalelwa ukuthumela isipho kunye nomhlobo wakho okanye umntwana osapho. Kule meko, cinga ukuthenga into esuka kwisitoreji se-intanethi - ubuncinane akuyi ku funeka ungene kwivenkile apho abanye abanye abathengi banokukhulelwa okanye baphathe umntwana osana.
Ukuba awufuni ukukhangela isayithi lomntwana, cinga ukuthumela isitifiketi sesipho. Isatifikethi sesipho silula kwaye asidingi nabuphi uphephelo-kwaye kuyaqinisekileyo ukuba siyakuncoma nokuba kuthenga nje i-diapers.